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Shyla, 48

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About Me

I am a very happy woman who is thankful for the many blessings in my life. I have a wonderful family and great friends that I love to spend time with. We often have dinner parties, or casual get-togethers. My favorite nights out are listening to live music and dancing. I almost always have tickets to an upcoming concert. If U2 is on tour I will be seeing them....more than once. Most days you will find me at the gym, I call it my second home. Health and fitness are important to me and I'm looking for someone who also makes it a priority. I also love going out for great food and wine which is part of the reason I love my gym :) Animals are a big part of my life, I live with 2 very well mannered and well groomed dogs. Unless you are eating, in which case they will beg...we aren't perfect here. I also have show horses, who are also well trained and well groomed, but don't beg as much as the dogs. I enjoy going to Mariners and Sounders games, especially when they win. Travel has been a big part of my life, and I would love to be with someone who enjoys that as well. Tahiti is my favorite place that I have been to, so far. I love to read, especially biographies and educational books. I do yoga, for the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits. I like balance in my life, working hard balanced with lots of time to laugh and have fun and really enjoy life, I'm looking for someone to share that with me. The man I am interested in is:Healthy and takes care of himself, exercises and is in decent shape.Has a positive attitude and is happy with his life.Has integrity, keeps his word, you can count on him. Values family and friends. Is interested in self discovery.Is financially responsible and stable.Is kind and compassionate.Is affectionate and romantic.Is able and willing to communicate, even when it's a tough subject.Has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh.Loves music and will go to concerts and listen to local live music with me. Bonus points if you can sing and play an *** travel, especially to sunny places.Understands that my idea of camping is staying at a hotel without room service....****Update on Oct 24th. Since I cannot hide my profile without paying to upgrade I will apologize if I do not respond to your message. I just wanted to take a break without having to completely delete my profile and then having to recreate it from scratch when I wanted to come back.**** After a meet for coffee type introduction, a great first date would begin at a place with an intimate atmosphere where we could talk over a really good glass of wine. Delicious food would follow... could be seafood, Mediterranean, Thai, French, a great steak house, would love to try your favorite place. If it is nice weather, then a place with outdoor seating and a view would be lovely. If it's rainy or cold, then a cozy atmosphere with candles sounds perfect. After dinner I would love to go listen to live music, dancing would be a bonus. I think a first date needs to provide the opportunity to get to know each other better without too many distractions. Movies and sporting events are better for later dates.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maev

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I consider myself to be intelligent, friendly, outgoing, happy, passisonate and compassionate...I'm easy to laugh and have a great sense of humor...though it can be a little warped at times.I have a good sense of integrity and a “glass half full” outlook on life, I'm a bit of a maverick, but follow the rules...for the most part...My daughter and son mean more to me than life itself, and though they are grown, they will never stop growing on me :)I enjoy travel, surprises, camping, music, photography, museums, craziness, spontaneity, going out, staying in, sharing, simplicity, respect...I'm intrigued by Anthropology, Archeaology, Science...and fact....I am not interested in the concept of god or religion, so if either of these are a big part of your life, we probably won't be a good fit..I’m looking for someone to walk off into the sunset with...I want to be in love...I want someone to talk with and enjoy comfortable silences with...I enjoy tattoos and have quite a few of them, I love the individuality they allow a person to possess...but they do not define me, nor by no means do they make me who I am, they're merely a small part........and lest we forget romance...I believe its a very important element in a relationship.I'm much deeper a person than can be put into words on a dating profile....lets have a coffee and talk...we're only out an hour of our time...but might find something worth a lifetime... I think the first meeting should be short and sweet, coffee or something of the sort

