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United States, Michigan, Sandusky

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**PLEASE READ ENTIRE PROFILE**As I write this "profile" I'm wondering if this is really the place to look for a significant other. Yet here I sit typing away.I know it's cliche, but I'm starting a whole new phase in my life. Not just a new chapter, but a whole new book. I've lived and learned and fought my way to where I am now. I'm ready to find someone who will help me write the next book. If you're just looking to be a brief encounter, don't bother reading further.I am educated and professional, but lean towards the "edgy" side of life. I hate preconceived notions and misconceptions. I am independent and strong because I have had to be, but I am not a dominant woman. I like trying new things, learning new things and just experiencing life, but I do live a fairly low key life, with moments of excitement thrown in to keep things interesting. I appreciate the arts and would love to go to more theater events. Live music, museums, cultural events and art fairs are definitely an interest.I love motorcycles and fast cars. Tattoos and rock-n-roll. I have 5 tattoos. They are not random and all hold special meaning. I predict I will have more. All of them can be covered by clothing or my hair. I can enjoy most types of music, but am a rock-n-roll girl at heart. 80's rock, 90's alternative, modern rock, and alt rock are my favorites. I am a bibliophile. I love books and reading. I could browse a book store for hours or read in the library hidden in a corner all afternoon. I read just about anything that strikes me. That being said, I love good, quality TV and movies. Well written shows that surprise you each week or consistently make you laugh. I like action, suspense, drama, sci-fi/fantasy, and some romantic type movies, (but would rather wait to watch those on netflix.)If you've made it this far, something must be catching your eye. So what am I looking for in a man? Here ya go:Must be able to support yourselfMust have your own residenceMust have your own transportation.Must put family at the top of your priority listMust like animalsOk, that's the list of "must haves." Sorry to be blunt, but hey, how else can you be on these sites?You should have a good sense of humor. Caring, compassionate, intelligent, witty, spiritual but not overly religious, hard worker, determined, kind, open minded, accepting of other's opinions and loving. I like a man who can enjoy a quick witted conversation. I tend to have my moments of sarcasm as well. Be strong and sure of yourself. Confidant but not arrogant. I like to feel "girly" and feminine with a man. Remind me I'm a woman.Questions? Ask me anything. I'm an open book. There's so much more to me than pictures and a few trite words. Tell me, what is your passion? What quirky things set you apart from the other guys? First meeting should be casual. Cup of coffee or a drink. No expectations so that neither of us are uncomfortable and looking for an excuse to run! :-) If we hit it off and want to spend more time together, then great!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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