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Giada, 44
United States, Tennessee, Ashland City

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About Me

Don't wear your wishbone where your backbone ought to be!NOT INTO GAMES... I can't believe I am actually having to add this but...If you have attachment issues please keep fishing. Also, MY Grandchildren are of mixed decent. (BL/WH) So if you have an issue with that, pass on by. If you want to know about me, please take the time to read!!!... Interesting combination! But more seriously, I have been divorced since ***, after 19 years of marriage, 21 years in the relationship. Mother of three amazing children, grandmother of two and foster mom to 64 more over the years! I feel as if I have literally lived ten lifetimes already. So, where do i go from here?I believe that there is someone for everyone but often people settle for fear of not finding them. Honesty, loyalty, compassion, chivalry. respect. Traits that are becoming increasingly difficult to find in an individual today, However, they do exist. I am not seeking perfection as no one is perfect. The world can keep Mr. Universe. I only wish for the ONE who will be center of mine. I give 110% of myself, expecting the same in return. I am a true submissive, heart and soul. (In and out of the bedroom, but that is for a private discussion) It is who I am and who I choose to remain. Maybe I expect to much.... but I am willing to wait and see. Relationships are built over time, not overnight. I won't "settle" for fear of being alone. I've had a love I could live with. What I want is... "A love I can't live without." A Libertarian and free thinker, yet non confrontational. Southern born and bred.Want to know how my mind works? Read on!I can't be contained in a box. My views from politics to religion are often unconventional and maybe even unorthodox, but they are mine and I am NOT afraid to speak out even if I have to do it alone. I have a deep love and passion for my country and its military, but not its present administration. To the brave men (and women) who fight for our freedoms, THANK YOU... PAST, PRESENT, and FUTURE! To any who oppose them, FEEL FREE TO STAND IN FRONT OF THEM!!!I choose to live by choice, not by chance; to make changes, not excuses; to be motivated and not manipulated; to be useful, not used. I choose self-esteem, not self-pity; to listen to my inner voice, not the random opinions of others. If you do not like something I say or do, don't message me. I am a single, grown woman and I certainly do not need your approval!!! I am not conceited, nor am I convinced. I am Confident in myself and the person that I have become. I hold my head high because there are too many that would love to see me fall. What those people fail to realize is the fact that I fall often, I just learned how to get back up a long time ago!!!It is not my past that defines me, It is how I got through it and who I am today!! Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives. I am determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; because I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances. More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them. Acceptance and accountability are the first steps to free you from yourself.It takes strength to be firm, It takes courage to be gentle, strength to conquer - courage to surrender, strength to be certain - courage to have doubt, strength to fit in - courage to stand out, strength to feel a friend’s pain - courage to feel your own, strength to endure abuse - courage to stop it, strength to stand alone - courage to lean on another, strength to love - courage to be loved, strength to survive - courage to live. You will never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. Just remember, God places the heaviest burden on those who can carry its weight...People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.Although not every choice you make is about directions, all choices will influence where you end up. Just remember this... It's never difficult to make decisions when you know what your values are.Stop let people’s compliments go to your head and don’t let their criticisms go to your heart. The degree to which you do either of these things, is the degree to which you’ll be ruled by what other people think of you. IE... I could honestly care less what someone's opinion is who does not know me.RESPECT and RESPONSIBILITY - RESPECT yourself and others and take RESPONSIBILITY for your actions!May you all find who/what you are searching for.Namaste'Words are meaningless without INTEGRITY. "I Love You", eight letters... "Bullshit", also eight letters. Never say what you don't mean just because You think someone wants to hear it! "I am really good at... Defying the laws of average.***And soWhatever happens, I want to beSelf-respecting and conscience free.Finding myself was the first keyFor I can be no one else you seeAccepting myself has set me freeTo be the woman I am meant to beRenee' As for a first date... It should be a meeting, just something "simple".. Public with a quick exit if need be. Face it guys, until you actually see someone face to face, how the heck can you know if you even want to go on a date???I feel the need to add one more statement... Anything easy isn't worth having and anything worth having isn't easy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drawing / Painting Indian Spanish Turkish Thriller
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