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Cristin, 51
United States, Maine, Sanford

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I am a single white female looking to find someone with like interest and character to spend time with. I have a good personality and I am fun to be with most of the time. I have many talents and enjoy them all. I am a bartender and a waitress in a nice restaurant. That means i work nights and weekends a lot and it seriously cuts into my dating possibilities. It also means i am sometimes to brash and lots of you guys find that hard to take. Sorry, I am who I am.Having said that, being a bartender, I make a lot of acquaintances and if i like someone, i immediately care what happens to them, Don't talk to me for hours and days then blow me off thinking i won't worry. Caring people worry. Then i end up looking like a texting stalker or something cause i care. Be honest.My interest vary from reading a good book by my favorite author, knitting, sewing, designing, cooking, baking (yes they are different), painting, singing, Nascar, power tools, a football game as well as snuggling up to watch a good movie.Not your average woman. Very honest. Sometimes to a fault. openMy greatest accomplishment in my life are my two sons.This describes me perfectlyPISCES - The Partner for Life (February 19 to March ***Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to beAfter bing on here for a few month I have found that a lot of men on here are:A. just looking for either a one night standB. afraid they will pay for a night out and never see you againC. just want some cyber funE. plain scarred to tryF. look way older then me even when they are younger.(whats up with that)Update, if you have a game plan on how to manipulate someone into caring for you, then using them, back off. I am not into being hurt.Don't put looking for long term relationship in your profile unless that is what you want. I read the profile and will believe thats the plan.If any of the above apply to you don't bother messaging me.Update: on July 13, ***I met a wonderful gentleman on here and it is going great....hope it continues to so i can delete this profile.Update: 10 months ago i fell in love, today he broke my heart, May 25, ***Our first date would be a simple one. Drinks in my local bar to talk and get to know one another. I never meet in a place i am not familiar with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Hi there~ I want to know about YOU! I think you are an amazing man just the way you are and I would love to get to know you, spend time with you, laugh with you. Tell me, what is the most awesome thing about being you right now ? Tell me about something you are really proud of? and If you could have one super power, what would it be? I'm going to start a little different...I believe every person has good attributes...I want to get to know yours ;)A little about me: I found someone on Christian Mingle 6 months ago, He was also on this site. We had a really nice, fun relationship for 6 months, and then..............so I know you can find someone here, just need to find the right someone. I'm a one man woman and would love to find a one woman man. I am a happy, loving and out going person. I love to spend time with my family, my kids and my friends. I have fun in whatever I do because life is too short not to enjoy every minute of it. I hope to find the right person to share my time with who loves to laugh, can make me laugh, have a good time and enjoy each others company. I really like the area and love my new job and the people I work with! I have two beautiful children, a 21 year old girl and a 16 year old boy. I would love to find someone who loves God like I do and can grow spiritually with me. I would describe myself as a pretty woman with nice curves( are you a man who can handle that? ) LOL I do like to be active , I eat healthy and try and swim everyday.I love to water-ski, take walks on the beach, swim, travel,read,watch good movies, listen to the Eagles(and anything rock n roll really:) , go to live concerts, listen to live bands at the beach and enjoy a beautiful sunset with someone special!I would like to meet that one special man to connect with and be my best friend and partner. I'm looking for an honest, good humored, fun man with similar interests and hopefully the rest will just come natural and fall into place.Thank you so much for reading my profile and I wish you love and happiness! :) I would love to hear from you:)UPDATE: Thank you so much for your interest ,but if you're just looking for a hook up.....that wouldn't be me..... :) On a first date I would like to just meet for an iced coffee ( or Margarita) at the beach and talk and get to know each other.

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