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Particia, 48

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About Me

I have always been described as someone who "marches to the beat of her own drum". I am a free spirit and not afraid to speak my mind, even when everyone in the room disagrees with me. I believe in celebrating individual differences and resist conformity whenever I can. I am most proud of the work I have done in the mental health field for the past 30 years. This experience has made me appreciate all of God's blessings and the importance of helping those less fortunate than myself. I am hopeful that chivalry is still alive (somewhere) and can appreciate a man with old fashioned values but a modern look. Age and race aren't as important to me as a person's character and if he has a kind heart. I am not looking for a "hook up" but hoping to meet someone special with the potential of developing something long term. Looking for someone who can take my breath away! Because it is our first meeting, we will meet in a public place (for obvious reasons). So don't ask to come by my place (before or after) because that just isn't happening. Let's meet at a place that allows us to converse and get to know each other better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yuette

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Please don't waste my time or yours id you aren't interested in a serious relationship. I feel I now have my life in better order so that I am ready to look forward and move on to a new relationship with a fresh beginning and so should you. I'm looking forward to a new long term relationship with THE ONE and will delete my profile when he comes along.My divorce was final in ***. I was married for 27 years to my high school sweetheart. We married young, grew apart, and wanted different things.I'm looking for a best friend who loves spending time together, someone I can go out and have a good time with who believes in honesty as well as loyalty, that good communication is the key to a lasting relationship, and who would be compatible. I'm looking for someone I'm physically attracted with incredible chemistry that doesn't come around everyday. Laughter is important and I'm also looking for that guy who can make me laugh.I can be comfortable in heels and a dress or a pair of jeans, t-shirt, and my hair pulled up in a ponytail wearing a cap. Adaptable to the country or city. I enjoy miniature golf, love baseball, riding dirt roads, deer hunting (love the solitude at times), enjoy wine tasting, movies, working out, bike riding, spending time at the beach, going to the mountains, and staying in and watching movies on a rainy day and I especially love animals and nature. I think I would live at the beach if it were possible! A guy who is romantic and doesn't get caught up in routine is a plus! There's nothing like taking off for the weekend at the spur of the moment. Although I haven't ridden much, I would love to meet someone who rides motorcyles on weekends. I like 70s, 80s, and country music mostly.I'm shy at first and prefer smaller groups as to a larger setting. Family is very important to me and the man I'm looking for should feel the same. He would be a man that looks forward to coming home to me at the end of the day and I him. One who doesn't take me for granted nor I him. Players need not apply but *** who is serious about wanting a relationship. I don't usually initiate first contact so if you're interested send me an *** if we click as I am also interested in friends also.***\\\***Please put this***\\\***on your profile***if you know***someone who is***\\\***living with,***\\\***has survived,***\***or has passed***\\\***away from cancer.***\\\***Thank you. Dinner at a quiet restaurant where we can get to know each other. Maybe taking a walk afterwards or a drive through the country...anything related.***Deal Breakers***EMTs, firemen, policemen, long haul truck driver, any who travel with their work. Please be serious about looking for a relationship when messaging me. I'm ready to come off this site!

