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Gretchen, 51
United States, Maine, Brewer

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About Me

"Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get."How absolutely true! No matter what we do with our lives, we are still going to have high highs and low lows. With any luck, we ride out the storm and develop into someone our parents would be proud of. I live by the proverb "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." I think the world would be a better/more peaceful place if we all subscribed to that way of thinking, don't you?So who am I? I am a passionate, wise, altruistic, athletic, sensible yet spontaneous, self-sufficient and strong (both mentally AND physically!) woman who is just hitting the Prime of her life. I finally know what I want in life. It took me 50 years to discover it, but, while I may be slow, I am finally there. I am a self-made woman. Everything I own, I earned myself through hard work, blood, sweat and tears, and keeping my eyes on the prize. I now know that I WANT a man in my life, but I do not NEED a man. One is healthy and the other is not.Love has been like an elusive butterfly for me that I have been chasing for too long with a net that apparently has a hole in it! While I never thought of myself as a quitter, I must admit that I am getting quite a headache from banging my head against that wall! No more! Girls just wanna have fun, right? Besides, I finally realized that divorced men do not want a committed relationship, having already been down that road. I figure, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em!My favorite time of year is summer. You will find me outside most of the time, either working in my yard or checking out festival-goers. I am serious about taking care of myself and staying in shape. I worked damn hard to get this body and am not about to quit working on it now! I like a man who feels the same way and shares my philosophy on healthy living. Oh, don't get me wrong, I like to go out and have a couple drinks, wear a short skirt and heels, and know that I look good in them. Not intimidated yet? I also like serious kissing and cuddling, so pucker up, Boys!"There's no point in living if you can't feel alive." Prefer to meet for the first time somewhere where we can actually hear each other without using our "outside voices". I prefer the table in the corner where we can gaze into each other's eyes without squinting into bright lights. A couple drinks and a warm smile...who knows?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi,I'm a 53 year old petite brunette with 3 grown children. I'm very outgoing and never met a stranger, but that could be that I'm a native Charlottean as well. I love babies, animals and the elderly and for those who don't and I mean dislike..move along, I fully believe there is a gene missing somewhere. I love the outdoors, just for the beauty of it. I really enjoy photographing the nature given us, the mountains, beaches and sometimes things that make you pull the car over. Of all these places, the beaches are my absolute favorite! I think God really outdid himself the day he created the Oceans. I'm so content to sit with the breeze in my hair, sun on my face and my eyes on the horizon. I never watch the ocean that I'm not in awe.It puts my small part in this big place into perspective. I enjoy hiking, biking, walks(on the beach extra pts.). Family is huge to me..it has to be to you. If you don't speak to your kids, parents siblings etc...not likely to work with me. I'm a very touchy-feely kind of girl, I'm just wired to put my hands on you if we sit beside each other, hold hands when we walk, you get the idea..but I don't have the need for some outrageous pda's . I'm passionate and loving,and I want a passionate love life..you have to know the difference, and this is a must..we must be compatible kissers...if that doesn't click nothing else will! I love slow, deep, wet, 3 day kisses...so if the first date warrants a second, as far as compatibility goes...I always, always kiss on the first date! It's a must... LOL I really would prefer a small quiet setting of some sort where we can converse and hear each other...the point is to see if we click after all. Part of that is based on attraction... I don't think it is necessary for a man to buy dinner when there is a real possibility that one or the other of us may just not be feeling it at all!..coffee shop, ice cream,a drink ..

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  • Kelia from Brewer | Woman | 51 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profileI turned 51 years old in April, and looking for someone to share time with. I enjoy biking, going for long walks and enjoying mother nature . I also enjoy quiet times watching a movie or sports. I have 2 dogs who i enjoy having around and playing with.. My musical taste change depending on my moods. I have a full time job at a local company working in the quality area. My favorite season is fall and my favorite holiday is Thanksgiving. My friends describe me as loyal, out going, attractive and a good sense of humor. What im looking for in a man is one who likes to hold hands while walking, who has a good sense of humor, treats women as equals but still likes to hold chairs for them or open doors etc. I like a man who is comfortable sharing their issues and having in depth conversations. He needs to be sensative to a persons needs and be there when crap hits the fan. If you woild like to meet over coffee or a soft drink or just go for a walk let me know. Take care and hope to hear from you. Sorry guys I will not respond to *** men with no picture.

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  • Tereasa from Brewer | Woman | 54 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a very romantic lady very affectionate love to cuddle love to kiss love to hold hands I love football, baseball, hockey, WWE Wrestling, Nascar I am a waitress for a IHOP Restaurant ive been waitressing for over 25 yrs . have been divorced since ***have 4 grown children over 25 my hobbies are playing bingo, sometimes going to the casinos, flea markets, amuzement parks garage sales spending lots of time with my family/friends love to go to the movies taking walks im a big kid at heart and i have a heart of gold IM AM WHO I SAY I AM IM NOT A LIAR OR A FAKE i hate scammers/lies/drama Im looking for a very best friend first and to get to know and hopefully we click and we can be true soul mates for the rest of our lives . im honest trustworthy hard worker low maintenance love the smaller things in life more than the big stuff cos ive never had much and ive learned to like the smaller things better i have to have someone who is not afraid to show affection out in public Im not a petite woman have a few extra pounds so if ur looking for Barbie thats not me. my goals are to try and find the right person to spend the rest of my life with if thats what God has in his plans im not here to find a man to so called take care of me ive taken care of myself and my 4 kids all by myself I would love to travel one day in a SUV and just take our time to experience different places i love to cook love to bbq and entertain friends and family anything else u need to know feel free to ask anything I KNOW THERE ARE REAL MEN OUT THERE WHO REALLY KNOWS HOW TO TREAT A LADY AND WHO IS SERIOUS ABOUT AN EVER LASTING RELATIONSHIP. WHERE ARE U? IM TIRED OF BEING HURT AND TRUSTING AND THEN BEING PLAYED AND LIED TOO.. a first date could be alot of things going to a movie going to a restaurant candlelite dinner at home having coffee somewhere going to the park with a picnic basket or the lake just anywhere is fine with me as long as we can talk and enjoy each others company and get to know each other more. It can last as long as we want it too we can go to a sporting event first and then someone to eat and talk it doesnt matter to me.

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