SIMILAR PEOPLE
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JaymieOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems--the ones that make you truly who you are--that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person--someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.I don't want to be your world, that's just too much responsibility. I will not be your one night stand. It really can't be that hard to find someone that you want to spend more than 5 minutes with. Grill out, go out, and spend time getting to know. I'm not sure I believe in forevermore. I'm not here to scratch your itch. I'm a good girl but that goes out the window with the person I'm with. I'm the girl next door with edge. I'm curvy and no drama. I hate conflict, extremely loyal, but will stand and fight for the things I believe in. I have a ditzy naivety about me but extremely intelligent also. I can be extremely sweet and or brash if I need to be. I can be submissive and I can be dominate. If you read this and say that girl might be out of my league then you're right. I like a confident strong man. Now please understand there is a difference between being of strong character and just an ass. If you're the second I will quickly call you out on it. If you are not at least 5'10 I'm probably not going to be interested. If you are really skinny I'm probably not going to be interested. If you show a hard on in your photos I'm not going to be interested. If you are into gaming as one of your hobbies and have your hat on sideways gangstafied, I'm not going to be interested. For ****sakes you're how old?!?!? I can't say for sure what I'm looking for but I surely know what I'm not looking for. I have changed my life over this year. I have closed my business and left corporate world. I have realized my happiness is more important than money. That my easy going nature thrives in the unstuffy world with which I have thrown restraints away. You can say I play with dogs and horses all day now for my career. I will say that I'm not sure how you guys put up with us. As females we are a pain in the ass. But at the end of the day I'm just a girl. I believe, I feel, I hope, and sometimes I don't want to show the brave strong side. Sometimes I will want to crawl into your lap bury my head into your shoulder and draw upon your strength. Have a super sparkly day. :-) First meet.. Simple and easy.. Meet up for a drink.. ect.. Preferably with easy escape windows.
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VernellOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I surround myself with books. I love music, but can't play an *** I can & do sing and as an update on the ***, I'm currently learning to play the baritone ukulele!) . I smile too much, but that's only to convince others that I'm happy (and not hiding evil thoughts behind the smile). I like to laugh, but try not to cry. I feel things a little too deeply for my own good. I'm lazy at times, but driven at others. I'm a random thinker & talker so I'm sometimes quite socially inept. I'm shy and have an imagination that often runs wild. on a walk, to a gallery or museum, windowshopping in a small town, wandering the streets, playing frisbee or kickball (for two?- yes, even in the winter!)... a coffee shop, perhaps or maybe even bowling ;-). I'm pretty open-- someplace we're able to talk and hopefully laugh a bit....
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AnyaOffline
Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I am a hairdresser so I am pretty outgoing at work, but I can be shy when I'm out socially. I am pretty strong willed, and I am usually pretty blunt...not rude, just blunt. I like to joke around and laugh but I need quiet time sometimes too. I try to watch my money and I want to be comfortable but I don't dwell on it... not sure if that's good or bad. Let's see.... turn ons: good grammar( I know, wierd right?) and aggressive men. Turn offs: People who type in all capitals so I feel like they're yelling at me and people who say warsh *** wash. I admit, I'm not the skinniest girl in the world, but I'm not huge either, I am who I am. I'm pretty sarcastic, I like being a smartass, and I can take it as well as dish it out. Like I said, I like men who are aggressive... not asses, but strong willed. I like men who remember that they are men, and won't let me walk all over them. I know I need a kick in the butt once in a while, especially when I'm having a stubborn moment. I like men who can talk when we have different opinions rather than argue. Someone who can make me laugh and thinks I'm funny. Someone who wants to be with me but knows we both need friend time. Definitely looking for something to turn into a long term relationship. Remember when you used to feel butterflies in your stomach when you spoke? Maybe that's just girls, but I want to feel that again. Honestly, for a first date I'd just want to have a drink and talk and get comfortable. The second date though, I'm up for about anything.