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About Me

I am a laidback, funny, spiritual person who is looking for someone to date and possibly more. Someone who wants to be more than a f buddy but not necessarily want to get married at this very moment. Someone who wants to go to movies, dinner, music events, etc...you know...date! I have had plenty of hobbies in the past but the only one I have really held onto is reading: I LOVE to read! Maybe for the escape of it all? Perhaps you will be the one who helps me to have adventures and go to exciting places? BTW I also LOVE to travel but have not done so for quite a while.I work as a chemical and mental health counselor at a residential facility for adults. I like my job but need something more in my life I just don't know what. When I say I am a spiritual person I mean that I like reading about different cultures and what they believe. I would say I am more Buddhist than Christian but I am open to many ideas and believe I am always willing to learn something new.My taste in music is mostly soft rock I guess annd includes DMB, Aerosmith and many others. Anything but Rap, Bluegrass and Opera. For a first date I would like to meet for coffee to see if we are compatible and have good chemistry. Maybe the second date would be dinner and a movie. I am an old-fashioned girl in some ways and will not sleep with someone on the first date. Don't get me wrong I am no prude but I DO have some standards! By the way, if you are not willing to make an effort to be with me move on...NEXT!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lavonda

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I enjoy being outdoors doing something/anything active. Not to say I don't enjoy relaxing by a fire, reading, painting, cooking or watching a good movie. I'm not an extreme athlete. I'm an upper intermediate skier and tennis player, and a beginner at golf, but it's more about the exercise and enjoyment than the competition (although I can be competitive). I also enjoy riding my bicycle, but am not a "cyclist." I simply enjoy being surrounded by nature. I love to travel and explore ancient ruins, or travel just for the pleasure of being someplace new and different. I enjoy the theatre, ballet, opera and live music (I prefer small venues), especially jazz. I am seeking a companion who shares my interests and is interested (eventually) in joining me in sports and travel. I Love the ocean and spending time at the beach. I, like everyone, have a busy schedule, but have time for that special someone. I am looking for a sincere man to join me in some adventure. I'm not interested in serial daters or players. There are plenty of women who are just looking to date a lot and be entertained, so if you are a serial dater or player, please seek them and don't impede my search for a mate. I have an active social life, but do want to meet a special man. Thank you.WARNING: **Institutions or **Individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason - **YOU DO NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications**. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. We'll decide when we speak.

  • Oda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Country music Soft rock music Movies Theather Quiet time CampingChristian music Family gathering Gardening Vacations Hanging w/friendsI am not into the bar scene. I like to hear the rain drops on the roof while cuddling on the couch. I am honest and look for honesty in people.I enjoy watching the sunset. I like going to movies, camping, going on vacation, cruises,theater, concerts and hanging with my friends.I try and be positive even when life throws me a curve.I enjoy having someone to come home to.I enjoy being with and doing things with my family.I try to eat healty, but enjoy making cookies at Christmas.I like a variety of music. I do not care for hard rock or rap. I can be shy, but there have been times people say I talk too much.I enjoy listening to the innocent things the kids. I teach religion to say. (They are too honest!)I fell comfortable dressing up and in jeans.I would like to meet someone who is upfront with their likes and dislikes. I would like to just meet, have coffee or something to eat. We could meet and just talk, get that "just meeting you uneasy feeling" over with. I would be willing to go play putt putt golf if you don't laugh when it takes me more than par to get the ball in the hole. On a real rare occassion I might be willing to go bowling if we get the alley to put in the "bumper things" so I might get some of the pins down.

  • Khalilah

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm a "Big Beautiful Woman" Who is working on getting healthier and losing weight. I'm single, never married and no children. I'm very sexy and pretty darn intelligent... I enjoy cooking and creating in the kitchen, bedroom, bathroom, livingroom...oops sorry, something else popped in my mind...lol. I've also got a rather witty and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor and can be quite the smartass. I listen to all sorts of music, I love to dance and sing Karaoke...Go out every weekend to do just that. First and foremost I'm looking for friendships; if it happens to develope into something more, that's great, if not that's cool too.I'm young at heart and in my mind. Do not feel, look or act my age. Don't get me wrong, I have days where I feel much older, but don't we all.I'm very open and honest, not at all a prude, prissy or pretentious. I must admit, I have a potty mouth and my mind is always in the gutter, but I do know how and when to be a classy lady.Always try to be optimistic, drama free, kind, considerate and compassionate. Never enough laughter, I enjoy making people laugh, I truly believe laughter is good for the soul. I have an above average sex drive, highly sensual and passionate. And I'm totally baffled as to why I'm still single, I haven't been swept off my feet or thrown down and ravished to death...lolI don't have children, so I won't have grandchildren either. That saddens me and the thought of growing old all alone is even worse.I'm on several dating sites and have been for years, without any successs. Thought I'd try another, maybe there's a "large mouth bass" for me. I said, Large mouth Not Loud mouth!!...lol Keep it real fellas, happy fishing y'all! For a first date, I'd much rather meet for coffee, lunch or dinner...Someplace quiet and cozy so we talk and be able to hear one another.

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