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Lan, 52

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About Me

I am a laidback, funny, spiritual person who is looking for someone to date and possibly more. Someone who wants to be more than a f buddy but not necessarily want to get married at this very moment. Someone who wants to go to movies, dinner, music events, etc...you know...date! I have had plenty of hobbies in the past but the only one I have really held onto is reading: I LOVE to read! Maybe for the escape of it all? Perhaps you will be the one who helps me to have adventures and go to exciting places? BTW I also LOVE to travel but have not done so for quite a while.I work as a chemical and mental health counselor at a residential facility for adults. I like my job but need something more in my life I just don't know what. When I say I am a spiritual person I mean that I like reading about different cultures and what they believe. I would say I am more Buddhist than Christian but I am open to many ideas and believe I am always willing to learn something new.My taste in music is mostly soft rock I guess annd includes DMB, Aerosmith and many others. Anything but Rap, Bluegrass and Opera. For a first date I would like to meet for coffee to see if we are compatible and have good chemistry. Maybe the second date would be dinner and a movie. I am an old-fashioned girl in some ways and will not sleep with someone on the first date. Don't get me wrong I am no prude but I DO have some standards! By the way, if you are not willing to make an effort to be with me move on...NEXT!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Meaghan

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Thoughtful, generous, determined, security minded, sensual, earthy. I love the sun and the Rain, and the Goodness of Life. We must suffer Pain to know Joy to know all things. I believe we are right where we're meant to be at this given time, No accidents in the universe, if you've hit a rough patch use those experiences as stepping stones and continue on with the journey. I'm an introvert and would probably attract the opposite because of the magnetic, charming, zestful energy that is sexy. I would like the gentleman to surprise me,

  • Rebekah

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am in the time of my life I feel a need or more so want to find a man to enjoy doing things with such as dancing,camping ,the simple things in life. I love to watch movies at home with a mix drink and some popcorn with a special man.I also like working out in my yard . I have a small garden I enjoy in the summer. I am a home body person I like spending time at home . My favorite time is sitting around a fire at night with friends or some one special.I find simple card and board games a fun time with the right people.I hope to find a man that can be my best friend and love of my life.I am not looking for men who want to just text back and forth for some thing to do .Hope to find some one who wants to join a gym together to get fit and healthy. I am looking to soon get back into walking and would like a partner to walk with. I am not looking for a pen pal or a friend with benefits. Not looking for sex encounters.If it is what you are please look the other way!Do not waste my time or yours.IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED SHAME ON YOU! ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS ONE .I DO NOT WANT OR NEED YOU IN MY LIFE AS MY PARTNER.MY PROFILE PIC WAS ONLY TO MAKE A STATEMENT. WE AT FIFTY ARE STILL BEAUTIFUL ECT....... I think for a first date going for lunch and see how we connect?

  • Cedar

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I have a tendency to laugh and find humor in most things-even when life's events aren't too humorous. I've been told my laugh is distinctive. It's a nice way to be identified..better than another tone.I'm hard working but like my down time to have fun or simply relax. I like the exhausted accomplishment after all day of hard physical work. Just not every day. I love spending time with my kids-alternating weeks. They are great people; smart and loving.I like adventure-will try just about anything. Things I haven't done but would try or like to learn-scuba diving, jumping from a plane, hang gliding and more! Managed a ski trip in last winter; was really glad I could still enjoy it. Conditions were perfect! Looking forward to some good beach time this summer. Being near the water is like being home; nothing better than the sound of the waves. Although wicked storms run a close second. Staying home and relaxing in front of crackling fire with a drink is nice too. Snuggling on the couch and enjoying time together. The comfort from that connection is huge!I'm more comfortable barefoot and in jeans than in heels. Can't see how people wear heels all day long. My favorite "heels" are my cowboy boots. I have a few pairs. If there's good music, I can dance for hours! I do like to go out and enjoy music and dancing.I appreciate honesty and open conversations. If you ask a question, I will answer. I hope for the same effort in return. I'm looking to share; feel loved and to love in return. Someone to share laughs, adventures and quiet times. Someone to enjoy life's events together and be able to smile at what comes along; to laugh on a daily basis. Looking for butterflies. I still believe it can happen.Are you a guy full of contradictions? A renaissance man: Strong and sensitive; able to dig deep and share thoughts but also silly and strong. Will wrestle you for who gets the last piece of chocolate or chase you with the hose! Must like children and have a fun outlook on life. Ability to laugh at self and life. The eyes and smile tell a lot when getting to know someone. (often the key to the heart) Just looking for regular people! First date off a site like this is really a hmmm.. let's see what this person's like in person thing. SO lunch,a beach walk, maybe dinner something where if it's not great, the encounter doesn't go on forever; but if it is great then we will know.So I think the first date would really be the one that followed the initial one.I am NOT looking for a series of dates just to be wined and dined. I am very much interested in finding that someone---butterflies, connection and laughter. It seems to take some time and patience.

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