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Delisa, 51
United States, Maine, Brewer

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About Me

Upon meeting a man for the first time, I can usually tell whether he is someone I want to see again or not. The way we act and speak gives off volumes of information. I am an old-fashioned, conservative person who believes in God. My marriage lasted 14 yrs. and I was faithful until my husband lost his life. I am not looking for someone to replace my husband, but am looking for someone to go out with occasionally, be a friend to, and maybe have a dating relationship if all goes well. Eventually I will want to marry again but not anytime soon, unless you knock my socks off. Honesty is key, even if it hurts. It is better to know the truth than to believe a lie. You need to be yourself, have a strong work ethic, be down to earth, and have compassion. I teach library classes in a local elementary school. Most folks have a vision of librarians wearing horn-rimmed glasses, hair in a bun, wearing ugly shoes and shushing people. I don't have much tolerance for country or rap.Sadly, outside of work, there isn't an opportunity to go out much. I am a working mom who is raising teenagers and feel like I am a taxi driver. I value staying home but need adult company. Drinking and partying does not appeal to me. I prefer to hang out with friends in small groups rather than in large groups. Please don't contact me if you are financially needy, in credit trouble, if you are a metrosexual, a long haired hippy, have bad teeth, or if you are way younger than me. Someplace public like a coffee house or cafe is a good first date. That way we don't feel awkward for too long if there isn't chemistry. I prefer to pay for myself the first time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a single mom w/a 21yr old old in college (thank goodness!!) When I'm not working I enjoy working out (my newest workout obsession is Crossfit - it's awesome!), reading & listening to music. I also enjoy hanging out w/friends, having a few adult beverages, especially in the spring & summer when we can be outside. I love sports - mostly football! Love to watch it live & on TV. I enjoy many things - hanging out *** Life is too short not to enjoy as many things as possible!! On a first date, I'd like to just meet for drinks, talk, see if we have anything in common. See what goes from there.

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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