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Quianna, 55
United States, Massachusetts, Wilbraham

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About Me

Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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