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Philipa, 42

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About Me

Why are we all here really? I know there's the few that are here for the occasional hookup. I know there are a few more that are just sticking their toes in to see what's out there. But where are the real ones, the ones that truly are looking for that one person?Seriously, for those of you that are looking for your one....don't you want the high school feeling with butterflies? Don't you want the person that you miss the minute you leave them and there's a contentment that sweeps over you the minute they return? That's what I am looking for. I want my best friend, the one I can trust with all of my secrets. He doesn't have to be perfect, I don't want perfection because honestly that would be kind of boring. Don't you think? I want the one that's perfect for me. He doesn't have to have a perfect body or be the best looking guy on the block, but he has to have a good heart, strong values, and a passion for life, love and family. So, who am I? I have grown into the woman I am today. My past is my past, and I have taken all of the lessons God sent my way and tried my hardest to learn from them. I'm not willing to settle for anyone this time around, I deserve better. I have kids, I have a job, I have a car, I have a life. Yes, I know you all say you don't want any drama, but I have daughters they come with some. All I ask is that you are real with me, and I will give you the same in return. Can you handle it? Two options#1 meet for coffee or a drink and then it just doesn't stop because we enjoy that time together so much.#2 Something fun where we can still talk. You can learn alot about someone's personality when you bowl or shoot some pool together. No movies on a first date. I do like when a man plans a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, camping by a lake, exercise, working around the house, comedy clubs, movies, music, my pets, and celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient and honest... I have a great sense of humor, and family friends are very important to me . I've been known to assess first impressions quickly (both personally and professionally) and generally do not waiver from my initial conclusion. I'm looking for someone who shares my values and goals... someone who is honest and can make me laugh are important qualities! No pressure! Let's just relax...become friends, get to know each other, and see what happens.

  • Regina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    45....Really?? Cant say I look nor feel it (most days)!!Decided there is no time like the present to make new friends. I have been around these parts before, and now I'm back (after 5 yrs). Looking to make new friends and great memories. I have a solid career that allows me to enjoy things in life within reason. Im an honest person that tends to see the good and potential in others. I am straightforward and dont deal well with drama..I enjoy reading, traveling, the beach, live music and relaxing. Not much of a cook, but I honestly havent put a lot of time into it. I have managed to cook enough not to starve ;)I am no size 2 (think ***ish for now), but go to the gym 3-4xs a week. Its a little new to me, but I am honestly enjoying it (what doesnt kill you makes you stronger..right?:). I like to watch football, discovery, TLC and The Big Bang Theory. I also enjoy walking my precious Maltese puppy, who keeps me on my toes. I am open to new experiences and meeting new people. Although, I am not into meeting for just sex, so dont ask :)I have learned life is short; you cant judge a book by its cover, nor can you feel the heat if you dont put your hand over the flame ( bonus if u know which song this is from :). I am witty, clever and can have a lot of fun with the right person. Im the one on the right w the darker hair.. Casual. After conversation. Dinner and drinks. No expectations.

  • Acheflour

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    *****Please READ profile BEFORE responding...I do NOT and will NOT respond to Auto Prompts saying "so and so wants to meet you.".... So, I stress that one needs to be honest in their profile. What is the point in lying? Clearly, I am not looking for a one night fling nor paying a bar tab and driving someone home. Honesty in looks, body type...TRUTH!!! No Living with parents or roommates!! The Twenty somethings might go for that... But I am well beyond the "Peter Pan Boys" We all have luggage from life-let's see if our luggage matches!I am looking for a Outgoing, Kind, Humorous, Intelligent, Financially and Emotionally secure MAN. He must be comfortable with who he is and confidant enough to handle a woman with an extreme amount of independence- Not to say that I don't enjoy being pampered from time to time... I just need my space and can't handle being called 10 times a day for no valid reason (once is fine)!!!! Ugggggg....Flashbacks to my last nightmare...since when does a date constitute "instant relationship"....?! OH-BTW yes these are Deal Breakers for Me!!!! I am not a B***H!!! I just Know what I like and Know what I don't. We all have Deal Breakers!!!!! THIS IS WHY HONESTY IS SO IMPORTANT!!!!! Oh, some other dating advice for some Gents out there...showing up half tanked before a first date is a NO! NO! As is proceeding to drive yourself home after having more. Drunk Calling is never cool!!! I am a sucker for Nice STRONG Hands, Eyes and Smile...No Nail Biters-that type of pent up anxiety just plain FREAKS ME OUT!!!!I am using one of my last dates as an example as I am still laughing that the universe was having a Jokey with me...Once I accepted the comedy of the situation and the fact that I could leave after he started quoting "Spock"...I had to be Honest...and Just spell it out...Not Going to Happen...I would like to avoid ever having to do this again. He should have just been up front and then none of this would have happened. I am told that I am funny, witty and often sarcastic...This I will never apologize for or change. If you are too serious or sensitive we will never work. I am looking for friendship/casual dating to start and we can see where things go... That seems to be the most logical approach? :)If you are still reading after all of this and are a positive up beat person- I would love to hear from you. I am always interested in hearing of ones experiences and have plenty to share.Thanks for stopping by. PS: I do not respond to the Auto Prompts that "someone would like to meet you". If you truly are interested in meeting me please have the courage to send a message. If you are married or looking for a fling do NOT even bother messaging me. Oh and if you are Taurus Or Virgo...Just Don't Bother...It will never work....I can't be controlled! :PCheers & Happy Fishing!================================================================================= It would purely depend on the person and what adventure we decide on for the day. It would need to be fun!!! Not into "coffee" dates.I am certainly open to suggestions! :)

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