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Richarda, 38
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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Me:Very happy with where I am in my life, just missing a companion. Work hard taking care of others as an NP...love my job. Have been told I'm honest to a fault....I can't stand even a white lie. I am loyal to my family and friends. I will always have their back. Being active keeps me balanced. Love to dance, spin, weight lift, & kickbox. Also love to run, especially races. Very proud of both accomplishments. I believe that giving is far more rewarding than receiving. I can't cook, but I keep trying. I have burned pasta...I probably shouldn't even admit that! I wear sneakers as often as I wear stilettos. I love restaurants with a beautiful ambiance as much as the local dive. With the right company, any environment can be amazing. The list of places I would like to visit is much, much longer! I'm a bit of a girly girl...I love to dress up, wear makeup and perfume. However, when I work out I sweat like a guy! I can't spell, thank god for spell check. I'm a sucker for anything romantic...books, movies, music etc. I light candles even when I'm home alone. Did I mention that I love to dance? I think it is one of the most intimate things you can do in public and still be considered socially appropriate. Love how close you can get to your partner and a man with rhythm is a bonus! I'm financially responsible but not cheap. My most important job is being a mother to my children. They have taught me the value of selflessness. I have been told that I am sassy, I took that as a compliment. I am an independent women...i do not need a man to take care of me. However, I do appreciate a man who is chivalrous. I love to kiss. You:A well educated, motivated man with dreams and aspirations. Able to balance work and play. Physically fit, I like to work out with the guys I date. Knows how to respect a women. Can flirt without crossing the line of being dirty. Non smoker & no drugs. Social drinking is cool. I'm cool with a guy who has kids, it will help me see how well you take care of others. Will dance with me...and not just when you are drunk. Has hobbies different than mine so that I can be exposed to some new adventures. Treat your family and friends with respect and kindness. However, I do find a man with a sarcastic wit appealing as long as he is not offending others. Be prepared for me to dish the sarcasm back. Believes in honesty even when it may get you into trouble. Sometimes it takes more courage to be truthful and I will respect that in the end. Can be spontaneous. Communicates well. Want a man who is interested in getting to know who I am, I don't want to be asking all the questions.Please don't objectify me, there is a lot more to me than just the shell. I like to keep the first date casual. Either drinks or coffee. Definitely a fan of enjoying the outdoors.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Greek Japanese Thai Animation War Baseball Charity Computer Games
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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