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Elaina, 38

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About Me

I'm easy-going, funny, kind, self sufficient, independent, artistic, a lover of the arts, music, animals and my new life! Recently divorced after way too many years in a bad relationship, and very much looking forward to what my future holds! I would like to meet a tall, non-smoking professional man. He must have a job, a car and a place to live. I have my life together, and I prefer to be with someone that does as well! Ultimately, I would love to find a relationship, but what happened to dating??? Seems to me like everyone wants to jump in like you've known each other for 10 years. Getting to know someone is the fun part! I miss the butterflies when I'm so excited to see someone! If you feel the same, I look forward to hearing from you! Meeting somewhere fairly quiet, so that we can get to know one another. Maybe over dinner and a glass of wine. Laughter and conversation flow effortlessly. And then we both end up grinning all the way home because we felt that "spark!"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Herta

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    HI! I've been here, before... And I'm baaaack. I guess you could call it a glutton for punishment. I'll stick with calling it optimistic.I'm still a widow, (he's still not back) been 9 years, like that. My daughters are 13 & 16.I apologize, but if we meet between now annnnd, maybe April or May, I will look like a marshmallow in 12 layers. Looking cute is not as much a priority as keeping my *** warm. I have girlfriends that go out in sleeveless & their teeth chatter all night. That's just dumb.I have an awesome sense of humor, and am also pretty sarcastic. Life is too short & I want someone to laugh with, have fun with, and be able to count on.**I have zero interest in giving birth to anymore children. That ship hasn't just sailed, it blew up & sunk, I'm not interested. Nor do I want to teach a 20 year old a thing or two. **I am a CNA, and I absolutely love caring for my residents. I work 3 days a week for now, however, I am self sufficient, own my own home and car. I don't need a man to save me, and I don't want a man that needs saving. With that said, last month I replaced my first faucet with sprayer, including shut off valves & supply lines and today I replaced a part on my dishwasher, that I figured out & ordered all by myself. Guys seem to take issue when I don't run to them like a sissy & ask for help. Unless it's automotive or electrical, odds are I'm going to figure it out, or hurt myself, trying. I think there is still a stone in my chin from the header off the ladder I took last fall cleaning out my gutters. I fixed 3 issues with my lawn mower last fall, which was promptly shot to hell this spring when I hit the patio with it.I love to fish, and have not done that nearly enough, this summer. My favorite place to be is on or near the water. Catching frogs, crayfish, or fish, or hanging out at the lake with a cold drink are what impresses me. Poetry readings, operas, fine dining & other lah-tee-dah crap does NOT. I can "clean up real good" for a company party, sure.Ideally, I want to be swept off my feet by a guy with integrity, intelligence, humor, and romance. I'm not your typical chick, by a long shot.I am looking for someone that is employed & supports themselves, does NOT live with Mommy & Daddy, does NOT do drugs, is *SINGLE* (as in NOT MARRIED), and is not just here for a booty call. Picnic by the water, fishing... you get the idea. Not the movies. First of all, you can't talk to each other, and second of all, I probably won't sit still that long. They aren't my thing.

  • Karlee

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I love to conversate going out having fun but i can be a homebody at times as well.I love music and animals. A casual meet and greet over dinner.

  • Steffanie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm currently in my mid 30's and have 3 daughters whom are the light of my life currently. I'm not a big fan of MN winters, but love watching Pro football all winter long on those cold boring Sundays. I enjoy listening to all types of music except no metal music. I'm a huge animal fan. I currently own cats, 1 dog and 3 horses. I've traveled some with my family, but never outside of the U.S. I also love spending time with the family at our families cabin in WI during the summer months. We do all sorts of fun things like, boating, fishing, going to outdoor craft shows, BBQ and bonfires. My future goals are to eventually move to a warmer climate after my older two kids graduate high school. I would also like to continue to climb the ladder in the employment field where I'm at. I consider myself to be a very family orientated person. Lastly, I'm hoping to meet a guy that we can become good friends and go from there. Ultimately I'm hoping I will end up with my soul mate and possibly even re-marry again. First dates are always nerve wracking, because you never know what to say to one another and how to start up a conversation. I would prefer a more casual first date I think. An evening having dinner together seems fitting for a first dates. You spend just the right amount a time with one another, and should be able to tell if we are both interested in one another and if we would like to meet for date number two.

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