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Ilean, 40

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About Me

Just looking to meet new people & maybe have a drink/coffee somewhere quieter to chat. Been burnt badly this year & not sure where to start again so just looking for friends first. I don't drink a lot but I do enjoy going out to hear local bands, like rock, metal, punk, some country, no (c)rap. I know some people put on their profiles 'not into the bar scene' so maybe 2x a month do I get to go out. I work some weekends. Everyone tells me that I have a great personality & I like to laugh & joke around. Looking for someone who is employed, drives, doesn't live w/ parents, no druggies & knows what they want out of life or have accomplished a lot of their life's goals. I have two teenagers & two jobs so I have a work ethic & my life is a bit hectic at times. I don't smoke but that doesn't mean I wouldn't date someone who does. I would just ask you not to smoke in my house!Don't message me w/ vulgar comments that is a definate no response. One good thing about this site. I had a bad experience on another site a few years ago so that is why I ask for no rude/vulgar comments.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marisa

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    There is no gray area with me; you either like me or hate me...but whatever is said or done to me, I reciprocate equally. I may contradict many aspects of my beliefs, but that is what makes me a complex individual. I am not "full of myself", just protective and selective. I am often misunderstood and may come across as something I am not; but that is due to guarding what I've spent my entire life protecting. I am only vulnerable out of sheer will, and not as a result of being beaten down...I've dealt with that enough. I smoke, I drink...I am not a perfect person...but I do take much pride and passion in everything I do. I am too intelligent to play mindless head games that wastes my time...it's too valuable to me. I am a straight up person, in the politest way possible and believe manners will get you a lot further in your quest for long-term friendships....or more.I did not join this site to hang out or "hook up" with anyone. I am taking this a bit more serious and will not tolerate or respond to cliche' messages that may contain only ***words. That's boring. I prefer mental stimulation over anything else, although, physical attraction wouldn't hurt. I'm not stuck-up; I'm human. If you see that I have taken a gander at your profile, please don't get your hopes up and bombard me with messages. You need to remember that I am on here, just like you. I need to scope the profiles for info to decide if I'd like to further communication. After all, isn't that why we have them?I PREFER ***; mainly, because I enjoy the ease of one-on-one personal communication in my own time, rather than having a group of chat messages that I would feel obligated to respond to ***'t ask me for my number to text, I've had to learn lessons the hard way and don't care to relive those *** I want you to have further contact information, I will openly offer it to you. Additionally, please have patience with me in my responses, as I am a bit overwhelmed with the volume of *** received since I have joined. If I do not respond, however, please accept my sincerest apology and understand the frustration I endure. I'm just a squirrel trying to get her nut. I believe first dates should be light-hearted and fun in order to get a feel for the person you're with. The ultimate first date would require some time spent in public, as well as time alone for the same reason. If it is found that chemistry, in fact, does exist between both parties, I would not hesitate to make arrangements for that second date!

  • Tanja

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Heather NewsomeIm 38 year oldHave 3 *** mind cuddle loving It's just that IDont want to beSomebody like Like me I want themTo like the real meNot what theyThings iam not what they thinkThem ti carry it around isside I want them to show so I feel it too.

  • Evita

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    IF YOU WANT TO KNOW, ASK. Just talk and get to know one another as friends. Take it slow. No rushing into anything.

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