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Sharmaine, 43

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About Me

The first thing you will notice about me is my smile. I am friendly and helpful, but can seem shy at first.I am very honest and hard working, but I enjoy my leisure time. My son is the most important thing in my life and I enjoy teaching him new things and showing him the world around us. I do however want an adult companion to have intelligent conversations with. To share in the special things and the every day joys of life. I am independent and financially sound. I am neither looking to be taken care of nor do I want to take care of you. I want to built a mutual relationship between equals.I enjoy small social gatherings and intimate evenings. I enjoy playing cards, board and strategy games, and some video games (Nintendo old school Tetris anyone?) I try to go to the Zoo/Safari park, Birch Aquarium, SeaWorld, several times a year and the beach occasionally. I miss camping, but don't like to go alone. I like amusement parks and Disneyland (is that an amusement park or something all together different?). I like going to a baseball game, but I cheer for the Rockies if they come to town. And I've been seen at an airshow or two (I loved airplanes as a little girl). I am something of a geek and enjoy science fiction in TV, movies, reading, and games. I also like the procedural lab/cop shows like Bones, CSI, NCIS, although I don't have time to watch much TV lately. I can get into cult flicks like Farscape and Firefly. You would think I read a lot as a librarian, but not so much. Partly due to time and partly that I'm more into understanding information than stamping overdue books ;- I have some old comics I used to collect and a few of the fantasy series here and there. My music tastes are also varied, although a will always have one foot in the 80's. I do not like rap however. And country is iffy. I enjoy eating out and have my favorite spots. I'm not much of a cook, but you can cook, right?I am looking for someone to spend time with who might enjoy some of my interests and who is willing to share some of his interests with me. Because my son is young, I'm not as free to take trips to other countries, so I'm looking for a low key, but potentially long term, relationship. I would hope my match would have children or understand what being a parent is about (my son is with me full time).So drop me a message and lets see where it goes. It should be low pressure. I know the 'thing' now is coffee, but anywhere public where we can talk, it doesn't have to be a Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well this water is a little rougher then I thought! I am straight up, probably brutally honest some might say. I enjoy life and don't let my past relationships dictate my future. I am funny, smart, outspoken, determined, witty and a lil wild. I have a 17 year old son who is the best thing I've ever done. I was born and raised here but have been gone the last few years. I am a free spirit and riding motorcycles is my chi and my cha so if you don't ride step aside. I have my own company, and I bartend at a popular biker bar where at 41 I swing from the rafters. I'm not like most girls and pride myself on this fact!!!!Life is a blank canvas so throw paint all over it!!! I like coffee, I like beer,

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    At 43 years old, I can honestly say I am happier and more content than I have ever been in my life. I have 2 great sons, one in the military and one in high school. I have a job that I love. I am attending college and finishing my degree…finally! I have the best friends anyone could ask for. Seems like I have everything I could want, just missing that great guy to share it all with. I love to hike, swim, and go the lake. I LOVE to travel! I work out several times a week and believe in taking care of myself. I like to stay very active, I want someone who likes to get out of the house and have fun. Don’t get me wrong, a night at home snuggling on the couch would be great too!! I'm honest (I’m horrible at lying so why try), caring and compasionate (would do anything to help the people I care about), outgoing (I can talk to anyone anywhere,) genuine (what you see is what you get) and very positive (things could always be worse so put a smile on your face and quit complaining!). I definitely want the same in someone I date. Life is just too short and I want someone who appreciates and loves life. I'm looking for someone who is ready to find someone special! My pictures are all accurate and very recent; I would expect the same in return. Best of luck in your search! Let's figure it out together

  • Calanthia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    It is close to impossible to write this part since you want to make yourself sound like the most interesting and fun person ever but there is a fine line between coming off who you really are and trying to be someone who is fake.Here's the low down on me. I love my kids. I have two who are elementary school aged but I do share custody with their dad. I have a job that I love and I am independent financially so not looking for a 'sugar daddy' but I am could never be your 'sugar momma' either. I love watching sports, football and baseball, in particular, but love most sports. I actually prefer a guy who likes sports, but if you don't that is not a deal breaker but I will continue to watch football and baseball, with or without you. I am a talker and love having good cerebral conversations about anything and everything. I am a very down to earth, born and raised in the mid-west and can relate and talk to anyone. I am quite sarcastic at times and appreciate a guy who can give the sarcasm right back. Basically, I want to meet a guy who is comfortable in their own skin. Someone who I can be myself with and gets me and I get them. I love to go out and have a good time but also love being able to hang out at home and watch a movie or play cards and have good conversation. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck!! Before a 'real' first date I like to try and get to know someone by chatting on the phone or meeting for a drink to see if there is a connection and then go from there.

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