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Jude, 36
United States, Michigan, Saint Joseph

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About Me

I'm a single mom of 2 kids. They are my everything, they come first no matter how old they are. I'm giving this website another try although I'm not sure why as most the people on here are phonies or game players. I'm looking for some one that knows the true meaning behind communication, honesty, & being faithful. I'm an honest & out spoken person. I don't put up with liars, cheaters, & laziness. I have my own financial obligations and I'm not looking to financially support any one. I'm an independent person and want to remain some what independent. I don't need a man to lead the way and I don't need a man to follow me, I need a man willing to walk beside me threw the good, the bad, and the eh okay days. Someone that will stick around when sh*tgets rough and won't run away. I've dealt with that before and won't deal with it again. You're either in it for the long haul or you're not. I've been told I'm rough around the edges and there is truth to that, but hey I didn't get to where I'm at by being the prima ballarina at the ball. I got here with hard work, the drive, and determination. I want a 1 woman man!! If you can't chose between me and someone else then I'll make the decision for you. It'll be a nice to know ya see you later type of thing. So after reading this if you'd like to know more then shoot me a message. Btw I do have a few tats if that's a problem don't message me. Really just depends on the person. Definitely not a movie as we can't get to know each other watching a movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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