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Shaye, 38
United States, Michigan, Petoskey

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About Me

To start off I'd like to thank you for stopping in.. and welcome to what I like to call the worlds largest vending machine..lol but can't kick the machine to get your change back when you don't get what you want! I hope it's treated you well so far..:)I'm a fun loving, out going gal, I enjoy the outdoors, but can also enjoy a night in..I live my life with 110% put forth..if someone reaps the benifits, I will always expend the maximum effort..:)I tend to be alittle feisty, and I can become consumed with the things I'm into..I'm passionate about plenty, tend to be very postive and am chock-full of motivational rehtoric..Perpetual positivity mantra.. If you believe it, good things will come.I am drivin and know what I wantI love watching movies, all types of music and I like it loud..I love to dance, but have NO rythym but always willing to bust a move in the middle of the store when they play a good song.. I'd like to find a dance partnerI Love to sing.. I use music to sooth my soul.. when I'm angry or upset or happy as can be.. music heals all :)singing and dancing is my medicine..:)I love to cook, and bake, I'm working on expanding my kitchen skills into one day having my own restraunt...but for now, I spend alot of my time learning and experimenting and trying new things.. I do alot of cooking for friends, and I love to entertain..My biggest fear is flying. (I would like to break that fear one day and travel)My best quality would be my determination.. I do give everything I have.. and I fight hard for what I believe in, or love.. and my compassionate heart.. is one hard to come by, this could be magical or I could make you sick..lolTo inspire people through humor, romance, or anything that can *** passion with in them makes me happy, and it might even make you smile too..:)My biggest flaw, I would believe to be is trusting people.. one thing I have learned is words are easy to come by.. actions tell all, people tell you what you want to hear all the time, but do the total opposite .. WHAT ONE DOES AFFECTS MORE THAN WHAT ONE SAYS! So PLEASE be yourself..:)I would like to meet someone spiritual, romantic a robust sense of humor,I am playful and prone to laughter.. fundamentally he's be adventurous like me, and he'd never say NO to trying something new..:) He wouldn't waste time complaining, look for the good in peopleI will watch, learn, and feel you out, rather then you telling me how great you are... I want to know if you can admit your not perfect.... I'm not judgemental but expect common sense.. and your true identity. I pride myself on being true to one self..I am one of the very few people left that believe in commitment.. I know it's unique but it does still exists..I have 4 wonderful children ages 8 to 17 that I share with my ex.. I'm looking for a family man, one that in time, my kids and I can look up to and learn from with a positive influence, and can accept the sameI love animals and have 2 crazy dogs and a cat to call my own... and I love them all dearly, I adore hanging out with my friends, and value my family..I do like to cuddle, as it is a requirment.. but I can't stress enough, I am NOT looking for a one night stand or a friend with benifits.. if you are, I will disappoint you..:) I'm looking for someone serious about a real relationship..I have a big heart with alot to offer, and expect the same in return.. I'm not looking for perfection, just someone perfect for me..:) we should make each other better, it's all about adding value to each others lives..I'm not looking for us to be 2 peas in a pod, as I feel being different adds flavor.. we aren't the same person and different is interesting and challenging to me as it will allow me to learn from you.. but somethings in common is always nice and always a place to start and or fall back on.I strive to do my best in everything I do, but can accept that I will fail sometimes and I strongly believe rising after you fall is your greatest glory... it will take one hell of a MAN to rock my world... no one said it would be easy.. just promise it would be worth it..:) My beliefs, my loyality, my genuine love..are very unique..AIM HIGH, AND LAND GRACEFULLY................:)One last Question as curiosity moves the mind.... I'm a fan of both Criminal Minds and Big Bang Theory... I love Dr. Reid and Dr........in a battle of wits who would win???? Visualize me with bloodshot eyes and 7 empty tea cups in front of my laptop for a week straight, all I'm asking for is, for you to now *** of it..anything will do..lol....Yes I am a romantic at heart.. I'm not the first one to go to the movies with a date, as it would be a shame to sit there and stare at the screen for a couple of hours, when we could be chatting and getting aquainted with each other... I need mental stimulation..(I crave it)...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Traveling American Thai Vietnamese
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