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I have a tendency to laugh and find humor in most things-even when life's events aren't too humorous. I've been told my laugh is distinctive. It's a nice way to be identified..better than another tone.I'm hard working but like my down time to have fun or simply relax. I like the exhausted accomplishment after all day of hard physical work. Just not every day. I love spending time with my kids-alternating weeks. They are great people; smart and loving.I like adventure-will try just about anything. Things I haven't done but would try or like to learn-scuba diving, jumping from a plane, hang gliding and more! Managed a ski trip in last winter; was really glad I could still enjoy it. Conditions were perfect! Looking forward to some good beach time this summer. Being near the water is like being home; nothing better than the sound of the waves. Although wicked storms run a close second. Staying home and relaxing in front of crackling fire with a drink is nice too. Snuggling on the couch and enjoying time together. The comfort from that connection is huge!I'm more comfortable barefoot and in jeans than in heels. Can't see how people wear heels all day long. My favorite "heels" are my cowboy boots. I have a few pairs. If there's good music, I can dance for hours! I do like to go out and enjoy music and dancing.I appreciate honesty and open conversations. If you ask a question, I will answer. I hope for the same effort in return. I'm looking to share; feel loved and to love in return. Someone to share laughs, adventures and quiet times. Someone to enjoy life's events together and be able to smile at what comes along; to laugh on a daily basis. Looking for butterflies. I still believe it can happen.Are you a guy full of contradictions? A renaissance man: Strong and sensitive; able to dig deep and share thoughts but also silly and strong. Will wrestle you for who gets the last piece of chocolate or chase you with the hose! Must like children and have a fun outlook on life. Ability to laugh at self and life. The eyes and smile tell a lot when getting to know someone. (often the key to the heart) Just looking for regular people! First date off a site like this is really a hmmm.. let's see what this person's like in person thing. SO lunch,a beach walk, maybe dinner something where if it's not great, the encounter doesn't go on forever; but if it is great then we will know.So I think the first date would really be the one that followed the initial one.I am NOT looking for a series of dates just to be wined and dined. I am very much interested in finding that someone---butterflies, connection and laughter. It seems to take some time and patience.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I would really like to just get on with my life and move forward. I do not mind having alone time at all., it allows us to reflect and learn from our life and ourselves every day.. But i am ready to enjoy the rest of my life laughing and not spend so much of it alone..or working or mowing the grass or watching a sitcom and crack up laughing and know that i am the only one in the house. So with that being said....... Here goes me... If you are ready for this me..I am the type of girl who will burst out laughing in dead silence at something that happened yesterday.. I believe that what lies before us and what lies behind us is nothing compared to what lies within us.. I believe that if you have enemies..good..that means you stood up for something in your life. I believe that someday someone will walk into our lives and make us realize why it never worked with anyone else. I would just like to say that I am about as real as it gets... I still have the little girl in me with hopes and dreams that i still wait for to come true..one of them still.., that i will find the one love to gracefully grow old with.Sometimes it would be easier to be alone but loneliness is everything it's cracked up to be! whether we want to admit it or not....we are all looking for the same exact thing and late at night when the lights are out and no one is looking ...we all feel the lonliness tug at our heartstrings, yet still a glimmer of hope we find what we yearn for. I personally believe it truly doesn t matter what the first date is about as long as there is a connection and chemistry with each other...you can actually just sit and stare at a rock with a person and be happy... if they are the right person.. it is all in who you are with....and that is a fact...! i love nature..it is one of the greatest of all things...i love the rain...thunderstorms...the first snowfall.....autumn..walking thru the leaves...the stars...campfires. All of which are fantastic alone, but would only be even more great when shared with someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with..........first date? i would just like to spend some time together ..get to know one another...take a walk in the evening....maybe just sit down outside in the middle of god and nature....and talk....about whatever it is that we feel is important at the time and if we feel comfortable with each other..conversation will come naturally...and take it from there.....

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I spend my time speaking in Toastmasters, working out, reading, working and keeping friendships alive. I love music! My favorites are 70s, 80s, pop, rock, some country, jazz and even blues. I enjoy projects that can be completed in full. I'm very good at what I do and have been in the same company for 23 years. My bosses are more like family than employers.I have a house, yard and dog. Looking for a guy who knows who he is and what he wants. At our age, we are either ready for change or settled into who we are. I like change... There's no reason to stop learning and growing!! The guy I will enjoy has lots of interests, will be self-confident and keep me laughing. The guy I will be interested in will be emotionally and physically available. He will not smoke cigarettes or cigars. He will have a job that he respects. Children are fine, of course, but I would prefer that they are over 18. He will be of my same ethnicity. Meeting location is flexible to accommodate circumstances. I will be going home alone that day, as I will need to get to know you better...

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a woman with a creative background who loves to be with people who can make me laugh, whom strangers think I may be shy, but inside has a wicked grin, the occasional inappropriate thought, and friends whom I prove this to often. I am extremely loyal, compassionate, affectionate, and non-racist (don't judge me by my intolerance to intolerance). I love a good conversation, and to have my mind challenged. I believe I am smart enough that you wouldn't be tempted to throw blonde jokes my way. (well maybe once in awhile, I often push a door when it clearly says PULL). I make mistakes, but I own them. I need feedback and the truth. (I have yet to develop the skill to read minds and as cliche as it sounds, communication is key). The type of man I thrive with is an outgoing take-charge kind of man, it brings out the best in me. While I'm very independent, it's nice to throw the keys to someone else for a change. I enjoy my own company, but it's nice to share time with a good man. I've learned that looks are for the most part irrelevant (although you need that initial spark) and that it's how a man makes her woman feel that's important. And this goes both ways. A small gesture goes a long way with me. My musical favourites run from blues and rock and everything in between. I love to watch live bands. I'm just looking for someone special to share some of my favourite things to do, and would love to be introduced to some new ones.While I'm fine with myself where I am physically, I am a constant work in progress, working on bettering myself and need someone to accept me as i am right now, and enjoy the ride with me. I am a big woman with an even bigger heart. If you judge me by my hair colour, skin colour, or body size, you will miss entirely who I am. My mantra? Say what you mean, and mean what you say. I think that bridge should be crossed when we get to it. Something casual and simple.

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