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Lavelle, 48
United States, South Carolina, Hilton Head Island

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I am very down to earth and looking for the same in a funny, artsy, funky, educated guy. I think I'm a bit off beat, maybe a bit eccentric. Ordinary mainstream stuff is a bit annoying to me. I like the dives, the one offs and the unique things in life. I am a foodie and love trying new restaurants and flavors. I wish I could save the world (or at least educate and pull everyone out of poverty) but it's too big, maybe just a soul here and there. I love my volunteer work in the city mentoring fifth grade girls and sticking with them through school so that most of them attend college. Maybe I can make a bit of a difference but I have found that you can only try to be a catalyst. The real difference has to be made by the subject himself. And the truth is, you just have to accept that you tried your best, which isn't always easy. My last big trips were Thailand and India just wish I could be a full-time nomad. I love seeing new places and cultures and learning new things.I need a quick wit and a sharp sense of humor. I find those things A-MAzing. I might have some of those qualities but only if you bring it out in me. I have to admit I feed off of a certain type of energy vibe. It's pretty intense when I find it. You have to be comfortable in your own skin. Be authentic.So I am looking for a fun partner who has class, finesse and style and is preferably tattoo-free. Hopefully you'll enjoy foreign and independent films, dining where there is a real chef with fresh ingredients, being in nature and just being generally spontaneous and free-spirited. Chemistry of course we've heard about ad nauseum, but I seem to either have *** for someone or I try to convince myself to give it time and it never really seems to happen. How sad really that our checklists just don't work. Pheromones...a small hex on us all. So I am a very passionate and sensual person and need the same. I love snuggling and finding my favorite little tasty morsel of you. I am extremely close with my family and friends and hope you also have a good support system. I won't be giving them up for anyone so if you don't know how to share it won't work out.I don't play games and don't appreciate someone who does the push/pull thing so I aim for a peaceful relationship without much drama. I hope to find someone to truly give my love to - someone that appreciates me the way I am and returns the same. I want to help nurture someone, encourage new interests, and be supportive as I wish my partner to be with me. Humor is of course an essential ingredient to any relationship and there is absolutely nothing better than a good laugh. I love being silly and I'm quite quirky. Definitely *not* normal ;-) Dinner at a funky restaurant and a walk by the water or anything that includes wine or coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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