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Kathrine, 37
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

Lets see. I am a small town girl that just recently moved back to the town I grew up in. The towns not so small anymore though. I have 2 boys and they are my life! They are 14 and 12. My oldest has PDD-NOS which is a form of autism. I love my family and I go to church on Sundays but I still know how to have fun! Some people would call me a tomboy and that's ok with me but I look pretty doing all the fun stuff tomboys do. I am one of those girls that likes a guy to shake my hand just like any other person, I'm not some little thing that's going to break so shake it. I believe your shake tells a lot about someone and if you have a weak shake you might not be trustworthy! I believe in keeping your word and don't put up with liars! Your word is really all you have!! Well anything else just ask I will give you an honest.Please don't just look at my pictures and decide to *** because if your not what I like then your wasting both our time. Sorry to sound like a b**** and I'm really not one I just have two boys and know what I am looking for and don't have time to waste *** if there is no way we will ever meet! But really I am a laid back down to earth kind of girl. So really just send a message and let see if we are a match!! ;-)About me~ I love to watch pretty much any sport even wrestling and UFC. I love going to movies or just watching one at home but the drive in can be really fun! I like the car races whether it be NASCAR or the devils bowl. I like to go to the zoo with or without my kids. I like walks in the park or just hanging out at home outside with the fire pit going. I love going to flea markets. I love sitting outside or laying outside listening to the radio and just looking at the stars. I love attention from my partner and will give you lots of attention. If you are someone that is a private person and doesn't like to hold hands or kiss in public. I am not your girl! I am not the type of girl that wants to go shopping everyday or even every weekend. I have better things to do. I love to get muddy or wet because I am caught in a rain storm. So if you are one of those guys that has to stay clean just keep going. I am not a very serious person but I know when to be serious. I just like to laugh and have fun! I also love to take pictures and will stop on the side of the road to do it if something catches my eye. I don't believe a relationship is ***as most people say. That would mean I only give half. I think a relationship is ***. I want to give all of me. What I am looking for ~ well I don't really have a "type" of guy. Because everyone is different. All I ask is don't be married to your job. Yes I would love to here about your day but if that's all you can talk about it will drive me crazy. I am looking for a best friend someone to grow old with. If you can't be honest with me that will be a deal breaker. I don't want a guy that is with me in a relationship but talking to other girls online. (Been there, I know the signs and I will not do it again!) To me that is cheating. I would love to meet someone that will go to church with me. So if you don't believe in God you are not for me. I want a guy that is comfortable hanging with my family at the house and can respect my parents and not want to drink or curse in front of them. But please don't be fake in front of them either. I want you to be ok with giving me attention and no I don't mean by buying me expensive gifts. I love the random "here's some flowers for you baby!" Whether they are bought or you picked them yourself from the side of the road. I don't think money can buy happiness. I think your time that you put into a relationship can make it happier than anything. I am looking for my best friend, my partner, and my lover. If you have kids that is fine with me I love kids. I would really like for you to have a job i mean that is always a plus. lol I am not looking for someone to step in a become a father to my boys but you do have to understand that I have them a lot. You will be a very important person in their lives. ***Guys let me just say do NOT act like you are my night in shining armor and you call me your girl, you tell me you dont want me to see anyone else. Then all the sudden for no reason at all just stop answering my text or phone calls. I mean come on we are not in freakin high school anymore if you don't want to talk just say you don't want to talk. That is one thing I can not stand is a chicken shit! Be a man grow a pair and say what you want and mean what you say!****Also sorry but I don't date black guys. Nothing against ya just personal choice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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