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Delia, 40

United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

Offline, last seen Sun, 11 Oct 2026 09:48:15

About Me

My last relationship was from meeting someone on meetville so i just wanna let you know there is hope of finding love on here i did. I like all kinds of music but mostly pop, rock and R&B. I listen to everything basically. I dont watch alot of tv. I like tall men that are usually younger than me but that doesnt rule out someone slightly older if theres an attraction. For the first time in my life i can honestly say im not looking for a boyfriend. I am looking to meet and date people with the "potential" of building a relationship in the future. No hurries, no worries. Id also like to make friends so if we dont click as a potential couple maybe just hang out n get coffee or eat or act silly. Ive not done much in life so im easily entertained and easy to impress or make smile. Im not on here for casual hook ups and will tell you just about anything if you ask. I try not to judge others so if theres something you like want or need in life that is different let me know, im open for discussion. I am independent. Nothing i own is super fantastic so if your materialistic and cant handle it push on, and good luck! I am stable i have had the same job for 11 years. I have two kids. One boy who is 17 and lives at home and a girl who is 21 and on her own.I CANNOT have anymore children so if you are looking for a baby in the future my oven is broken! Altho i do like kids i just cant have anymore. I am very close with my mom, friends and family. They all love me very passionately and come with the package as part of my life. I wanna say that it ranks up there as being really important to me that whoever i potentially get serious with can get along well with my friends and family. That doesnt mean u have to hold hands and be best friends with everyone but u have to be able to at least hang out n b sociable. I dont wanna isolate the people that are most important to me and people seem to fight over my time. Why not combine them together and all get together laugh and have fun!? I have a tendency to be over friendly and sweet when i feel comfortable with people. MEN this does not mean i love you lol this just means you are lucky because i am truly invaluable as a friend or girlfriend because you will always have someone there who truly cares. I dont try to hide who i am. I say things i think that others will not. This is both good and bad at times. Just know if i have something negative to say i will try to say it in the most sweet and ladylike way. Treat others as u would be treated. I believe in Karma and mine seems to waste no time reminding me almost *** im a jerk lol. I love all kinds of things. I think im like a puppy i get all excited over things alot of people would take for granted. That includes meeting men with actual manners ;) Honesty and manners are a rare combo anything else is icing on the cake! Another thing dont EVER promise my son ***that ur gonna take him fishing (his fave thing) unless u mean it! Because too many people have and let him down....If it gets that far and u wanna Just do it. I also have a heart condition called congestive heart failure. I have an enlarged heart. I pretty much live a normal life i just have to take medicine to keep my bp down. I dont wanna choose my own first date for once in my life id like to see what a man has to offer and where he would take me. I wanna see some imagination n have fun! I wanna be treated like a lady. What hapnd to men? I dont wnt a pushover i dont want an assh*le. Just be normal. I dont strive for or expect perfection I expect real. Honesty good or bad is extremely hot and attractive!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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