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Quianna, 55
United States, Massachusetts, Wilbraham

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About Me

Hi there...Hope you are having a great day. I am a very happy, secure, confident woman. I have put a lot into my life to achieve where I am. I am looking for someone who is also very secure and confident. I am looking for a relationship that is based on inter-dependence and not dependence. One that allows for space, but on the other hand after a long day of work I want to get in my car and feel as if I can't wait to get home to see my best friend and lover! Not just in the beginning, but after years of time together. Everyone always says that a good relationship requires soooo much work and effort! If it's such an effort and a struggle, you may just be with the wrong person! I think that when you find the right person the relationship is like a puzzle and just fits nicely together. Yes, you have to be creative and look for ways to maintain that kind of romance, but if it's the right person and you both have respect, love and admiration for one another, you will want to do things for each other that make the other person feel special. It's important to me that my mate take good care of himself - that he exercises and cares about the way he looks and feels, that he is stable and dependable. I work as a health educator in corporate health and wellness, still do some personal training and still teach at a local YMCA so I am very passionate about staying active and fit! I am also a triathlete and enjoy both the training and the competition. If you are a sedentary person, I can tell you that this will not work out. I am very high energy and although you don't have to be a triathlete I am looking for the same in my partner. I also want someone who loves to laugh and have fun! Life is way too serious and we all need to let go once and while and just enjoy! Love a cozy night on the couch with wine and a movie too....so I am balanced! lol!Btw, I would like to share one more thing. However, the market has made this difficult to achieve. Hoping this spring there will be an opportunity. I just want to make sure that is not a problem if you have an interest! For a first date I think it would depend on how well I got to know the person through e-mails and phone calls prior to the date. It could just be getting together for coffee or going out for a nice dinner. After that I really enjoy dates that include some kind of activity...hiking and dinner or lunch, movie and dinner, biking, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I love Peace, calm, harmony. I have a very loving heart....Please don't step on it!I am fortunate to have beautiful people in my life.I wish to meet someone who sees the world in a beautiful way, has done their homework and is happy inside.Appeals to me :)Someone "Conscious"That is their "essence" is Spiritual.I have interests and friends and family.By the way I am low maintenance.But in the future if you want to do something special for me!Go ahead!!!! HahaGood grooming is essential...Addictions do not interest me-drinking to excess... Social. Is fine-smoking to excess-smoking drugs-drugs-gamblers-Sex addicts -PlayersEtcWhen addictions are present, it's like an accidentWaiting to happen.I understand for some people it is like candy store here. Although we are all here looking at options.. What I wish to convey is this...I am not here to be your date number 10 this week.!Nor am I ...Your travel guide,Therapist, Loan company, or one night stand.If you are seeking sheer volume of women I'm notInterested in you. If you need constant validation from the opposite sex thats your business.I don't.Thanks for respecting that.:)I have no time for arguments ,but don't run when there is an issue.You would be the same.i Love conversation and i Love quiet.I see the beauty rather than the lack.Being Grounded and knowing what that means.Life IS a Miracle.......I would Love a partner who understands this as well..... and wishes to enjoy what a lovely relationship brings to.. two caring, whole, secure, patient, loving and aware people. :)i have no time for selfishness and narcissism.In public school and college I was the funny girl :***I still am:pHumor is essential. Sarcasm not.Words are energy.These are some of the basics...for a good "Foundation"If this is not present i go no further.please do not be offended if i do not respond... I am not spending my day and night on meetville, but i am here from time to time :)Attraction is a real thing. I am not attracted to every man so please don't be offended by that. it must be real.Attraction is not just looks.I must respect you, so please respect Yourself.i am not a rich woman. I do not want anyone's stuff.. I barely want my own!My perspective is True Love can not be purchased.If there is "more" materially then that is a bonus!But truthfully i have no big attachment to things.You would feel the same.";.We are older now.I will spend my time positively, as I see life as precious..I have learned you can tell a lot from a goodbye hug...If a man is going to miss you ..the goodbye will linger a bit.. If he looks back to take you in one more time... He was more than present.If not it.... Chances are it was simply a date.:) Tea? Lunch?.a walk..? a chat? There are options....p.s. My profile pictures are from ***and ***.i work out and am conscious of what i eat.i'm not skinny, i'm not tiny, i'm not huge.I am average.Some days i look very average... other days hmmm...i clean up well!! lolIf you have NO PICTURE ...i will NOT respond!!!!If you have a picture for me then please have at least one that is CURRENTplease know i am Not interested in the following,drugs,parties,young men,affairs.rude people.usersabusers.Long distance relationships.

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  • Rutha from Wilbraham | Woman | 51 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Life is a gift and I try to enjoy every day! I am active and adventurous. I like watching movies, reading, cuddling by a fire, and jigsaw puzzles. I am a country girl who also enjoys dressing up for nights on the town. I know how to act like a lady and like being treated like one, but I also like to play hard and get dirty! I love life, the outdoors, my family and friends! I don't have to work a lot of hours. I work to live, but I am lucky to be doing something I love and can be proud of. I am who I am. I don't try to be someone else! I am not desperate, and not unhappy. I am normal, happy, and comfortable with myself and my life. I am a good person and do not play games. I am honest and loving and would do anything for those I care about. I am loyal and considered a good friend and nice person. I like to laugh! I'm easy going, smart, sexy, kinda sassy, and I like to have fun!There is more so if you are interested, write me, talk to me, meet me, and get to know the rest! - People who get to know me, love me! I do not act or look ***no one who meets me believes that I am) I am looking for someone young at heart, who likes to get out there and do things, but also likes to spend time hanging out at home, “just us” time, and family activities. I am very close with my family and that is important to me.I am looking for a man willing to make an effort. Say hello, ask me out, show you’re interested.“I don’t want the whole world, the sun, the moon, and all their light. I just want to be the only girl you love all your life.” I live in a small town and don't have any good way of meeting people so I am trying this. I am looking for the one, right, person and would love to find that lasting relationship. I miss having strong arms to hold me, someone to snuggle with and share my day with, and kisses that make your toes curl! :) But, I am not in a rush (I'm not looking to settle down with the first person I meet and want to take the time to get to know someone) and am happy to make new friends along the way. You may or may not be the one, but we'll never know until we meet! Friendship or romance could be in our future! Take a chance, and find out!! :) I'd like to meet you!One last note, I would like someone that has looked at more on my profile than just my picture and sees some things that we may have in common and who really is interested in "me." ..... Also someone who is honest in their profile.... Please have pictures and a profile that are current and honest. Don't start off a relationship with deception. I enjoy talking and ***, but if we hit it off I really want to meet … soon! ..not *** Please no smokers. On my first date I'd want to do something where we could talk and get to know each other, so anything like dinner, drinks, coffee, taking a walk, a picnic, or a day at the park. It doesn't have to be fancy or expensive, just fun!

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Looking for my last love for the last chapter of my life...I'm a fun loving and very caring person. Love to help people and animals. Love my family and God.Looking for a caring man that knows how to treat a woman. That is looking for his last love....No crazes No drama No games....

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