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Delisa, 51

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About Me

Upon meeting a man for the first time, I can usually tell whether he is someone I want to see again or not. The way we act and speak gives off volumes of information. I am an old-fashioned, conservative person who believes in God. My marriage lasted 14 yrs. and I was faithful until my husband lost his life. I am not looking for someone to replace my husband, but am looking for someone to go out with occasionally, be a friend to, and maybe have a dating relationship if all goes well. Eventually I will want to marry again but not anytime soon, unless you knock my socks off. Honesty is key, even if it hurts. It is better to know the truth than to believe a lie. You need to be yourself, have a strong work ethic, be down to earth, and have compassion. I teach library classes in a local elementary school. Most folks have a vision of librarians wearing horn-rimmed glasses, hair in a bun, wearing ugly shoes and shushing people. I don't have much tolerance for country or rap.Sadly, outside of work, there isn't an opportunity to go out much. I am a working mom who is raising teenagers and feel like I am a taxi driver. I value staying home but need adult company. Drinking and partying does not appeal to me. I prefer to hang out with friends in small groups rather than in large groups. Please don't contact me if you are financially needy, in credit trouble, if you are a metrosexual, a long haired hippy, have bad teeth, or if you are way younger than me. Someplace public like a coffee house or cafe is a good first date. That way we don't feel awkward for too long if there isn't chemistry. I prefer to pay for myself the first time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    HiThis is probably the hardest part of it all is getting started. OK..I admit talking has never been a challenge for me or so I have been told but this is a little different. I love when the warmer months are here,and it is very tempting to want to go out and spend more time outdoors so why not enjoy it with somebody's company. The warmer weather defniitely my favorite time of year..I enjoy just being outside, whether it be going to the pool, taking a walk, going for an endless drive to nowhere with the destination as a total suprise to us both.....althought being cozy during a snowstorm is nothing to complain about either :-) I am interested in getting to know someone and then seeing AFTERWARDS where it leads even if it is a friendship. I am VERY HONEST and that is the most important quality for me in those I am close to. It is very important for me to be able to be open with those I am close to and for them to be the same and be comfortable with that...after all without honesty and sincerety you are not knowing the "real" person.Please note if you are looking for someone just to have cyber or phone sex or looking for a date to get laid....please move on.....although I may be a kid at heart, I am a grown up and looking for the same...I am no longer in school and do not play or believe in those games. Please know what you want and be honest about it I hard for me to say what I am looking for because I have not met the person. At this time in my life, I am comfortable with who I am and would like to spend time with someone who is the same. Everyone has a past and that is what makes you who you are but then it is time to evolve and grow into who you will become from each day forward. If you would like to contact me, I would enjoy getting t know who you are as well. In the meantime....HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY AND HOPE ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS IN YOUR FUTURE AS WELL! :***P.S.---If you are not a cat lover or unable to understand an animal lover then I am definitely not the right one for you. Hmmmmm...first date huh... Maybe taking a walk and getting to know each other and who we are in a very relaxed atmosphere. Although dinner is always nice, it just seems that there is too much pressure on what to say next sometimes but just walking and talking make things flow so naturely and what better than doing it while enjoying the beauties of nature...right?

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