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Cristin, 51
United States, Maine, Sanford

Offline, last seen Mon, 12 Jan 2026 06:26:53

About Me

I am a single white female looking to find someone with like interest and character to spend time with. I have a good personality and I am fun to be with most of the time. I have many talents and enjoy them all. I am a bartender and a waitress in a nice restaurant. That means i work nights and weekends a lot and it seriously cuts into my dating possibilities. It also means i am sometimes to brash and lots of you guys find that hard to take. Sorry, I am who I am.Having said that, being a bartender, I make a lot of acquaintances and if i like someone, i immediately care what happens to them, Don't talk to me for hours and days then blow me off thinking i won't worry. Caring people worry. Then i end up looking like a texting stalker or something cause i care. Be honest.My interest vary from reading a good book by my favorite author, knitting, sewing, designing, cooking, baking (yes they are different), painting, singing, Nascar, power tools, a football game as well as snuggling up to watch a good movie.Not your average woman. Very honest. Sometimes to a fault. openMy greatest accomplishment in my life are my two sons.This describes me perfectlyPISCES - The Partner for Life (February 19 to March ***Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes get the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to others but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to beAfter bing on here for a few month I have found that a lot of men on here are:A. just looking for either a one night standB. afraid they will pay for a night out and never see you againC. just want some cyber funE. plain scarred to tryF. look way older then me even when they are younger.(whats up with that)Update, if you have a game plan on how to manipulate someone into caring for you, then using them, back off. I am not into being hurt.Don't put looking for long term relationship in your profile unless that is what you want. I read the profile and will believe thats the plan.If any of the above apply to you don't bother messaging me.Update: on July 13, ***I met a wonderful gentleman on here and it is going great....hope it continues to so i can delete this profile.Update: 10 months ago i fell in love, today he broke my heart, May 25, ***Our first date would be a simple one. Drinks in my local bar to talk and get to know one another. I never meet in a place i am not familiar with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Dani from Sanford | Woman | 52 years old | Cancer
    Dani

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I don't like all the men I have met, but... I am not interested in most all Men and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. About myself -I am always looking forward to tomorrow, I am confident but I sure know my shortcomings too~~I definitely know how to admit when I am wrong.I have found that there are so many things I Love to go and do, I wish there were more hours in my days, But more than that...Someone to share those things with me.I am very fortunate to have had a lot of diverse friends throughout my life so far, I am very passionate about things that interest me. When I care about something or Someone, you will definitely know it.. I can be restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke, and I am sure I remember a few myself.. I Love to laugh, Life is too short to be So serious and uptight. I have been single over 8 years now so I have become very Independent, But sure would Love to let someone take some of that away:) Variety is the spice of life, there are so many things that I want to do in my lifetime, Someone to share those things with would be more than a Dream Come True !!!~~ I Love to Cook, Write, Dream and get my hands dirty once in while,I get so much Joy out of watching flowers grow and Birds eat. Taking walks and smelling a Sweet smelling flower, watching the Sun Rise or Set.. But most of All I Want Someone who enjoys the same and is ready to also start enjoying the same with someone. I want to Love again and Be Loved Again.:)......Someone to Inspire and Be Inspired By. I have chosen to try on-line dating again, I am not a woman that likes to spend a lot of time texting or talking on the phone.I think if there is a common interest there, we should meet and see if there is a connection and take it from there. I hope that if you are interested you would "ONLY" contact me if we share some of the same ways of thinking. If your a man that has just come out of a bad relationship or a divorce, I ask that you PLEASE pass me by. I know that sounds harsh But I know from experience that you need "Time" behind you after a break up, if only to figure out what went wrong..I know there are no guarantees in anything we do in life but If I am lucky enough to find that Special Man in my life, " I want it to be the last for us both". I am not a religious person, But I am full of Faith & that is where I draw my strength from, I ask that we share in the same Belief as there are so many to choose from..if you even want one. As 4 me..There will always be 1" just " + One! The only "One" Way 4 me and I will never change that about myself. I would never try to change the man I fall in Love with, I know so many failed relationships where one of them just wouldn't be like the other wanted them to be..Isn't that Crazy? I would not have you any other way but they way that made me Love you :)) I am the same person everyday, I wake up in the same body and I act the same..!" if it was a bad day ".:) *~~~HONESTY UP FRONT WITH ONE ANOTHER~~~*!.:)I have been a wife, a mother, a best friend, a daughter and a Struggling single Mother. I have done the Very Best I know how at being all of these things, and I hope to be a lot of other things before I am done with this life. You will be the one that makes me smile when your away from me, You can be Passionate and Spontaneous and You want to love someone as deeply as I do. You don't live in the past, even though you have one, "we all do". You look to the future with Great Expectations yet to come, Optimistic about everything. You can even smile if you forgot your umbrella on a rainy day:). You are content with yourself and you sometimes have a few surprises in store for that Special someone in your life, and she never has to wonder if you love her..She will just know..I am Looking So Forward To Meeting You 3The Best of Luck to All who are on this site for the Right Reasons... I think we can both agree on this together, I do Love a good Coffee and think it is a great public place to meet for the first time, but open on this..

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  • Ara from Sanford | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
    Ara

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I want to start by saying Honesty is an important trait. not only am I honest but it is something that is appealing in others. Country music is my favorite music , but do like other music, particularly late 70's and 80"s! I have lots of friends and an active social life. I enjoy most sports , especially college football! I am very independent and I love to laugh! I am relatively laid back, except when it comes to my kids. Thank goodness I have raised them to be independent and have taught them life isn't always fair. They have learned to fight their own battles with direction from adiults . I would say they have grown to be great adults that I enjoy spending time with! I have lots of long term friends and we enjoy girls beach trips and girls nights out! I have always had great work ethic on my job and at home.. I love to laugh but do take great responsibility for my life and am proud that no matter how bad the situtation I can look at it and say "it is what it is " and "If it doesn't matter in ten years then don't worry about it". A first date would be casual and relaxed.. An opportunity to see if personalities work well together!!

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  • Jalisa from Sanford | Woman | 52 years old | Taurus
    Jalisa

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Looking for someone with a kind heart, someone that makes me smile. I love to take day trips on the weekends or just jump in the car and see where we end up. I have two grown children, they are my heart!. I want to meet someone who is secure in their job and looks forward to seeing me at the end of the work day. I love to cook and spoil the one I'm with. I love to call/text them during the day just to let them know I'm thinking of them. I love to give back rubs and foot massages, love candle lit dinners for two. I love with all my heart as if there were no tomorrow. Thanks for stopping by and good luck in your search for love!

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