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Shanel, 40
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

Offline, last seen Sun, 10 May 2026 09:55:19

About Me

Hello! Thanks for checking me out! ;) First, I have to say that I've noticed a lot of guys write "no drama" on their page. I have a 16 year old boy and 12 year old girl, so yes, (fortunately) I have drama in my life. If you have a little girl and don't, please let me know your secret. ;0) We all know that everything is the end of the world for little girls. lol I enjoy spending time with my kids and I'm very thankful that they still want me around for the time being! As much as I love them, I also enjoy having my "me time" and I would love to find someone to share it with. I cannot have any more children, but I am completely fine dating someone that has children. I am a pretty simple person. I honestly do try to keep things simple. I love being outdoors in the summertime. I like camping and fishing, (yes, I can bait my own hook), cooking out, working in my flower beds, riding bikes, hanging out with friends & family, amusement parks, or basically anything else that keeps me active. I also like to just sit and observe nature and relax. In the winter I tend to hibernate most of the time. I like to work on projects around the house and cuddle up on the couch and watch movies. I work out 5 to 6 days a week and try to eat healthy most of the time, but I still love an ice cold beer or two while I'm cooking out. I also love cooking and trying new recipes. I'm very outgoing and try my best to be open-minded and accepting of others. I'm a very affectionate, caring person and must have someone that is the same. I enjoy meeting new people, going to new places, and learning new things. I'm that person that talks to everyone in the line at the grocery store, (or anywhere else for that matter). I'm currently going to school to get my Bachelor's degree in Health Sciences. Between school and kids it doesn't leave a lot of time to meet new people. Living in Mayberry doesn't exactly help either. lol However, I remain very optimistic that I will meet my "special someone" some day! Until then it's just all a part of the journey... I'm looking for someone that is affectionate, has a good sense of humor, enjoys new experiences, has a positive attitude, and takes their responsibilities seriously. I am looking for someone that is physically active, fairly fit, and able to keep up with me. Of course the standard good attributes like honesty, integrity, morals, etc... still apply. If any of this sounds good to you, then send me a message. If not, that's OK too. If everyone was a match then we all wouldn't be on here, right?! I hope to hear from you! Have a wonderful day! :) Honestly, anything that involves laughter and good conversation works great for me! If you set parameters or expectations on it, then you might be missing out on new experiences.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Leda from Grand Rapids | Woman | 38 years old | Virgo
    Leda

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    then I look forward to hearing from you.We stand a pretty good chance of getting along well if you are:**A Gentleman*Sarcastic, in a fun & kind way. *HAPPY!*Somewhat like your job..that misery at work is usually brought home.*One that knows I am "just kidding" without me having to tell you so, and likewise ...I would know you were kidding. Get it? Banter...we must be able to.*Flirtatious (only with me).*Outgoing.*Friendly.*In shape••• Im not looking for perfection but rather someone that takes care of himself on the inside & out. Working out is not a seasonal thing for me, its my lifestyle and I definitely look to be w someone that finds it to be an important part of their day/life, but not an obsession. I do not have kids but will someday & look forward to the joy & love they bring into your life...I know I will make a great mom :~} SO if you've chosen "undecided" in that little field above, I probably wouldnt reply to you. Ive resisted meeting guys w kids because it doesnt interest me to be involved in any of the mama drama that usually comes along... but I could be missing out on a really decent guy that just happens to have kids.I think I've said plenty here...your turn. Whatever the first date is, let us not allow weeks to pass by filled with texts/emails (which can be fun or could get you AXED) ***, let's meet and figure out if we want our hands on each other rather than our phones.

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  • Alisa from Grand Rapids | Woman | 38 years old | Pisces
    Alisa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am classy,elegant,and thought provoking.I am loyal, passionate and honest. I am ready to meet new people and make some lasting memories...update..I am all these things..but make no mistake..I am not some gullible ,foolish little girl..if that's what you seek then bypass me cause I'm not interested..I want a real man that can handle his on and stand behind what he says.. Simplicity is the best..so surprise me..

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  • Phylicia from Grand Rapids | Woman | 39 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    PROFILE UPDATE: I feel I need to update a little and hope people get this. I WILL NOT sleep with you when/if we first meet! That's not why I am on here! I'm very active and like to excercise so if you don't take health anf fitness seriously I'm most likely wrong for you! I'm very laid back but I have found being on this site you need to be pretty blunt with people. Lots of people look at a pic and don't read the profile. I will I am a very honest fun loving person who is looking for the same! I like to let my inner child out a lot! I enjoy almost anything outdoors. I like flying kites as well as relaxing under the stars having good conversation. I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who has honest, true and pure intentions. I don't play games so don't play them with me. If you are interested that's great if not just be honest and say so. I am a big girl I can handle it.I love being active and trying new things. I'm a country girl at heart who has southern values. I take my relationships very seriously, after all if you don't your not going to get anywhere.I'm a little old school when it comes to relationships. I am looking for someone who is down to earth, laid back but also likes to have fun. They say there is someone out there for everyone so we will see. I'm not in search of a HOOK UP or FWB!! If that's what you want good luck in your search but I'm not the one for you!!! I'm looking for a person who can be my best friend as well as my partner. I love to cook and I'm a clean person. What ever you want to know just ask! It's to hard to explain yourself, it's much easier to have a conversation with someone. I could tell you anything on here but, you never really know until you talk with the person. My idea of a great first date would consist of anything outdoors. It doesn't really matter what it is. I just think the outdoors are relaxing. I'm open for suggestions though.

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