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United States, Massachusetts, Westford

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I am a single mom with a soon to be 17 year old son. He is independent, great kid and most of the time does his own thing. I am employed, have a house and a car. I believe I am one of the most passionate people you will ever meet; and that means passion in everything. Love cuddling, holding hands, snuggling by the fire; and yes that FIRST kiss..it has to be amazing ;) I am considered smart; attractive, outgoing, funny (okay a bit of a smartass ;) and very, very real and honest. I am looking for that one man who I can make him feel like he can conquer the world; with me by his side. He would have to be funny, attractive, smart to some degree; and a man who understands a female needs to be made to feel like a female :) He also has to have a sense of responsibility and of course, integrity.My favorite music is rock and roll. I do like going to listen to live music, but ONLY with a date; never going as a "unattached female". I love to dance; and nope, I am not the two-stepping kind of woman. Give me rock and roll baby, yeah! ;)I have come to realize, since I have been in the dating scene again, that men nowadays truly do not know how to "pursue" a female; in other words guys; if you are truly interested, SHOW interest and HUNT....get it? ;)I request that the man who contact me have a photo; and that it be current. I also post current photos. I believe starting out with honesty, which obviously has to do very much with the way you look, You cannot begin to trust someone, IF you are dishonest at the very beginning.UPDATE: ***; IN THE LAST MONTH I HAVE HAD TWO MEN CONTACT ME THAT WERE EITHER MARRIED OR HAD A GIRLFRIEND; DO ME A FAVOR AND IF YOU ARE TRULY NOT SINGLE; YOU WILL GET ZERO RESPECT NOR SYMPATHY FROM ME. Well let's see; had a guy one time ask me to meet him at Target; nope that was not a good idea lol. I would suggest a drink somewhere, or perhaps even dinner. One thing to remember gentleman; never ask a woman to a movie if you have never met her. It is important that you have time to talk to someone to get to know them and frankly, people get upset if you talk in movies ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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