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Lavonia, 47

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About Me

Hey!!!I consider myself to be fun, easygoing, romantic, low maintenance, drama free. Love to explore new adventures,Enjoy variety of music, LOVE country music,dancing, going to see local bands, I also love the nostalgia of seedy pubs/bars and beer!I enjoy camping, travel, the beach, the mountains, my backyard... THE REDSOX, weekends, cooking, laughing, I have a great sense of humor, and always manage to find the funny side of things...I have 4 children, two are grown and out on their own... and 2 younger boys, 14 and 18 who I share custody with and they are all the most important thing to me and are growing up faster than I like, and I work very hard to keep up with them!!I'm really good at making people laugh, being organized, talking, relaxing,cooking, making a really delicious cup of coffee, chicken parm, brownies, and many other things to eat :), decorating, caring, getting to bed early, compassion...I work in healthcare, in a emergency room so I see lots of things that can at times be quite... "unnerving" to some, so I am not easily thrown off kilter, and have learned to keep calm and carry on!!;-) Please only reply if... You can show a photo of YOU, and not of YOU 10 years ago, you are your stated age, height and weight!! :) Your normal(relatively speaking) :-):-)(sorry guys...) I will not respond to any *** do not have a picture.I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~~ I like to do lots of things, Im pretty low maintenance,perhaps casual dinner,long walk. coffee, bowling...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cheyenne

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a high energy lady who is very passionate about everything I do. I love working out and staying fit. If you do not take care of yourself and take pride in your looks, we will not be a match. I am a very stable lady looking for a relationship, not just a "good time". I have a great career and a job that I love. If you are a single, non-smoking man who is physically fit and wants a sound relationship, message me. Good luck to all!

  • Kandace

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I work hard as an ER nurse and night shift clinical coordinator. I love my job,but it is not my life.(it does make me realize how short life can be and to just enjoy every minute of it that you can) My family always comes first. My children are now young adults working and gong to school with my oldest out on her own. No matter how old they are they will always be a priority for me. They are adopted and of different races so if that's not for you pass me on.I am just staring the process of looking for a home to purchase. I really like NJ, well, probably wouldn't have any complaints if someone warmed my car up for me every cold winter morning:) I am patient,easy going,reliable,generous and responsible. Looking for the same in a partner. I'm shy at first,but warm up quickly I can have a slightly warped sense of humor.....blame it on years of ER nursing.I like staying in shape and staying active. I run outside regularly and belong to a gym. LOVE the beach,rainy nights.sleeping in once in a while, Early fall mornings with a good cup of coffee, Halloween,pumpkin picking,apple picking. I love scary movies!! The kind that make you not want to be home alone! I like dressing up and going out for dinner or a drink somewhere out of the way, not too crowded. A place where we can actually hear each other talk and I don't feel like I could be the parent to most of the patrons.Also love casual stay at home times too. I like most types of music and enjoy good local bands. Going to the city is fun on occasion too. I never mind getting a little messy as long as I'm having fun:) Really most things we do are fun in the right company.Also love vacations exotic or different not necessarily the popular all inclusive resorts that are so popular,like stay-cations too they give me a chance to catch up on those things so easily put off, finding new places to explore as well as going to old favorites. So that's pretty much me in a few paragraphs. If interested please have a recent photo..mine are all recentThanks:)DonaPS if you send me more than one *** remember you did and don't copy and paste your lengthy self absorbed intro *** more than once...Thanks:) A cup of coffee, a drink, good conversation that flows easily .... Keep it simple if things work we can have a longer second,third or 100th date:)

  • Shea

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Today, I am back from a annual beach vacation with my children and extended family. Traveling with my five (ages ***is never dull. Staying with my siblings, their spouses and my nieces and nephews is never quiet. The travel time interrupted my schedule and I missed my early morning workout routine. Normally, I wouldn't be overly concerned, but I have signed up for a number of obstacle mud runs and will pay for it later I am certain. Exercise keeps me moving and focused and satisfies the competitive drive in me. It might be said that I'm the work hard-play hard type of girl. Lately I have been learning about self-awareness and exploring meditation, reflection and yoga. I think it's a good balance to the dancing and singing frenzy which have been my go-to stress relievers for some time. Don't get me wrong, I still intend for Friday night to find me on the dance floor playing with the music that I know from the radio and my children. Anything with a beat is good (including top 40, salsa, techno, house and dubstep). I haven't experienced country music to that extent (although there is some appeal to having cowboy boots and a hat). I'm witty, sarcastic and somewhat irreverent and how I do love to laugh! This whole experience of shopping for humans has cracked me up for hours at a time. Hours. Literally. Online matchmaking is a fabulous concept. How it makes one feel both empowered and pathetic simultaneously is AMAZING. Isn't it? I love the questions in our profiles about cars and drugs. Are these helpful to anybody? Is it actually possible to live as an adult in the suburbs (most of us with children) without having a car? Has anyone actually seen someone answer "yes, I do drugs"? I mentally chuckle every time I read a profile. I don't know about you, but I really struggled to choose my intent. So let me spell it out directly. I am looking for: connections (emotional and intellectual), someone to play with and share a laugh. Bonus points for attraction. Your thought processes are so different from women and I find that entertaining. If we don't spark, we can be friends. I do believe in that urban myth.If you are interested, interesting, happy and like-minded, send a message. Don't just say "hi" or the equivalent of "How you doin'?". Engage me in conversation. Show me what your personality brings to the table. Past experience has taught us all a few lessons (hint - use spell-check and watch your punctuation). LOL. No, I'm serious about that one. Include a photo in your profile. Physical attraction, while not the sole criteria, is important and it doesn't send a message that you are hiding something.New experiences, new lessons, new discoveries, new friends are the goals this year. Be well, be happy and good luck on your journey!

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