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Phylicia, 39
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

PROFILE UPDATE: I feel I need to update a little and hope people get this. I WILL NOT sleep with you when/if we first meet! That's not why I am on here! I'm very active and like to excercise so if you don't take health anf fitness seriously I'm most likely wrong for you! I'm very laid back but I have found being on this site you need to be pretty blunt with people. Lots of people look at a pic and don't read the profile. I will I am a very honest fun loving person who is looking for the same! I like to let my inner child out a lot! I enjoy almost anything outdoors. I like flying kites as well as relaxing under the stars having good conversation. I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who has honest, true and pure intentions. I don't play games so don't play them with me. If you are interested that's great if not just be honest and say so. I am a big girl I can handle it.I love being active and trying new things. I'm a country girl at heart who has southern values. I take my relationships very seriously, after all if you don't your not going to get anywhere.I'm a little old school when it comes to relationships. I am looking for someone who is down to earth, laid back but also likes to have fun. They say there is someone out there for everyone so we will see. I'm not in search of a HOOK UP or FWB!! If that's what you want good luck in your search but I'm not the one for you!!! I'm looking for a person who can be my best friend as well as my partner. I love to cook and I'm a clean person. What ever you want to know just ask! It's to hard to explain yourself, it's much easier to have a conversation with someone. I could tell you anything on here but, you never really know until you talk with the person. My idea of a great first date would consist of anything outdoors. It doesn't really matter what it is. I just think the outdoors are relaxing. I'm open for suggestions though.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Irish South American Spanish Adventure Comedy Western
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