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Jaylah, 36

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About Me

I don't take dating websites seriously because I'm looking for something serious. I just like talking to people in general. Good conversation is hard to find and a good man is even harder to find. I'm looking to connect with someone and so far I've never done that through any dating app but anything could happen! I'm a complex, dynamic person with many interests. I like culture, music, travel, documentaries, art and cooking.Also I'm a bbw and if that's not your thing keep it movin. I like intelligent men who aren't small minded or racist. I like people who appreciate other cultures. I am not looking for sex or sexting or cheap/free thrills and not looking to give them out! Please don't waste my time if that's what you're looking for. I tend to gravitate toward men who aren't from around here (where I'm from)Also, I take care of my 72 y/o mother. She had brain surgery and may still have cancer and we live together. I take care of her and I'm glad to be blessed enough to be able to do so. She is everything to me. I work two jobs and take care of her. I appear about 10 years younger than I am. I don't date younger guys so if you're under 30 you don't have a chance. I have a lot of young friends but I can relate to any age group. I tend to act younger than my age when it comes to my lifestyle too. I'm spontaneous and I have no problem with surprises or impulses. I have no idea. It would just be excellent to meet someone and hit it off no matter where it takes place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Arielle

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am looking for dating to get to know someone and hopefully in time, a long term relationship. I am not looking to jump into anything. This to me means several "dates" to see if we have the ability to have fun together and if there is some sort of spark. These are both important to me. If not, I am happy being friends, (if that is of interest to you, and who knows maybe something will come of it) or just saying good luck to each other and part ways, if that is your preference. I know that everyone has different intentions on here. I personally, am not interested in bringing sex into the equation until I know that I feel that these two connections.So we all know it is hard to describe ourselves in a box...but a few things. Me: I am honest, loyal and straightforward, big on good communication, introspective, and very supportive...I am very open minded but sometimes get caught up in my opinion and don't want to admit I was off base, but I will do it anyway (cause what else are you going to do :))...I am very focused on fitness because it makes me feel good...I am very independent and at times also like to be taken care of....I have days when I want to go out and be active all day and other days where I just want to relax...I like having a partner to do things with, and when I am in a relationship, it is my priority second only to my daughter (b/c she is my daughter :***I will drink on occasion, but do not want to go get drinks and am not a bar person. I work in Real Estate and have often odd and usually flexible hours. Oh, I like to type with "..." and " :) " intertwined. Goals:To stay fit and healthy; to have fun in life; advance my career; to consistently be able to travel; to set up my finances for retirement; constant self improvement; acquiring investment properties; to find someone to do all of this with, who is committed to us, and to hopefully at some point marry; to one day have a beach house; to spend more time playing guitar and keep active in my many interests; to improve my limited Spanish...oh, I could keep going!I am always trying to improve myself and learn. You and what I am looking for in a partner**I have had several guys message me "Good luck finding all that" & I to them I say "Thank you!"***SINGLE & looking for the end goal of a long term relationship and possibly/hopefully marriage.*Honest, loyal, committed, diverse*Emotionally stable and at least somewhat introspective*Able to communicate and willing to work through disagreements (as we all know life has bumps)*Open minded and non-judgmental*Intelligent and easy to talk to*Financially stable *Funny (I LOVE to laugh) and FUN (so important)*Fit and active*Like to try out new things, easy going, ok to plan a day/event or just wing it and have fun *Romantic (I like a man who is willing to plan a date, surprise me, bring home dinner b/c he knows I am busy, step out of work to meet for lunch, etc)*Affectionate... ( I am big on spending time together, touch, hugging, holding hands, a sweet text or unexpected phone call, even if only for a minute b/c you are at work)*And of course, good chemistry...really, you can't get too far without that.Bonus points if you are good at: *Planning fun, original and at time romantic dates. *Play guitar.*Are into investment properties.OTHER MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION ABOUT ME:Hobbies:Fitness (running, weight lifting, Bikram Yoga lately, kayaking, hiking, rock climbing at times, anything outdoors), Painting/Drawing, Photography, Reading, Exploring & Travel (ie.; salted caramel frozen yogurt), The beach, Learning (I am trying to teach myself guitar, have recently taken a few salsa lessons, read "self improvement" and finance books), looking for investment properties.Recent Reading:Books: The Passage, The Game of Thrones series, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo seriesMagazines: Money, Maxim, Men's Health/Fitness (It is better than the women's version), Popular PhotographyMusic:I will listen to most anything with the exception of heavy metal and hard core rap.Food:I do not really eat fried foods and I tend to eat healthy at home.When going out (or if you now how to cook it) I love ethnic cuisine, Lebanese, Mexican, Indian, etc.Did I say I am obsessed with salted caramel frozen yogurt...who invented that deliciousness. Dark chocolate.Movies:I like a mix...love the Marvel comic movies, comedies (not the overly stupid ones), anything with Will Ferrel, action movies, drama, a few of the artsy movies......lol...mindless things to relax to...(old TV: The Wire--great show)***Also, assuming you got this far, I have one child, I am not sure that I want more. If you are dead set on having children, you may wish to choose someone else or at least make this clear to at some point be discussed. I can be an idealist of sorts, but on this point, I am a realist and know there is not much of a way to "compromise" it. I am guessing this is what I would like to do for a first date?!?LunchHikingKayakingPicnicConcertCoffeeOR Pick me up in your private jet and take me to an exotic island to go scuba diving and have lunch on the beach...Anything else really cool that you can think of...Also, in the long run, I prefer talking to texting. Texting has a purpose, but I do not want a relationship by text :)

