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Shanel, 40
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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Hello! Thanks for checking me out! ;) First, I have to say that I've noticed a lot of guys write "no drama" on their page. I have a 16 year old boy and 12 year old girl, so yes, (fortunately) I have drama in my life. If you have a little girl and don't, please let me know your secret. ;0) We all know that everything is the end of the world for little girls. lol I enjoy spending time with my kids and I'm very thankful that they still want me around for the time being! As much as I love them, I also enjoy having my "me time" and I would love to find someone to share it with. I cannot have any more children, but I am completely fine dating someone that has children. I am a pretty simple person. I honestly do try to keep things simple. I love being outdoors in the summertime. I like camping and fishing, (yes, I can bait my own hook), cooking out, working in my flower beds, riding bikes, hanging out with friends & family, amusement parks, or basically anything else that keeps me active. I also like to just sit and observe nature and relax. In the winter I tend to hibernate most of the time. I like to work on projects around the house and cuddle up on the couch and watch movies. I work out 5 to 6 days a week and try to eat healthy most of the time, but I still love an ice cold beer or two while I'm cooking out. I also love cooking and trying new recipes. I'm very outgoing and try my best to be open-minded and accepting of others. I'm a very affectionate, caring person and must have someone that is the same. I enjoy meeting new people, going to new places, and learning new things. I'm that person that talks to everyone in the line at the grocery store, (or anywhere else for that matter). I'm currently going to school to get my Bachelor's degree in Health Sciences. Between school and kids it doesn't leave a lot of time to meet new people. Living in Mayberry doesn't exactly help either. lol However, I remain very optimistic that I will meet my "special someone" some day! Until then it's just all a part of the journey... I'm looking for someone that is affectionate, has a good sense of humor, enjoys new experiences, has a positive attitude, and takes their responsibilities seriously. I am looking for someone that is physically active, fairly fit, and able to keep up with me. Of course the standard good attributes like honesty, integrity, morals, etc... still apply. If any of this sounds good to you, then send me a message. If not, that's OK too. If everyone was a match then we all wouldn't be on here, right?! I hope to hear from you! Have a wonderful day! :) Honestly, anything that involves laughter and good conversation works great for me! If you set parameters or expectations on it, then you might be missing out on new experiences.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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