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Marisa, 37
United States, Michigan, Saint Joseph

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About Me

There is no gray area with me; you either like me or hate me...but whatever is said or done to me, I reciprocate equally. I may contradict many aspects of my beliefs, but that is what makes me a complex individual. I am not "full of myself", just protective and selective. I am often misunderstood and may come across as something I am not; but that is due to guarding what I've spent my entire life protecting. I am only vulnerable out of sheer will, and not as a result of being beaten down...I've dealt with that enough. I smoke, I drink...I am not a perfect person...but I do take much pride and passion in everything I do. I am too intelligent to play mindless head games that wastes my time...it's too valuable to me. I am a straight up person, in the politest way possible and believe manners will get you a lot further in your quest for long-term friendships....or more.I did not join this site to hang out or "hook up" with anyone. I am taking this a bit more serious and will not tolerate or respond to cliche' messages that may contain only ***words. That's boring. I prefer mental stimulation over anything else, although, physical attraction wouldn't hurt. I'm not stuck-up; I'm human. If you see that I have taken a gander at your profile, please don't get your hopes up and bombard me with messages. You need to remember that I am on here, just like you. I need to scope the profiles for info to decide if I'd like to further communication. After all, isn't that why we have them?I PREFER ***; mainly, because I enjoy the ease of one-on-one personal communication in my own time, rather than having a group of chat messages that I would feel obligated to respond to ***'t ask me for my number to text, I've had to learn lessons the hard way and don't care to relive those *** I want you to have further contact information, I will openly offer it to you. Additionally, please have patience with me in my responses, as I am a bit overwhelmed with the volume of *** received since I have joined. If I do not respond, however, please accept my sincerest apology and understand the frustration I endure. I'm just a squirrel trying to get her nut. I believe first dates should be light-hearted and fun in order to get a feel for the person you're with. The ultimate first date would require some time spent in public, as well as time alone for the same reason. If it is found that chemistry, in fact, does exist between both parties, I would not hesitate to make arrangements for that second date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Drama Horror Martial Arts American Football
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