  • Mahalia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am not on here to waste time, I am looking for that partner to share my time and world with, someone to hold me at night and cuddle with. If you feel the need to msg me please only serious inquiries only! And those that want to truly meet me. So with that saidI Enjoy music, outdoor sports, like frisbee golf, golf, hiking. Hobbies I enjoy the most are playing pool, darts and believe it or not organizing lol.Love going out with Friends listening to live music and dancing and havin some drinks. No reason to go on a date if it's not something that you both enjoy, so I'd have to say I would enjoy my first date to be something that we both enjoy or have in common. Or even something we've both not done before, or usually do, lunch on the water front, night at the tracks, day at the casino, or afternoon at the batting cages.

  • Mark

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    **** *** don’t love a significant other because they are beautiful, but they are beautiful because you love them. *************************************************************************************If you see that I've looked *** ur page & not said anything or put you as a favorite, it's mainly cause I'm shy I'm NOT on here looking for sex nor erotic chat or ***, I'm not looking for a friend w. benefits..... I am looking for my best friend, soul mate .... I'm very easy going also shy to start w., I'm not into drama...I'm just looking for the simple things in life, they seem to be the hardest things to find though :( ..( the ones lucky enough to find them, dont appreciate having them) ... I know you have to develop a bond/friendship/chemistry, etc before things get serious.*********************************************************************************** Love isn't about loving the perfect person, its about loving the unperfect person perfectly.. cause truth is....we walk away 2c who follows, we cry 2c who wipes away our tears & let our heart be broken 2c who will fix it. ~looking for my love~ *************************************************************************************I just want someone that can't wait to see and spend time w me, as much as I do them. Can't wait to just be able to hear their voice or kiss/hold them, just to be with them, those little notes/text etc, just to let em know ur thinking bout them. Why is something so simple, so hard to find? *********************************************************************************I got this recently in an *** explains what I want to find one day.... How to Dance in the Rain It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning. He said no, he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied she no longer knew who he was, she had not recognized him in five years now . I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?' He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.' I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.' True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have. 'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain. ************************************************************************************** *** I am not ***or anything like it friendly....to each their own but this isn't what I want......unless you're willing to give it up......~WISHES FOR YOU~ If by chance some day I would seeA little fae, that gave wishes to meI would wish for you...Comfort on difficult days,Smiles when sadness intrudes,Rainbows to follow the clouds,Laughter to kiss your lips,Sunsets to warm your heart,Gentle hugs when spirits sag,Friendships to brighten your being,Beauty for your eyes to see,Confidence for when you doubt,Faith so that you can believe,Courage to know yourself,Patience to accept the truth,And love to complete your life.~~Author Unknown

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