  • Lucina

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ; antique stores, all kinds of music (except bad Rap and bad country) but I especially love Motown, R& I like to randomly sing and dance around, sometimes it embarrasses my teenage nieces, but they have pretty much learned to get over it! I enjoy keeping a nice home and making holiday dinners, lacy and silky clothes (mostly pajamas), French perfume, natural, organic, vanilla, rose or patchouli baths (I'm trying my best to go organic with everything... when I can), working out, absolutely love rafting the river and I enjoy going on nature walks, preferably with somebody nice. My favorite television is the Antiques Roadshow, PBS mysteries, Futurama, Family Guy, Spongebob, SNL and SOA. I like traditional Gothic literature, not the new stuff. I love old classic romantic movies from the ***s-..... so well, you get the picture!People tell me that I'm on the dreamy side: Rainbows, unicorns, fairies, angels... and I guess that is mostly true, but I am a realist too and I know how to take care of business. I am what some people would call a "girly girl", I work out everyday but I'm not athletic or thin. I am a talented, creative, curvy woman who is very comfortable being feminine. I am not masculine at all. If you like cowgirls or tomboys, you probably won't like me very much! I am a bit of a grease monkey for my job, but that's about as boyish as I get and that's only because I have to do it. I am a strict vegetarian for myself and talk about it a lot, but I accept outside choices for others, I just don't like it. My political views tend to lean more to the left than the right, some of the time I'm in the middle. I believe in freedom for everyone not just the privileged. If you are a devout republican (like my ex) then be prepared for a debate or do not discuss it with me. Probably my favorite thing to do with my boyfriend is watch tv together in bed!-informed propaganda they were attempting to report!I think it would be great to meet someone nice for friendship and doing fun things together: dinner, movies, playing board games, talking, road trips, museums, art galleries, concerts or whatever else.If a romance develops that would be wonderful! If not, then fond friendship is fine with me and I feel happy to say that I have had the great fortune to retain all of my previous boyfriends as friends, some closer friends than others, but still I am friendly towards all of them regardless of whatever happened in the past. I tend to prefer the type of man who is successful in his field and who knows how to value and treat a lady. I prefer the type of man who knows how to protect and take care of a woman. But I am not completely selfish, I know how to give and receive and once a relationship is established, I am very loyal and supportive. I am proud to be a Christian, not prideful, but rather happy to know and serve the Lord, and I try to live up to the meaning of what that truly means everyday. So, because my faith defines Who I Am, I do ask if you contact me, please be a genuine Christian because otherwise we probably would not be compatible and I have learned that there is no exception to this, at least for me there's not.I would like to meet someone who makes me smile, who doesn't feel the need to control me or be my superior, who isn't out to use me. Ultimately I would like to meet the right man for more than just friendship but everyone is not a perfect fit and I don't want to jam a square peg into a round hole! If you think I could be the right girl for you, then please do not be shy and send me a quick note. But please know this, I am not a player nor am I interested in meeting any players or anyone who is searching for an "intimate encounter" (ie, one night stand). I have learned that some men say that they are a Christian, but they certainly do not always act like one! So, please do not contact me or respond to my inquiry if a meaningless, casual intimacy is your intention. If you are not divorced or actually single, then we should not starting communicating. Thank you for taking the time to read this and I sincerely wish all the best to everyone on here searching for their true love or perhaps just a compatible mate. My love and best to everyone! I think for a first date, going for coffee only, preferably in a bookstore and looking at books, talking and getting to know one another. If that worked out, then for the second date, I think going to lunch and then a nice walk along the river would be fun. For a third date, dinner and a movie, then going home for coffee and desert afterward and maybe playing a board game or cards, talking or even watching a movie on TV. I am always up for antiquing, too or going to museums, art shows, the theater, or wine tasting is fun. But I'm pretty much open to as whatever my date and I agree would be fun or interesting.

  • Rachele

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a very honest person who expects the same in others. I don't like drama and I don't like to fight. I'm not a pushover and I will stand up for what I believe but I'm not a female who will fight just to fight (too much drama). I am looking for a real relationship not a booty call/FWB/hookup - whatever you want to call it.I am looking for a man who lives his life honestly and with integrity. If you say you're going to do something then do it. Can't apologize for that.....I will not be disrespected. You can lead me around the world but you can't push me very far. Those are probably the two biggest "must haves" I'm looking for in a mate. Besides the....has a job and teeth...no I'm not kidding....I wish that didn't have to be said. LOLI have enjoyed a very active lifestyle but life circumstances have temporarily altered that path in my life and I'm looking to get back into regular workouts. I'm not looking to be a gym rat again I do realize that it's an amazing addition to an otherwise healthy lifestyle. Would like to find someone who is interested in an overall healthy life who would like a workout partner.I love music and listen to just about anything!I don't have children of my own but I have two amazing nieces who are more precious to me than my own life. I am very close to my family and that is part of the reason that I have relocated to the coast....to be closer to my aging father and maternal grandmother. So, while I don't have children of my own I certainly don't mind that you have children who are important in your life.I love my life and I'm looking for someone to share it with and to be silly with. Life is serious but don't take it too seriously.Intrigued? let me know! So many options for a first date - depends on what our mutual interests are.

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