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Lan, 52

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About Me

I am a laidback, funny, spiritual person who is looking for someone to date and possibly more. Someone who wants to be more than a f buddy but not necessarily want to get married at this very moment. Someone who wants to go to movies, dinner, music events, etc...you know...date! I have had plenty of hobbies in the past but the only one I have really held onto is reading: I LOVE to read! Maybe for the escape of it all? Perhaps you will be the one who helps me to have adventures and go to exciting places? BTW I also LOVE to travel but have not done so for quite a while.I work as a chemical and mental health counselor at a residential facility for adults. I like my job but need something more in my life I just don't know what. When I say I am a spiritual person I mean that I like reading about different cultures and what they believe. I would say I am more Buddhist than Christian but I am open to many ideas and believe I am always willing to learn something new.My taste in music is mostly soft rock I guess annd includes DMB, Aerosmith and many others. Anything but Rap, Bluegrass and Opera. For a first date I would like to meet for coffee to see if we are compatible and have good chemistry. Maybe the second date would be dinner and a movie. I am an old-fashioned girl in some ways and will not sleep with someone on the first date. Don't get me wrong I am no prude but I DO have some standards! By the way, if you are not willing to make an effort to be with me move on...NEXT!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Brandy

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I would really like to just get on with my life and move forward. I do not mind having alone time at all., it allows us to reflect and learn from our life and ourselves every day.. But i am ready to enjoy the rest of my life laughing and not spend so much of it alone..or working or mowing the grass or watching a sitcom and crack up laughing and know that i am the only one in the house. So with that being said....... Here goes me... If you are ready for this me..I am the type of girl who will burst out laughing in dead silence at something that happened yesterday.. I believe that what lies before us and what lies behind us is nothing compared to what lies within us.. I believe that if you have enemies..good..that means you stood up for something in your life. I believe that someday someone will walk into our lives and make us realize why it never worked with anyone else. I would just like to say that I am about as real as it gets... I still have the little girl in me with hopes and dreams that i still wait for to come true..one of them still.., that i will find the one love to gracefully grow old with.Sometimes it would be easier to be alone but loneliness is everything it's cracked up to be! whether we want to admit it or not....we are all looking for the same exact thing and late at night when the lights are out and no one is looking ...we all feel the lonliness tug at our heartstrings, yet still a glimmer of hope we find what we yearn for. I personally believe it truly doesn t matter what the first date is about as long as there is a connection and chemistry with each other...you can actually just sit and stare at a rock with a person and be happy... if they are the right person.. it is all in who you are with....and that is a fact...! i love nature..it is one of the greatest of all things...i love the rain...thunderstorms...the first snowfall.....autumn..walking thru the leaves...the stars...campfires. All of which are fantastic alone, but would only be even more great when shared with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with..........first date? i would just like to spend some time together ..get to know one another...take a walk in the evening....maybe just sit down outside in the middle of god and nature....and talk....about whatever it is that we feel is important at the time and if we feel comfortable with each other..conversation will come naturally...and take it from there.....

  • Stephnie

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm looking for a smart, fun, family oriented guy with an open heart. I am outgoing, warm-hearted, affectionate, and monogamous. I love to laugh and am even-tempered. I am very devoted to my 12 year old daughter who lives with me full time so you have to be kid-friendly! I have been teaching English to public school students who speak other languages for 20 years. I am glad to have a job I enjoy and feel is meaningful. My politics lean toward the left, but am not adverse to someone who thinks differently, if he is respectful about it. I am looking to date one great guy who is looking to eventually make a lifetime commitment with the right partner.I am not into motorcycles, tattoos, Tea Party, spectator sports eventsPlease don't send photos taken facing a mirror -Prefer college educated, professional...somewhat close to my age, close geographically First date coffee/drink - conversation to see if we like each other!

  • Kaylee

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Updated ***I’ve been on meetville for a couple months now and there’s a few things I have discovered: 1) Most people who contact me can’t possibly have read my profile. 2) There is a lot of dishonesty here and I can't understand the point of that. The truth always comes out eventually! Just be real :***If you don’t have a picture you are most definitely hiding from someone4) Flirts without messages are a puzzle to me. If you want to initiate contact, say something otherwise I assume you just like my pretty face lol5) That “wants to meet me” list is mostly a waste. They want to meet a picture if they have never even looked at your profile.6) Common courtesy is sorely lacking here. I generally try to respond to anyone who actually says anything in a message that indicates they read my profile, not sure why that's so hard for so many. Based on what I have heard women do the same thing. Sad.I still have hope that there is a mostly normal, intelligent, fun man out there who really does want to take the time to develop something real. After all, I’m here so I know you have to be out there somewhere too!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~What makes me a great partner? If I knew I wouldn't be here lol ... I can tell you that when I look at half a glass I am grateful that it's not empty. Sticking to the truth is so much easier than trying to remember lies. I like to try new recipes or make up my own when I cook. I love love love to communicate -- text, ***, phone, in person -- with an abundance of laughter. I read a lot and can't imagine a world without books. Intimacy, like a fine wine, is something to be savored with pleasure. I am not religious and don't believe in "god", but I do believe in the Universe from which all "gods" have been created and am pretty spiritual ... I try to walk my talk. I have a decent job and my own home. I would like to meet someone who can grow into being my best friend and only lover as we share our lives together. He is intelligent, honest, open minded. He loves to enjoy the many facets of life. More positive than negative. I want to be a priority in a relationship not an option. Laughter must be a daily requirement. He should be financially stable (well as stable as is possible these days) and have his own home or apartment. He doesn't need to provide for me, but I do crave his support of all the things I do ... of what WE do. Race is unimportant to me ... character IS.This profile shows only the base core of me and who I am looking for. Most of all I love to have fun. Drop me a line and let's get to know each other.Seduce my mind and make me laugh and you are exactly who I am looking for!Thanks for reading!!"Love is metaphysical gravity" -- love that quote!

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