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Melantha, 38

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About Me

FYI...Time to get back on that horse, so to speak. I’m gonna give this one more try. For I believe that the one I seek also seeks me. I am the girl next door seeking the guy next door. I am a no BS, no games kinda gal. I'm fed up with insecure men with no aspirations in life. Men so fearful because of the past that they push away the one thing they truly wanted that is standing right in front of them. And men that expect me to save them. There is so much I could tell you about me, but it leaves no surprises and what's the fun in that? So here are the basics.The challenges in life have made me who I am & I wouldn't change it for a thing. I am the best of both worlds, with just enough femininity …yet can hang with the best of the boys! I am a great friend, girlfriend, mother, wife and confidant. I am educated, have great job, own place & vehicle. I am 5’3”, curvy, & very comfortable in my own skin. Mother of 3. I am very confident, brutally honest, may come off as rough around the edges for those that don't know me. I know what I want and won’t settle for less than I deserve.If you think you can tame or enhance my adventurous spirit, keep my attention, are a good man not afraid to love & be loved. Can handle a Sj Sharks nut or are one yourself... I want to hear from you. Dishonest, players, cons or seeking FWB need not apply. Something new, different, memorable. Dinner and movies are so boring, and I don't drink coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Patrice

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm independent, love to travel, work out 5x/wk and am ready to find my special someone. I'm looking for a serious relationship, my lifetime +1, and feel that I'm finally able to really make someone a priority in my life. I'm very social, spontaneous and have a great group of friends. I have integrity, a pure heart and honest intentions. Respect is very important to me (to give and to get!). I keep very fit and weight train religiouslyI want to still look and feel great at 80:-)). I take great care of myself and hope you do too! I'm really 41, but look/feel/act younger. KIDS: I put a younger age on my profile because I found most guys my age are finished having children or have decided that they'll never have children and that is definitely something that will happen in my future. 100%. I'm not desperate, nor do I want this right away but I'm looking for my lifetime +1 to want to have kids one day. With me. Please only contact me if we are for sure looking for the same thing as I'm not here to waste anyone's time (mine included). I'm most attracted to a man's man, preferably someone who is very fit (muscular) and active (ie bodybuilder type or at least very athletic). I appreciate humor, honesty, hardwork, someone who loves life, loves to travel and who is ready to make a relationship their priority. Looking for someone who will become my best friend and more. You would like to have kids one day. With me. You are loyal, funny, intelligent, spontaneous and affectionate. Hopefully you play golf so you can help me w/my swing;-)You're romantic -;-) You also love it if I do any of that in return for you. You're a little old fashioned and believe in opening my door, helping me w/my luggage, being respectful, treating me like a lady (and knowing when it's ok not too;-)). Bonus points if you can kill spiders and open jars:-) Something simple so we can get to know each other better...a big boy drink?

  • Nikia

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I have a sense of humor which I think keeps me sane in my busy life. I'm looking for someone besides the obvious...physical attraction...someone that sparks my interest and keeps it lit! I have to have good conversation. It is a necessity for me. I'm not shy. I'm educated. I can't stand it when I get texts and people can't spell (a small, ridiculous pet peeve)...and yes I know legs and brains are not spelled correctly.-hearted person, if you truly get to know me. I love to travel...whenever I can. I have 2 awesome kids that are the center of my universe. I love dancing, jack and coke, and good food! How about you?If you are under 32, I will not respond...sorry limited time. And, if you are a terrible, weekend dad...keep it pushing! Bullfighting in Spain? J/k...something simple really to see if there is interest on behalf of both parties.

  • Roselyn

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm from Cali and miss it terribly. I love the ocean! I'm a full time student aspiring to become an attorney. Criminal law but unsure for which side yet lol. I have lots of friends and would love to make more. I love dancing. I love football. I love white wine spritzers. I love to go off roading. Want to know more... Just ask. Xo

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