  • Faviola

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    ..fun, funny, spontaneous, cute...has a job...I am the same. I'm not a cling on. I live in a clean house and I like to cook tasty meals. Would like to cook with someone on occasion...I'll cook for you, you'll cook for me, and sometimes we'll cook together. Must eat veggies! Do not like to eat with a man that picks every vegetable out of his food. I like steak, pizza, ribs, etc, so am not a veggitarian by any means... Like to hang out at the local pub, occasionally(I'm not a bar fly), seeing a band or going to concerts...I am into history, politics(conservative libertarian), I watch C-Span on occasion, books that teach me stuff or are old and interesting, sightseeing, star gazing, walks in the neighborhood(without the dog) or on the beach, I watch football(Packer fan from WI) and would enjoy some playful rivalry, target shooting, playing volleyball in the pool, and talking to folks sitting next to me at the Tiki Bar...anything mentally stimulating keeps my attention. I'm not into crazy strenuous sports, but will laugh through pathetic attempts at so many other physical activities...LOL!I have a great sense of humor and need to be with someone who will laugh with me, say funny and cute things...I do all the time...if your idea of funny is "little Johnny" jokes(jokes that are just dirty and not funny, that make disrespectful men laugh and women cringe) your not my type..but if it's funny, nothing is off the table : ). Not into the "biker" lifestyle, either, and don't mean to sound racist, but just have never been attracted to black men...even cute ones...sorry.I have to be with an honest, sincere man. I am not interested in boring, broke, players, liars or" even fibbers, or someone that doesn't care about his own, or my, family. If your picture is with you surrounded by a bunch of young slutty type of gals, your not impressing me either. If you can't crack a smile for your picture or can't take your sunglasses off I can't see your smile or your eyes...the two things that may make me look at your profile...just sayin...and if your holding a big fish, or have more pictures of your dog than you, we'll...I'm not looking to be your fishing buddy or fall in love with your dog, k?I don't care about smoking, 420, and am not going to try to change who you are...I care more about the chemistry than the habits.I like cats more than dogs, but understand that they are animals...and they have their place...I currently do not have any animals, but when I buy a house, I will have a cat...not 10 cats...just one :) and possibly a dog if I have a big enough yard...if you sleep with your dog, or allow your dog on the couch, your not my type. I figure if you've taken the time to train your dog to be a respectful house member, you probably are neat and considerate of others.I am organized, but not "sleeping with the Enemy" organized...just normal and will appreciate the same qualities in a man.Not really into long haired men or more facial hair than a goatee or a mustache. Guys with bald or shaved heads are ok If you 'rock it' handsomely and have the smile, eyes, or personality that fits it. Half bald & not shaved is not cool...just FYI...LOL!I would be more interested in a slim or average built man that does not look like he's 7 months pregnant! (I guess old lookin, fat men can't read, cuz I'm getting a lot of responses from them...LOL).not into the fatty, no neck, body builder types, either..no gel spiked 80's hairstyles or a man that uses more hair products than me...LOL! I'm Looking for a young looking and acting man...I am a young looking and acting woman....naturally 'worn' is beautiful...not 'rode hard & put away wet'...Yikes!!; or taller would be nice) but, again, if you're personality and sense of humor makes me melt...I'll get over that!I like to watch movies on Netflix...mostly comedies, and would NOT watch endless hours of American idol and the like.....loved Breaking Bad!I'm a classic Rock fan and like to play it loud, love Jimmy Buffet, and like some country and some new Rock...fun to dance to, or music that makes a crowd get off its feet. I'm that good looking gal stopped at the red light next to you, jamming to loud music and moving my body to the beat.I can still rock a bikini...but am not a 10...not below 5, for sure... Men turn their heads when I walk by, and I am looking for a man who would be confident in that situation because he knows he can keep me satisfied with who he is, and what he has to offer...good times, no drama, a good conversationalist, not somewhere else in your mind while we're trying to have a good time, interesting, funny, cute, faithful, sincere, honest, and fun to be around! So....-mail me!Ps...I don't know if J.F. Is all that, but I'm not settling this time around...I am not desperate...never will be..I like me and am OK on my own...just fishin' to see if.....AND IF YOU LOOK LIKE YOUR 7 MONTHS PREGNANT(BEER GUT OR JUST OUT OF SHAPE) I PROBABLY WONT REPLY...SORRY My first date will be something like meeting at a Tiki bar, taking a walk on the beach, watching the sunset, getting something to eat, going to see live entertainment at a beach bar or two...a 'sober up' walk, window shopping at places that are closed for the night...with lots of laughter throughout!

  • Alecia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi, so this is the hard part, to talk about myself, lol I have been living in Fl. for about 11 years, orginally from NY. I still have the accent. I am easy to talk to, and can have a good conversation with anybody. I think I have a good sense of humor, and like someone who can make me smile. I enjoy allot of outdoor activities, and really like to walk on the beach and just listen to the sound of the water, it really has a calming effect. I like to excercise, and recently have started bike riding. I like classic rock, but really listen to all types of music except rap. I am looking for someone who is confident, and can take care of themselves. Someone who has a good sense of humor, and is not uptight. I am looking for a person that is real, and true to themselves. So if you would like to chat, send me a message, and well see what happens. someplace we can talk, maybe a glass of wine, or a cup of tea or coffee, or a nice walk.

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