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Shanta, 46

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About Me

Hello---What to say... well, I'm not really sure what to say to be perfectly honest and I don't like talking about myself and besides, it's just words. But, talk about myself I must so here goes***I'm a business professional. Fit in mind and body. I detest sloth. When not working or tending to my boy (he's 8), I'm up for about anything be it a Spartan race, scavenger hunt, laser tag, happy hour, dinner with friends......I'm a study in contrasts - serious and fun: smart and ditz; athletic and klutz.---Never a dull moment but quite a handful ! Not for the faint of heart !I am unimpressed by "things," I'm impressed by intellect, critical thinkers, humanists, dedication, humility, kindness and wit. I think that covers it -- succinctly and to the point---so, au revoir, or, hello, as the case may be ! Cocktails

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marci

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I want to be positive, but am so very sick of this dating game, so here's what I want. It is a want, not need list:You should be 5'11" or taller. When I have my 6" heels on, I will be close to your height then.Dark hair or no hair is good. Gray at our age is acceptable. I am not into the long haired, hippy look. That went out with the 80's.Someone honest, respectful and some what old-fashioned. If I have my 6" heels on, you should open my door and let me hold your arm when walking so I don't fall off my shoes. lol. Opening doors in general is a nice, respectful gesture.You should be employed.Someone who doesn't do drugs, and as an RN, I consider drugs even as minor as smoking pot. Just not into it.You should be willing to be friends first...and see where it goes. If you last 3 months with me, you're gold.While we all have baggage, I am tired of 'fixing' people, especially in relationships. Be mentally healthy and able to do your own cooking and cleaning. I am not your Mommy.Be able to communicate. If we can't have a conversation, I'm bored.Don't be possessive or jealous. I am not one to be owned or shut off from being who I am. I am a very social, outgoing person.You should either own and ride a motorcycle, or not have a problem with me riding with male friends. I am a ride ho, not a ho ho. Riding yourself would be best! I died in an accident while riding my motorcycle and it remains my number one passion in life.If, after we become friends, we decide to add sex to the relationship, you should be sexually 'free'. I am not inhibited and get bored with missionary style every night.You should not be a cheater. Someone fun. A sense of humor is good and I am all about having fun wherever I go, whatever I do, or whoever I'm with.Fitness is important. I am not into a 'beer belly' that you have to pick up to wash under. Hiking and doing things besides sitting on a couch all the time is good.If I give you my phone number, you don't ever need to send me pictures of your 'parts' before we even meet or before we are in a monogamous relationship.You should not only be looking for that 'one' relationship, but have time to invest in it, in me.Separated or newly divorced need not apply.What you need to know about me in addition to what I've all ready listed above:I am extremely friendly and comfortable in any situation.My hair color is natural.I am honest...probably too honest for my own good, and while I always try to be constructive, it sometimes gets me in trouble. I'm also somewhat of a smarty pants. which probably more often gets me in trouble. I do know there's a time and a place and do have a filter...usually.-5 days a week.At 50 years old, I have never cheated on anyone in my life and don't have the desire to start now.I will not be paying for our dates to start with, although the first time we meet, I will go dutch. I am done being a sugar momma. Sorry about your bad luck.Not in to playing games unless we are in a monogamous relationship and they're in the bedroom. ;)I have my own house on 8-acres, but have no problem relocating for the right person.Shopping and I do not get along. I can be out of any number of items, but until my pup needs food, I do not go to the store. I absolutely despise shopping.I am looking for that one man to spend the rest of my life with...that one trusting, honest, unconditionally loving relationship.I have raised my two stepsons and my daughter. I am not interested in raising any more young children or babies. If your child/children is/are not old enough to stay home alone while we have our time, I am not interested. 15 or older is acceptable. Grown children out of the house is best.Tan is good. I only wear eye makeup and Chapstick. What you see is what you get.I believe in compromise.Morning coffee is mandatory.I am very affectionate once I decide you're gold...whether you remain a friend or we enter into a sexual relationship.Dancing in the rain could happen at any given moment when it's raining whether I'm in shorts, pants, or fancy dress.I believe in God (I met my God when I died), but not organized religion.Snakes terrify me!!!I don't much care what the general population opinion of me is. Anyone who truly knows me knows I am a kind, honest, loving and generous person with solid morals and values.I love to smile, laugh and be happy! Any questions...just ask. I have nothing to hide. Lunch, a cup of coffee, a motorcycle ride, a short hike or a couple games of pool are great for the first meeting.I would prefer to do our 'meet and greet' with you coming to my neck of the woods, because that is what a gentleman would do.

