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Altair, 53
United States, Maine, Oakland

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About Me

If you are not brave enough to post or send a picture then do not waste either of our time. I am , so I would like you to be: - confident; - independent and financially secure; - generous in life and love; and, - has work ethic I am looking for a man who wants to look after me, because I have a care giving personality and will certainly look after my man!! I want a man who holds a healthy outlook on life that can see past obstacles or challenges and is willing to help out when needed. I am interested in a man who is between the ages of ***, 5". I am hoping to find someone with a terrific sense of humor, who is adventurous, playful, intelligent, honest, reliable, willing to make an effort to make things work no matter what it may be, and a person of genuine character. And let's face it, I am a true woman, so I like surprises and romance! A spontaneous bouquet of flowers that are not a part of an apology can go a long way. We all have "baggage", but if you've learned how to carry it and are willing to open your life up to a real woman, then look no further. I am a hard working professional, who is honest, caring, reliable, and fun. I am also a mother of two wonderful young adults (okay they are typical young adults, as a mother I have to think they are wonderful ;) I do not want to rush into a relationship but down the road, I am looking for a long-term commitment. If you are looking for something on the more casual side of dating, please look for someone else. I love keeping busy and active. I prefer a phone call or a coffee over an e-mail. Life is too short to be messaging back and forth!!!!! P.S. Must attach a photo that is less than one year old. No photo, no reply. Just meet for a coffee or drink. No pressure!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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