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Tomika, 43

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About Me

UPDATE: I took some time off from here things were starting to get crazy. But I'm back to give it another try. Lets see how long I last this time!Ok about me, I am funny (so my friends say), love to laugh, happy, honest, outgoing, adventurous, spontaneous, rather sarcastic at times, love thunderstorms and have a terrible fear of CLOWNS AND SPIDERS!!! I am very family oriented and enjoy spending time with my friends. I love to try new things (always wanted to try sky diving). I can shoot a gun and have even been hunting a few times with my Father. Love to head out on the atv's and explore. Not afraid to get dirty. Not good at gardening. My friends joke this is where plants come to die! I love to dress up for the man in my life, but I am just as comfortable in jeans, t-shirt and a ball cap.I would like to meet someone who isn't afraid to hold my hand and can laugh at themselves, at me and with me. Someone who enjoys life and can enjoy the little things in life.I hope I don't offend anyone, but if you're looking for a quick hookup or sexting please pass me by. Also no picture = no response from me. If you message me and I don't respond its because I don't think we'll be a good match, sorry.Thank you for stopping by. If you think you like what you have read and seen please drop me a line. If not than happy fishing! Someplace where we can talk and get to know each other and see where it goes from there. Maybe over dinner, coffee or a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kari

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Enjoy the good life. Looking for someone who is fun loving and looking to do things to spice up the hum drum of life.

  • Renie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Ok...soooo here goes the sales pitch! Lol I've been told that im kind, sweet, caring, adorable, cuddly, and silly. Let's meet and see what you think. :-) I have no drama (unless you count my Himalayan cat expressing very loudly how much he missed me when I walk through the door! lol). I listen to most types of music but lean towards today's country and classic rock. Good laughs, good music and good wine sound good to me. :-)I'm not a big fan of spending a lot of time "typing" to get to know someone. I'd much rather talk.I like to keep busy and am a highly motivated, goal oriented individual and admire the same in others. Throw out a line with a hook and we'll see if we catch time for coffee or a drink. So enough about me...tell me about you :-) First dates are for getting to know each other and finding out if there is a connection. I'm good with just going out for coffee or drinks for some interesting conversation and laughs, but the second date is a different story where creativity plays a much bigger role. ;-)

  • Lauralee

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Guys, first and foremost, please have your act together before trying to move forward with your life. The things you are looking for in a woman, we want in a man.Guys, separated does NOT mean you are single. Just saying!!!!! If it all fell apart tomorrow, would you still be mine? If you can answer yes, then you are the one for me. I want my yes. I just want to find one man who will treat me with respect, give me the love and attention that I want, and actually means what he says. I don't want a microwave relationship, I want one that takes time to develop. Every relationship begins with a friendship and common interests and builds from there. I want the one that I can't live without, not the one that I can live with. If you aren't willing to work towards a real relationship, please do not waste my time. If you aren't willing to put forth some serious effort, then you aren't for me. Oh yeah, I am NOT interested in a long distance relationship. I work a full time job and have no desire to travel all the time for the sake of trying to build a relationship. The first date doesnt have to be a big production. Just somewhere cozy where we could talk and get to know each other. Decide if we are really who we say we are, if there is a possible connection to pursue. If not, no problem; if so, wonderful.....time will only tell where it could lead.

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