  • Eufemia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Looking for a fun loving person who is active, ambitous and playful. I would love some who plays tennis, enjoys going out on the town and going to concerts, especially smooth jazz and rhythm and blues.

  • Myrtice

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    "If one advances confidently in the direction of his/her dreams and endeavors to live the life which he/she has imagined, he/she will meet with a sucess unexpected in common hours."....And so I go on advancing confidently.... I love good music of all genres..Bach to the Buzzcocks. Anyone who is with me will have an easy confidence and strong sense of self. At this point, I'm all about living a full, healthy, adventurous,passion filled life. I like to laugh and sing and I surround myself with honest,forthright,good humored people who at least try to have a positive and forward thinking outlook. I have tried to respect and learn from the past but don't wanna live there. While I can enjoy time alone, I truly love my family and have a fantastic and interesting group of friends. I will almost always be up for a casual night with friends playing games, watching a movie or a ball game, or sharing a great evening of dinner and a good bottle of wine. I love foreign and indie movies- strange and thought provoking, adventures, dramas, comedies..whatever..I love movies and some great tv shows..and i won't apologize for it either! Ha ha! I like art and literature but dislike the pretentious people often around that scene. I do power yoga and work out a couple days(been less lately due to injury) a week but definitely a work in progress..no hardbody just yet. ; p I like to hike, go to the beach, camping, love the snow and being in the mountains,just started learning about Krav Maga (I can protect you in a dark alley! lol) and would like to start bike riding.I try to eat healthy most of the time but also really enjoy trying good food of all ethnicities. I want a playmate, soulmate, and partner in crime to travel with and enjoy everything we can, while we can. It is important that anyone I date maintains his friendships and "guy time" but can also be comfortable in a group of my friends just like i would hope to occasionally get to hang with his if we all gel. I want a guy who is kind hearted and considerate, doesn't always have to be right and can be a gracious winner when he is! It is also a plus if he has a soft heart and faith.I have 2 grown stepdaughters who are still an important part of my life and an amazing and very independent 18 year old daughter who is getting ready to leave for her last two years in UCLA's prestigious art program. I guess we can talk more about that part of my life if we meet and it becomes relevant.I should probably save something for discovering on our potentially great first date so let me just end with this: If you like well spoken, upbeat, real, loyal, cool, diverse and sexy women with a great set of ..eyes, you will like me. Let's find out if we can be friends and see where it goes from there..unless our chemistry is just red hot from the start! ;p** And guys, while I am active and fun and worth the time and effort to get to know, i AM a big curvy girl! Big bust,hips,thighs and derriere etc.. but i have a waist and shape and men find me pretty sexy even with the extra padding so if you only like skinny minnies, I am not your girl! I am not offended if that isn't your thing. Happy fishing :)***ok..i guess i need to point out one more thing. Guys, while i am flattered with all of the interest, please don't message me if you are just looking to fulfill your curvy girl fetish fantasies. I have been sent enough pics of your "members" to put out a coffee table book..fyi guys, women are not typically that impressed with a close up of your crotch..it is the person attached that sparks the interest! lol..not mad 'atcha..just wait till you are asked for it mmkay? haha ;p Thanks for the courtesy of the read and I hope you see something in this mess that drives you to contact me. ;)love this quote:I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work, the more I live. I rejoice in life for it's own sake. Life is no "Brief Candle" to me. It is a sort of splendid torch, which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations."~**The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves. Let's go somewhere like the pier, get lunch, see a great band, walk along the water, chat, check out the local artists.. nothing high stress OR- we could do something totally outside the box and go ride dune buggy's or take an easy hike and have a picnic..something active and fun and engaging with a touch of adrenaline. I do love to go fast! Frankly, i think if we are hitting it off, it won't matter what we do!****PRIVACY NOTICE****Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.

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