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Fred, 55
United States, Maine, Oakland

Offline, last seen Sat, 27 Dec 2025 05:54:23

About Me

Relocating for the right man is definitely an option!If you're truly serious about finding someone post a recent pic!!!!!!Just an FYI, if you post pics of yourself holding a beer bottle/can I'm pretty sure we're not going to be a match. If you have "undecided" on your profile to the question "Do you want children" we're not going to be a match as I have "decided" at this point in life that I do not want to have any more children. I really don't understand men in their 50's being undecided on this topic unless they are willing to do absolutely anything to get a woman, including have more children. It would be great to meet someone that I mesh with, but then isn't that what we all want. I'm looking for someone that's willing to start as friends and should a relationship develop that's great. I do have a playful nature as well as saying whats on my mind so if that's an issue for you then I'm not the one for you.If your idea of camping includes anything other than a hotel, I will not be joining you. I am just as at ease in a dress and heels as a pair of jeans and t-shirt. I love to cuddle in front of the fireplace or TV with that special someone. I love little surprises both giving and receiving in addition to being very romantic, sensual, passionate and a wonderful listener and companion. I am an independent person, so I understand my partner needing their own space and time just as I do.I like comedy clubs and going bowling or hiking thru the woods. I like walking the beach in the early morning and in the evening when the sun is going down, splashing a bit in the ocean and collecting odd shells. Deep sea fishing is something I truly enjoy as well, though haven't had the opportunity for awhile. I love going out for an evening to see a play, my first was Phantom of the Opera and that's when I fell in love with the theatre. I also enjoy going to the local movie theater to see the latest film. Dinner out is great, but dinner in with a bottle of wine and candles is a great evening as well. With regard to music I think it really depends on the mood at that particular time and tend to like most genres.I have no interest in an *** prefer to just meet if we both have an interest in each other rather than wasting time with a bunch of *** low key to determine chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Alma

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a down to earth attractive lady, values character,morals,dreams and respects people for who they are as long as they show it, I am a believer in respecting others, being honest even if it hurts, love to laugh, love peace, love having crazy moments and being spontaneous...love outdoors, love a variety of things and like trying new things at least once...:)...I have a spiritual side and look at life outside the box, nothing is black and white all the time there are shades of grey. Looking for someone who accepts me as I am and not hoping for who he wants me to be, I am not here to waste my time...I find it an easy outlet to meet people because friends don't have the same taste as me in men, not extremely picky just know what I am looking for....looking for someone to bring more happiness in my life not sadness...if I spark your interest say hello....:)**For the younger men thank you but no thank you**PS: I am in the process of quitting smoking, I do respect the needs of non smoker's....It's a process with surely an ending of success....:) Whatever is comfortable for both of us...

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a woman who loves variety, adventure and being somewhat of an "; type personality possessing a big heart and very compassionate personality. I am one who is an "age is just a number" thinker. Sometimes people put ages in catagories and I have found that embracing all ages, races and cultures is the most exciting gift one can give yourself. I believe in working hard and yet I so enjoy playing too. I enjoy music venues, horseracing, Not a gambler) boating, bike riding, community art fairs, current fun events and being involved with good friends is very important to me and even though my family isn't here I love them dearly. I thrive on music except no heavy metal, house music and hip hop. I think music is an international language and it can influence our mood, thoughts and bring you up or press you down, depending on the type of lyrics listened to. I have lived in MA, HI and love the beaches in both states. I have no children at home with me and work a full time job in the health insurance industry. I rent my own place and live alone currently. I am a lady in public with southern femmie traits, however know how to enjoy letting down my hair and embrace the awesomeness of Gods creation, the beautiful outdoors! Sitting by a bon fire in the cool of a clear evening is very relaxing to me. Don't get me wrong, dressing up is an enjoyable thing to do when the occasion calls for it. I believe we are all equal in the eyes of God, non of us soaring above the other when it comes to value! However we all have our morals, values and qualities which set us so apart from others. I am a firm believer in treating others kindly, do unto others as you would have them do to you and staying true to yourself. I love romance, humor, venturing outside the human demands of comformity and enjoying life one day at a time.My goals are to continue to learn and improve who I am as a woman, travel more if the opportunity presents itself and maybe fall in love one more time while living here on earth. I am rewriting my first date experience as my initial one was a bit too advanced for a first date. Just meeting in a public place, chatting, hopefully some laughter will occur. If attraction and chemistry remain, how awesome would that be.

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  • Doriane from Oakland | Woman | 52 years old | Aquarius
    Doriane

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello, I'm a woman that totally believes in honesty, looking for that special someone that can add to my life (fun, laughter, romance, being silly etc) There needs to be chemistry 4 sure. I don't necessarily believe in the luck thing, but I believe that these statements are very true, what do you think?*No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry**Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste there time on you***Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful****To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world*****Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smileOh ya, one more, Love & Love always read from the same book BUT not always from the same page I'm open for ideas. The coffee thing works for me.

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