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Sela, 53
United States, Massachusetts, Wilbraham

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About Me

1. I have a wonderful life, just missing a special partner to share our dreams, journeys and adventures with. Communication is a good foundation to a lasting relationship, honesty, sincerity, integrity. Must be good kisser. Love holding hands and kissing, very affectionate. Looking for the same!2. Have a good sense of humor, (can even laugh at myself). Easy going and easy to get along with. Very rarely will you NOT see with a smile on my face. I certainly enjoy the fine things in life...but appreciate the everyday normal as well. 3. Good family and friends is what makes life wonderful. Two grown adult children (twins-son/daughter ***who make me very proud. Yes, they still live with me as they have put themselves through college (paying off debt) and I'm sure the time is close for them to fly the coop. My daughter never home always at boyfriends....4. Can dress up for the night on the town dining and dancing. Good steak and seafood dinner. Yummy! Or the theatre. Very versatile. But not afraid to get my hands dirty in a pair of jeans and tee. Campfires, I can build, singing 99 bottles of beer on the wall. Let's sing and roast some hot dogs and s'mores.5. Travel, very near or far, love tropical and wiggling my toes in the sand. Or, Vegas and seeing some good shows and throwing a buck or two in the slots. Camping, must be off the ground, no more tenting (want a comfy bed) but a fishing rod and some bait....here fishy fishy! And yes, can bait my own hook. Let's go dig us some dew worms.6. I certainly try to take care of myself but could use a partner to go for nice hikes, canoeing, kayaking with. Care to join me. Oh yeah, I'm pretty thoughtful too, I shave the hair off my back and chest (promise not to give you whisker burn). LOL7. Love cooking...make the best lasagne accompanied with candlelight/nice bottle of red...then snuggling sharing some popcorn and a good movie. Or pizza and a beer at a pub is always good. Some comedy shows: up my alley. Throwing horseshoes, bocce ball. Might even beat ya at a game of pool. (Fair warning: I'm pretty good).8. Enjoy all music...okay maybe not rap so much. But, can dance up a storm. And can sing a pretty good Patsy Cline.9. Whatcha see is whatcha get. I will always be open, honest and do expect the same from you. Were not kids anymore so I'm sure we should know what we are looking for. But, please be playful at heart!10. Life is short....if you are financially and emotionally ready I would love to hear from you.This is just alittle for now...so much more but can't tell all my secrets just yet!PS/ peek-a-boo You see me...but in some profiles I don't see you..fair is fair..send a pic Something casual and easy going where we both can just be ourselves. Good conversation, a nice walk and talk, or some appies/drink and a giggle or two.I'm sure the two of us will come up with something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Chinese Indonesian Korean Baseball Sailing
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