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Altair, 53
United States, Maine, Oakland

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About Me

If you are not brave enough to post or send a picture then do not waste either of our time. I am , so I would like you to be: - confident; - independent and financially secure; - generous in life and love; and, - has work ethic I am looking for a man who wants to look after me, because I have a care giving personality and will certainly look after my man!! I want a man who holds a healthy outlook on life that can see past obstacles or challenges and is willing to help out when needed. I am interested in a man who is between the ages of ***, 5". I am hoping to find someone with a terrific sense of humor, who is adventurous, playful, intelligent, honest, reliable, willing to make an effort to make things work no matter what it may be, and a person of genuine character. And let's face it, I am a true woman, so I like surprises and romance! A spontaneous bouquet of flowers that are not a part of an apology can go a long way. We all have "baggage", but if you've learned how to carry it and are willing to open your life up to a real woman, then look no further. I am a hard working professional, who is honest, caring, reliable, and fun. I am also a mother of two wonderful young adults (okay they are typical young adults, as a mother I have to think they are wonderful ;) I do not want to rush into a relationship but down the road, I am looking for a long-term commitment. If you are looking for something on the more casual side of dating, please look for someone else. I love keeping busy and active. I prefer a phone call or a coffee over an e-mail. Life is too short to be messaging back and forth!!!!! P.S. Must attach a photo that is less than one year old. No photo, no reply. Just meet for a coffee or drink. No pressure!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I want to thank anyone interested in my profile but I would please like to let you all know that if you do not have a profile picture, please do not contact. I am being honest, and an *** attraction is a must for me just as I would expect it needs to be for you as well.....and no, you cannot send by ***, but thanks anyway. Gents, I am real and say it like it is so please if I can just add on here (speaking for alot of women) first of all, have a pic, even if it is only 1, smile in your pics....a lady can tell alot about a man by his smile and make sure we can see your face clearly....not from 20 feet away, also when creating a profile, use you noggins....we all have them, be a bit creative...there is nothing worse than someone who cannot think about anything to say about themselves and what they are looking for in a person.......gee wouldn't that be a great date for us ladies.....lol.....not.If you don't like someone saying it as it is in her profile, then you certainly would not like meeting her in person.- Walmartians are a fav.....Love the outdoors in warmer temps, but no camping...give me sun, sand and surf for the best reactions, but sun and warmth will do.Love thunder storms and hearing the rain on the roofLove taking pics of old architectureLove puttering in my home and gardensNew adventures, new people, new explorationsHave to be able to laugh easily, dance with passion, and be spontaneousI am moving, somewhere warm for my work and future retirement.....hate snow, hate cold weather, so dating has to be casualLove most music except opera, can't dance to that, but my fav is anything latinComfortable at home watching tv, on the computer or out on a night on the town having fun.Just as comfortable putting on jewelery and a dress as I am with tools in my hands***PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning! Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.-IT IS RECOMMENDED THAT OTHER MEMBERS POST A SIMILAR NOTICE TO THIS. YOU MAY COPY AND PASTE THIS PRIVACY NOTICE I believe the first date should be in a highly public area, and not a date that is hard to get out of if you know it just isn't there...you know, that spark, it has to be immediate, there has to be some sort of connection, whether it be the light in your eyes, the great smile, or that sexy voice....Meeting for coffee or tea is the best first date, let's not make it a stupid date.....

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