Total users: 61,201,026 Online users: 220,409
Philipa, 42

Offline, last seen Tue, 03 Feb 2026 01:41:45

About Me

Why are we all here really? I know there's the few that are here for the occasional hookup. I know there are a few more that are just sticking their toes in to see what's out there. But where are the real ones, the ones that truly are looking for that one person?Seriously, for those of you that are looking for your one....don't you want the high school feeling with butterflies? Don't you want the person that you miss the minute you leave them and there's a contentment that sweeps over you the minute they return? That's what I am looking for. I want my best friend, the one I can trust with all of my secrets. He doesn't have to be perfect, I don't want perfection because honestly that would be kind of boring. Don't you think? I want the one that's perfect for me. He doesn't have to have a perfect body or be the best looking guy on the block, but he has to have a good heart, strong values, and a passion for life, love and family. So, who am I? I have grown into the woman I am today. My past is my past, and I have taken all of the lessons God sent my way and tried my hardest to learn from them. I'm not willing to settle for anyone this time around, I deserve better. I have kids, I have a job, I have a car, I have a life. Yes, I know you all say you don't want any drama, but I have daughters they come with some. All I ask is that you are real with me, and I will give you the same in return. Can you handle it? Two options#1 meet for coffee or a drink and then it just doesn't stop because we enjoy that time together so much.#2 Something fun where we can still talk. You can learn alot about someone's personality when you bowl or shoot some pool together. No movies on a first date. I do like when a man plans a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Babe

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy cooking, baking, volunteer, spending time with my kids & celebrating special occasions ( and the list goes on). I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, & family & friends are very important to me. A man who is honest. and can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens. Ps my kids will come first

  • Ailsie

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi, I started this profile before and I was a little overwhelmed at the time from *** I didn't have a ton of time to really give this my best shot. I have decided that I am going to make this a priority and give this site a little more attention.I like a man who has a sense of hmor, strong, romantic and someone who is also looking for a partner and best friend to share good times and even the not so good times. Someone I can cook for or if you like to cook then cook with me. I like to dance even if its in my kitchen.I love to run, although I had some injuries so it's mostly for exercise and if your not a runner thats ok. I like to cook, read, exercise, laugh, cross word puzzles, watch movies and wine tastings. Mainly, I like to laugh and even if its at myself. I volunteer a lot and that makes me feel good about myself, and help others at the same time. I enjoy all types of music especially live music. I am starting to get into country a little more than I used to its not the same stuff I used to hate. 8).I am looking for someone who is fun, and especially honest, big sense of humor, loyal, sensitive, romantic, most of all I am looking for a best friend.

  • Helen

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a fun, happy, positive, caring, and energetic person who enjoys life and people. I am honest and direct and appreciate the same in others. I am an independent person yet I am happiest when I am in a healthy adult relationship. I want to find someone who can enjoy life with me. I love my family, friends, good conversation, and a really good laugh. I like staying busy in general with work and friends but cherish my down time as well. I take care of myself and try to exercise regularly and eat right. I like to make sure my life is easy and simple whenever possible. The pictures of me with dark hair are the most recent. People tell me I look better in person and I don't take as an insult because I agree. I am looking for someone who is optimistic, intelligent, and someone who loves to laugh. I would like to be with a man who knows how to work hard but also knows how to relax. I admire a man who is confident and creative. I do not need someone who shares all of the same interests as I do and hope that I find someone who doesn't need me to share all of his. I will try almost anything once and am open to new experiences. I can have fun doing almost anything though. I love children so if you have kids that's great but just have a respectful relationship with your ex please (and be officially divorced)! Here are my thoughts about distance. Everyone has a busy life and I have found that it is better for me to date someone who lives nearby. I feel that it is important to actually spend time with the person you are dating and living close makes that easier. I'm not looking for a pen pal here but I need to exchange one or two *** talking and then meeting. Ultimately, I want to find someone with whom I share real chemistry and everyone knows you can’t tell if it's there until you meet. The first date is really just a meeting but should be something quick and casual like drinks or coffee. I think the perfect first meeting is when there is a combination of great conversation and laughter that ends with both of us excited to see each other again. Isn't that the best?

Follow Us: