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Doreatha, 45
United States, Tennessee, Ashland City

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Wow, I really never ever expected to be back on here. Never say never I guess. I'm not the type to date someone to just pass the time or just until someone better comes along - I'm in it for the long run. Unfortunately it takes time to find that right person... What's that saying? "When one door closes another one opens" (fingers crossed). I have a great life. Just looking for someone to share it with. I am a very outgoing (and at times adventurous) person who leads a very healthy and active lifestyle (chocolate is healthy isn't it)? However, I also know when to kick back and relax by the fireplace listening to music or to have a romantic weekend just cuddling and watching movies. I like to have fun and enjoy life and not take things (or myself) too seriously. I always like to have things to look forward to - whether it's the next "Wing Night" or next year's vacation plans (however, spontaneity is a wonderful thing as well). I enjoy spending time with my family and friends and I love to travel. I am an extremely thoughtful, considerate and loyal person (often referred to as a "sweetheart"***and I'd like to meet the same. I am the type of person that says what I'm going to do and follows through by doing what I say (and I expect the same of others). This is a huge pet-peeve of mine. Is it so hard to keep your word? I am not a religious person but I whole-heartedly believe "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (and I can honestly say I live my life by that). And I believe in Karma for those who don't ;-p My “ideal” guy would:• NOT have a self-portrait cell phone pic on his profile posing in a public washroom with a urinal in the background. lol My gawd is that cheesy! Don't you have any candid shots of yourself that friends may have taken? And if you've got a shirtless picture of yourself that's not a picture taken from your last beach vacation - you're probably not my type of guy. • have integrity, be honest, attractive (in my eyes and not just those of your Mother's), reliable/considerate, active, outgoing, confident (but not full-of-himself –• be able to make me laugh until I have tears running down my face • be fit (wow there sure seems to be several different interpretations for the word "fit"). Fit to me doesn't mean fit enough to go from the couch to the fridge for another snack! And watching sports on tv doesn't really count as participation. (lol) I definitely have a thing for nice abs! However, steroid-gronks need not apply.• love hockey (or at least be willing to watch Oilers' games with me - even if you feel the need to cheer for the opposing team).• be a Non-Smoker (this does not mean “I only smoke when I’m drinking" or "when I'm at the bar”). And if you "only" smoke weed, I'm really not interested.• be financially stable (not a drug-dealer or an E.I. recipient (this does not apply to apprentices)) • love music (I pretty much like anything except thrash metal). For every relationship that hasn't worked out I am thankful to have been introduced to some great music I may have never discovered otherwise. • love (like) to dance or at least be willing to take dance lessons with me?• play guitar (and hopefully teach me!)• be hardworking (but not a workaholic). If the only thing important to you is making more & more money and you forget to live life in the meantime, I'm not your girl. The best things in life are free.• be taller than me and out-weigh me• not have a problem with the number of male friends that I have. I've always been a bit of a tomboy -- don't worry I dress up well) and my workplace is pretty much male-dominated so I've always hung out with guys - they're my wing-men ; ) Plus I've made some really good friends through all of these silly dating sites (so some good things have come out of them)! • be able to spell (or at least be able to use "Spell Check"). It cracks me up when I read “I love quading, tatoos and (my favourite***dinning out”! If you love all of those things – at least learn how to spell them! lmao• own his own place (and not live with Mom & Dad) • I've done the commuting thing (stupidly TWICE) and it's never panned out for me after all that effort (just put a whole lotta mileage on my car)... Now if YOU'RE willing to move here in order to be with ME, well then that's a whole different story! ; )• not snore• have a great sense of humour/wit - this is an absolute must - or it just ain’t gonna work out with me! (Can you tell I love sarcasm?)• be close to his family & have lots of good friends (in other words you're not a loner, or the travelling- If you've got psychotic ex's and disfunctional kids please stay far away - I'm not looking to complicate my life.• not be covered from head-to-toe in tattoos and piercings (just not my thing). Hey, if you have a couple of tattoos that have some special meaning for you great – but REALLY, you don't need to send me a picture of them! For the guy with the "; logo tattooed on the back of his head... Honestly, how could I ever bring you home to meet my Dad?! • love to travel - whether it be an all-inclusive vacation or better yet - let's carry our luggage on our backs for some adventure travelling (the best way to see the world in my opinion)!• not have any problems obtaining a passport or a travel visa!! (I can't believe I actually had to add this line in - but I guess I didn't specify "no criminals please")! And "I just serve time on the weekends" is STILL serving time!! lmaoIf you don't like my profile then you won't like me. Geez - some people REALLY need to lighten up (haven't you ever heard of the saying "tongue-in-cheek")? However - IF you're still with me after reading through all of this ; ) (and I haven't offended you any way, shape or form), send me an e-mail and we'll see where it goes from there. If I do not respond to your message then you're just not what I am looking for (sorry). First date, hmmm, after quite a few e-mails back and forth (and a full background check) lol, we could maybe meet for a coffee or meet at a pub for a drink after work to chat and get to know each other better. If all goes well and there's a connection and chemistry (and lots of laughs), we'll figure out the next step from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Action Martial Arts Mystery Thriller Boxing
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