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Chae, 45
United States, Michigan, Temperance

Offline, last seen Sat, 27 Jun 2026 18:17:28

About Me

I am a real woman that has been described as curvy, voluptuous, & rubenesque. I'm not every mans demographic & I'm fine with that because I just need 1. I am open to dating but hoping to find a relationship in the right time. It takes time, communication, & desire for a relationship to develop. I am responsible, courteous, trust worthy, honest, faithful, well balanced, positive, passionate, artistic, good character, moral, feminine, fun, entertaining, christian, a good friend, a women who is independent but still has old fashioned manners. The kind of woman that has great fun, active life, but would enjoy the company of a nice good man as a friend first then hopefully for an adventure of a lifetime (let’s face it, the physical IS an important part of a solid relationship so please have that ability & desire). I am also a little girl at times. I like to have fun, play, easy to please, try new things, travel, weekend getaways, affectionate, adventuresome, silly, spontaneous, but capable of sitting back and relaxing. I enjoy life & have a positive attitude. I have positive encouraging & loving friends that are great and entertaining but I am missing a special piece to my life .... maybe it is you. I prefer peace but I will not avoid a problem if it can be changed. I do what needs to be done. If nothing can be done then I learn from it, & to live with it, & move on. To be clear - problems come in life. It is not really about the problem but in how we handle the problem. It should not change our lives every time some little surprise happens. I do the right thing even when it costs me something. I like to laugh & do so often and choose to see the fun/light side of life even when storms come. I notice and seek to help the people around me if possible, and I don't take myself too seriously. I have a willingness to try new things and I believe that an adventure lies around every corner. **I NEED communication & affection. ** I would like to share my life with a very good friend & companion who engages life, not one who lives passively. A man that IS a contemporary christian. I have a weakness for tall, smart, athletic-average men that know how to communicate & kiss. I want a man that can make a decision on his own but is thoughtful enough to ask for my opinion for some of them. Someone who still believes in listening & talking, chemistry, passion, excitement, slow long kisses, honesty, traveling, simple fun, and learning something new. I want a man that likes to have a companion to do things with him & for him. ** I am a simple, honest, passionate, & fun person - not critical, stupid, or judgmental. Laughter & communication is a big turn on for me. I am trying to take care of my body, mind, and spirit, (physically i am a curvy girl). I see life as the glass being "half full". I am not afraid of openly showing affection. I can be independent & sexy when I want to be, and strong when I have to be. I am a woman who can roll with what life throws at me without taking it out on those around me. I am a creative, responsible, & passionate person that can make life fun and an adventure with out being lost entirely in the process of creating. I really enjoy exploring, photography, cooking, movies, & music. I like hanging out with good friends and family. I am still just a simple southern girl at heart that would love to find one good man that could be my match & make my toes curl.I love music that puts you in a mood; to dance, talk, think, ride, eat, or make out. The right song can take me there ... just pick the right song!!!! (if i like you I will tell you the ones that work for me, I don't expect a man to read my mind - for the record.) I'm flexible about the little things, but I know what I want in my life. I like a healthy lifestyle, no smoking or drugs, healthy eating, & working up a sweat. I would love a work out partner!! Partnership is important to me. Being together is more than being in the same location, it also means knowing and helping each other. If your looking for a relationship & willing to invest a little time, I am here. It does not happen over night & it should not be a chore but *** fun revealing or ourselves. ~~beauty catches people's attention, personality is what catches the heart~~ i think you know when you meet the right person and that they may or may-not be what you thought you wanted from a list. Don't forget like the old song said: sometimes "it is in his kiss". i believe that love is a decision and lust is a quick feeling. There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart........PURSUE THOSE THINGS. ** now please tell me about you! Meet and see if we have the chemistry to keep seeing each other. Being Friends would be nice but I have plenty of good friends already. Positively not interested in any kind of fwb. If you are then skip past me. i like to learn new things so think of something you are good at and teach me. i want to have fun with you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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