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Gretchen, 51
United States, Maine, Brewer

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About Me

"Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get."How absolutely true! No matter what we do with our lives, we are still going to have high highs and low lows. With any luck, we ride out the storm and develop into someone our parents would be proud of. I live by the proverb "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." I think the world would be a better/more peaceful place if we all subscribed to that way of thinking, don't you?So who am I? I am a passionate, wise, altruistic, athletic, sensible yet spontaneous, self-sufficient and strong (both mentally AND physically!) woman who is just hitting the Prime of her life. I finally know what I want in life. It took me 50 years to discover it, but, while I may be slow, I am finally there. I am a self-made woman. Everything I own, I earned myself through hard work, blood, sweat and tears, and keeping my eyes on the prize. I now know that I WANT a man in my life, but I do not NEED a man. One is healthy and the other is not.Love has been like an elusive butterfly for me that I have been chasing for too long with a net that apparently has a hole in it! While I never thought of myself as a quitter, I must admit that I am getting quite a headache from banging my head against that wall! No more! Girls just wanna have fun, right? Besides, I finally realized that divorced men do not want a committed relationship, having already been down that road. I figure, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em!My favorite time of year is summer. You will find me outside most of the time, either working in my yard or checking out festival-goers. I am serious about taking care of myself and staying in shape. I worked damn hard to get this body and am not about to quit working on it now! I like a man who feels the same way and shares my philosophy on healthy living. Oh, don't get me wrong, I like to go out and have a couple drinks, wear a short skirt and heels, and know that I look good in them. Not intimidated yet? I also like serious kissing and cuddling, so pucker up, Boys!"There's no point in living if you can't feel alive." Prefer to meet for the first time somewhere where we can actually hear each other without using our "outside voices". I prefer the table in the corner where we can gaze into each other's eyes without squinting into bright lights. A couple drinks and a warm smile...who knows?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Electronic Funk Canadian Caribbean Indonesian Korean History Horror
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