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Philipa, 42

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About Me

Why are we all here really? I know there's the few that are here for the occasional hookup. I know there are a few more that are just sticking their toes in to see what's out there. But where are the real ones, the ones that truly are looking for that one person?Seriously, for those of you that are looking for your one....don't you want the high school feeling with butterflies? Don't you want the person that you miss the minute you leave them and there's a contentment that sweeps over you the minute they return? That's what I am looking for. I want my best friend, the one I can trust with all of my secrets. He doesn't have to be perfect, I don't want perfection because honestly that would be kind of boring. Don't you think? I want the one that's perfect for me. He doesn't have to have a perfect body or be the best looking guy on the block, but he has to have a good heart, strong values, and a passion for life, love and family. So, who am I? I have grown into the woman I am today. My past is my past, and I have taken all of the lessons God sent my way and tried my hardest to learn from them. I'm not willing to settle for anyone this time around, I deserve better. I have kids, I have a job, I have a car, I have a life. Yes, I know you all say you don't want any drama, but I have daughters they come with some. All I ask is that you are real with me, and I will give you the same in return. Can you handle it? Two options#1 meet for coffee or a drink and then it just doesn't stop because we enjoy that time together so much.#2 Something fun where we can still talk. You can learn alot about someone's personality when you bowl or shoot some pool together. No movies on a first date. I do like when a man plans a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Renie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Ok...soooo here goes the sales pitch! Lol I've been told that im kind, sweet, caring, adorable, cuddly, and silly. Let's meet and see what you think. :-) I have no drama (unless you count my Himalayan cat expressing very loudly how much he missed me when I walk through the door! lol). I listen to most types of music but lean towards today's country and classic rock. Good laughs, good music and good wine sound good to me. :-)I'm not a big fan of spending a lot of time "typing" to get to know someone. I'd much rather talk.I like to keep busy and am a highly motivated, goal oriented individual and admire the same in others. Throw out a line with a hook and we'll see if we catch time for coffee or a drink. So enough about me...tell me about you :-) First dates are for getting to know each other and finding out if there is a connection. I'm good with just going out for coffee or drinks for some interesting conversation and laughs, but the second date is a different story where creativity plays a much bigger role. ;-)

  • Helen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a fun, happy, positive, caring, and energetic person who enjoys life and people. I am honest and direct and appreciate the same in others. I am an independent person yet I am happiest when I am in a healthy adult relationship. I want to find someone who can enjoy life with me. I love my family, friends, good conversation, and a really good laugh. I like staying busy in general with work and friends but cherish my down time as well. I take care of myself and try to exercise regularly and eat right. I like to make sure my life is easy and simple whenever possible. The pictures of me with dark hair are the most recent. People tell me I look better in person and I don't take as an insult because I agree. I am looking for someone who is optimistic, intelligent, and someone who loves to laugh. I would like to be with a man who knows how to work hard but also knows how to relax. I admire a man who is confident and creative. I do not need someone who shares all of the same interests as I do and hope that I find someone who doesn't need me to share all of his. I will try almost anything once and am open to new experiences. I can have fun doing almost anything though. I love children so if you have kids that's great but just have a respectful relationship with your ex please (and be officially divorced)! Here are my thoughts about distance. Everyone has a busy life and I have found that it is better for me to date someone who lives nearby. I feel that it is important to actually spend time with the person you are dating and living close makes that easier. I'm not looking for a pen pal here but I need to exchange one or two *** talking and then meeting. Ultimately, I want to find someone with whom I share real chemistry and everyone knows you can’t tell if it's there until you meet. The first date is really just a meeting but should be something quick and casual like drinks or coffee. I think the perfect first meeting is when there is a combination of great conversation and laughter that ends with both of us excited to see each other again. Isn't that the best?

  • Rosella

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a very fun person to be around and easy to get along with , I am very outgoing person and love to talk .

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