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Shyla, 48
United States, Michigan, Wixom

Offline, last seen Wed, 10 Jun 2026 02:11:01

About Me

I am a very happy woman who is thankful for the many blessings in my life. I have a wonderful family and great friends that I love to spend time with. We often have dinner parties, or casual get-togethers. My favorite nights out are listening to live music and dancing. I almost always have tickets to an upcoming concert. If U2 is on tour I will be seeing them....more than once. Most days you will find me at the gym, I call it my second home. Health and fitness are important to me and I'm looking for someone who also makes it a priority. I also love going out for great food and wine which is part of the reason I love my gym :) Animals are a big part of my life, I live with 2 very well mannered and well groomed dogs. Unless you are eating, in which case they will beg...we aren't perfect here. I also have show horses, who are also well trained and well groomed, but don't beg as much as the dogs. I enjoy going to Mariners and Sounders games, especially when they win. Travel has been a big part of my life, and I would love to be with someone who enjoys that as well. Tahiti is my favorite place that I have been to, so far. I love to read, especially biographies and educational books. I do yoga, for the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits. I like balance in my life, working hard balanced with lots of time to laugh and have fun and really enjoy life, I'm looking for someone to share that with me. The man I am interested in is:Healthy and takes care of himself, exercises and is in decent shape.Has a positive attitude and is happy with his life.Has integrity, keeps his word, you can count on him. Values family and friends. Is interested in self discovery.Is financially responsible and stable.Is kind and compassionate.Is affectionate and romantic.Is able and willing to communicate, even when it's a tough subject.Has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh.Loves music and will go to concerts and listen to local live music with me. Bonus points if you can sing and play an *** travel, especially to sunny places.Understands that my idea of camping is staying at a hotel without room service....****Update on Oct 24th. Since I cannot hide my profile without paying to upgrade I will apologize if I do not respond to your message. I just wanted to take a break without having to completely delete my profile and then having to recreate it from scratch when I wanted to come back.**** After a meet for coffee type introduction, a great first date would begin at a place with an intimate atmosphere where we could talk over a really good glass of wine. Delicious food would follow... could be seafood, Mediterranean, Thai, French, a great steak house, would love to try your favorite place. If it is nice weather, then a place with outdoor seating and a view would be lovely. If it's rainy or cold, then a cozy atmosphere with candles sounds perfect. After dinner I would love to go listen to live music, dancing would be a bonus. I think a first date needs to provide the opportunity to get to know each other better without too many distractions. Movies and sporting events are better for later dates.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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