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Retha, 39

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About Me

I'm a smart, sassy, fun girl looking for the spice in life. Adventures, fun times and spontaneous acts of craziness have been in short supply as of late and it's time for that to change! In short, I'm looking for trouble. The good kind. You know, the kind that leaves you short of breath, your heart racing and saying to each other: "I can't believe we just did that. Let's do it again." A few things I find sexy: confidence, tattoos, glasses, men with shaved heads, intelligence, a crisp white shirt, wit, a sense of style and expressive eyes.You should message me if:You are not intimidated a smart, driven and successful woman.You are a bald man with tattoos wearing a crisp white shirt and glasses. Yes, really.You are Eddie Vedder. Yes, I do realize he's not bald. I'm a study in contradictions.What's that you say? You're not bald either OR Eddie Vedder? That's okay, I'm also open-minded! Keep reading! Maybe you fit into one of these categories *** a wild side that not many people know about (I do...shhhh!).You want to do something fun and spontaneous...Road trip? Sweet. Rock climbing? Let's go! I've never been. Care to try one of my spicy margaritas?ño?You want a workout partner.You are wise beyond your years but still young at heart.You can teach me the secret to meditating and can provide me with some gentle reminders to live in the moment. This moment...right here.You are any combination of the following...curious, creative, daring, a tad mischievous or a bit naughty. Got 'em all? You move to the front of the line!You want to explore and you like a challenge.You agree that "you can't" is not a legitimate or acceptable answer--to any question.A few disclaimers: If you don't have a photo, I'm not likely to respond. So, if you can't post one for whatever reason, please at least send one with your message. I'm not so shallow that looks mean everything, but I'm also not so naive to think that attraction isn't important.Also, if the message you're thinking of sending might read something like: "hey, wut up sexy? How r u?" or something similar, we're probably not a good match. Surprise me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Janise

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi Guys!I have a profession where I work with kids all day which has limited my chances of meeting people so I decided to try online dating again :-) Looking for someone who has similar qualities as myself. I love to workout and live a healthy lifestyle. I'm not much of a bar person anymore...left that in my younger years...lol Love to go out to nice dinners, drinks (love wine) and any sporting event..I'm a HUGE sports fan! Also, i'm passionate about going to concerts....Love all types of music except real heavy rap and hard rock...I am a very honest person and I have a big heart. I despise lying and cheating..Seems to be the norm lately, looking for someone to prove to me they are different.There is much more to me but you need to leave a little mystery ;-) If you feel like we could be a match then feel free to contact me. Good luck and happy fishing :-)I will put this out there...I am looking for a relationship not a fling. If you are only looking for a hook up please do not contact me, Thank you! I'm up for anything! Try the unexpected not the usual coffee, dinner, drink dates :-)

  • Pru

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a pretty positive, sweet, upbeat type of person...more the girl nextdoor type. I'm honest, sincere and a mother of two great kids who I am very involved with. I am pretty laid back, low maintenance and low drama. I enjoy a variety of outdoor activities and am up to try new things. I also enjoy laying low and staying in for the evening from time to time.I have meet some really nice guys, but no great connection yet. I'm in no rush - plain and simple. Life is good, but it could always get better with the addition of just the right person.So I keep hearing that my photos don't do me justice, guess I'm just not that photogenic...oh well!I truly have no desire to have more children myself, but I love kids so if you already have kids fabulous...just don't think you'll change my mind on wanting more.And Most Importantly, if you are not done with or not truly over your baggage, don't waste my time.I won't respond without a pic. We all have different things we are attracted to, so I also like when there are pics without sun glasses. (I'm an eyes girl). I also don't see the sense in purposefully taking shirtless (or less) photos. I would love to meet someone who is not totally straight-laced or on the other end of the spectrum. I prefer guys who are a good mix in the middle. Someone who can lean a little in either direction depending on the situation and/or mood. If I'm not responding, it could simply be that I'm seeing something that is making me feel it might not be the best connection. I do wish you all the best of luck in your search for that special someone. Coffee or a beverage of sorts I feel is the best choice for a first face to face meeting.

  • Loreta

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have a car, I don't need your car. I have a place to live, I don't need your place to live. I have a job and earn good money, I don't need your money. What I am looking for is a partner, lover, and companion. Someone to love and to love me back. Seems simple enough, right? Apparently not.It seems like everyone on this site is an Olympic athlete. I am not training to climb Mt. I love to travel to warm and sunny locales and go scuba diving. I would love to find a travel partner and dive buddy.I recently adopted a doggie from the shelter (rescued is the best breed!). She is the new love of my life and we come as a package deal. But she is the sweetest pup you will ever meet and loves to snuggle on the couch. I'm looking for someone to come snuggle with us!Just for clarification, because there seems to be some confusion, the children in my pictures are my niece and nephew. I do not have any children.

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