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Patrice, 36

United States, Michigan, Okemos

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About Me

I'm independent, love to travel, work out 5x/wk and am ready to find my special someone. I'm looking for a serious relationship, my lifetime +1, and feel that I'm finally able to really make someone a priority in my life. I'm very social, spontaneous and have a great group of friends. I have integrity, a pure heart and honest intentions. Respect is very important to me (to give and to get!). I keep very fit and weight train religiouslyI want to still look and feel great at 80:-)). I take great care of myself and hope you do too! I'm really 41, but look/feel/act younger. KIDS: I put a younger age on my profile because I found most guys my age are finished having children or have decided that they'll never have children and that is definitely something that will happen in my future. 100%. I'm not desperate, nor do I want this right away but I'm looking for my lifetime +1 to want to have kids one day. With me. Please only contact me if we are for sure looking for the same thing as I'm not here to waste anyone's time (mine included). I'm most attracted to a man's man, preferably someone who is very fit (muscular) and active (ie bodybuilder type or at least very athletic). I appreciate humor, honesty, hardwork, someone who loves life, loves to travel and who is ready to make a relationship their priority. Looking for someone who will become my best friend and more. You would like to have kids one day. With me. You are loyal, funny, intelligent, spontaneous and affectionate. Hopefully you play golf so you can help me w/my swing;-)You're romantic -;-) You also love it if I do any of that in return for you. You're a little old fashioned and believe in opening my door, helping me w/my luggage, being respectful, treating me like a lady (and knowing when it's ok not too;-)). Bonus points if you can kill spiders and open jars:-) Something simple so we can get to know each other better...a big boy drink?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching Movies Documentary Fantasy Sailing
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am always amazed at how many people seem to be online trying this but when out socially, don't seem to be getting together. Why is that? I think I AM that sweet, considerate, funny, interesting and successful girl that men seem to be looking for. ;)I have a great deal of consideration for my family, friends, partner, and sometimes complete strangers. I enjoy making other people feel good and make a point to do so more often than not. I have a great life to share with someone...I really love my job because I work with amazing people that I know would do anything for me as I would for them and we get to do great things for people. I appreciate where I live because I feel like I am in a small community where the people are diverse, open minded, friendly, and I adore that I can walk everywhere. I am very close with my family and friends and I work hard to nurture these relationships. I believe in habitual growth both emotionally and physically. I have been through more than one situation that has tested my strength and spurred maturity. I have learned from all and I am a more compassionate person for it...truly, my focus is typically to snow ski in the winter, and water ski in the summer, I try to exercise ***days a week and this usually involves a road bike, running, and the gym. Fitness is important to me but it does not dictate my life. I always love a great IPA or 2 after playing hard. So, to sum it up...I am low maintenance, for a girl. It will take me 20 min to get ready to go somewhere, 30 if we are getting dressed up for an event or dinner, I can pull off the cosmopolitan look but I am mostly a jeans and t shirt type of girl who again, likes to drink beer. :)I have my own interests and while it is great to share a few, doing all the same activities is unnecessary as long as you have your own fervor for something that gives you pure joy, especially at this point in your life. I love when people can make me laugh just by being themselves, I laugh at myself and others, especially when people trip. Cracks me up. I am looking for a partner who is up for travel to strange and unique places for the rest of their life just for the experience, has been paying attention to life's experiences and learning from them, who is going to be there for me in tough times, which is always only temporary, and who is kind.Addendum;I am not looking for a habitual weed smoker, I do not smoke and while I don't mind a partner who does occasionally, if it is your thing, probably not gonna work out.I have a schedule that changes and do not always have weekends off. I play during the week and would love to find someone with a flexible enough schedule to play with me sometimes. I have noticed nobody ever puts their faults on here right...so here are some of mine in case they are deal breakers for you fellas.I am somewhat OCD when it comes to clean. I keep my home pretty tidy at all times. I can be vulgar and have a sailor mouth, I speak my mind about things, good or bad. I am gonna tell someone when I think they are in the wrong. I am also able to admit when they are in the right.I will likely need my exercise 6 days a week and typically don't want to be talked out of it.I am stubborn and set in my way, but also understand sacrifice when necessary.I need time to myself, whether it be on a run, with friends, or out skiing.I don't eat onions.I don't really like wine all that much, especially white.I love sweets and probably eat them every day.I am not ever going to give up meat.and, I never say never but I may say ever.I better stop there. How about an IPA, anybody figured out what you say if the chemistry is just not there...

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I stand up for what I believe is Right and that includes anyone who is with me. I\'m a firm believer when I say "stand your grounds". I’d like to find the same firm person with strong values.

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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