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Marci, 50
United States, South Carolina, Fort Mill

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I want to be positive, but am so very sick of this dating game, so here's what I want. It is a want, not need list:You should be 5'11" or taller. When I have my 6" heels on, I will be close to your height then.Dark hair or no hair is good. Gray at our age is acceptable. I am not into the long haired, hippy look. That went out with the 80's.Someone honest, respectful and some what old-fashioned. If I have my 6" heels on, you should open my door and let me hold your arm when walking so I don't fall off my shoes. lol. Opening doors in general is a nice, respectful gesture.You should be employed.Someone who doesn't do drugs, and as an RN, I consider drugs even as minor as smoking pot. Just not into it.You should be willing to be friends first...and see where it goes. If you last 3 months with me, you're gold.While we all have baggage, I am tired of 'fixing' people, especially in relationships. Be mentally healthy and able to do your own cooking and cleaning. I am not your Mommy.Be able to communicate. If we can't have a conversation, I'm bored.Don't be possessive or jealous. I am not one to be owned or shut off from being who I am. I am a very social, outgoing person.You should either own and ride a motorcycle, or not have a problem with me riding with male friends. I am a ride ho, not a ho ho. Riding yourself would be best! I died in an accident while riding my motorcycle and it remains my number one passion in life.If, after we become friends, we decide to add sex to the relationship, you should be sexually 'free'. I am not inhibited and get bored with missionary style every night.You should not be a cheater. Someone fun. A sense of humor is good and I am all about having fun wherever I go, whatever I do, or whoever I'm with.Fitness is important. I am not into a 'beer belly' that you have to pick up to wash under. Hiking and doing things besides sitting on a couch all the time is good.If I give you my phone number, you don't ever need to send me pictures of your 'parts' before we even meet or before we are in a monogamous relationship.You should not only be looking for that 'one' relationship, but have time to invest in it, in me.Separated or newly divorced need not apply.What you need to know about me in addition to what I've all ready listed above:I am extremely friendly and comfortable in any situation.My hair color is natural.I am honest...probably too honest for my own good, and while I always try to be constructive, it sometimes gets me in trouble. I'm also somewhat of a smarty pants. which probably more often gets me in trouble. I do know there's a time and a place and do have a filter...usually.-5 days a week.At 50 years old, I have never cheated on anyone in my life and don't have the desire to start now.I will not be paying for our dates to start with, although the first time we meet, I will go dutch. I am done being a sugar momma. Sorry about your bad luck.Not in to playing games unless we are in a monogamous relationship and they're in the bedroom. ;)I have my own house on 8-acres, but have no problem relocating for the right person.Shopping and I do not get along. I can be out of any number of items, but until my pup needs food, I do not go to the store. I absolutely despise shopping.I am looking for that one man to spend the rest of my life with...that one trusting, honest, unconditionally loving relationship.I have raised my two stepsons and my daughter. I am not interested in raising any more young children or babies. If your child/children is/are not old enough to stay home alone while we have our time, I am not interested. 15 or older is acceptable. Grown children out of the house is best.Tan is good. I only wear eye makeup and Chapstick. What you see is what you get.I believe in compromise.Morning coffee is mandatory.I am very affectionate once I decide you're gold...whether you remain a friend or we enter into a sexual relationship.Dancing in the rain could happen at any given moment when it's raining whether I'm in shorts, pants, or fancy dress.I believe in God (I met my God when I died), but not organized religion.Snakes terrify me!!!I don't much care what the general population opinion of me is. Anyone who truly knows me knows I am a kind, honest, loving and generous person with solid morals and values.I love to smile, laugh and be happy! Any questions...just ask. I have nothing to hide. Lunch, a cup of coffee, a motorcycle ride, a short hike or a couple games of pool are great for the first meeting.I would prefer to do our 'meet and greet' with you coming to my neck of the woods, because that is what a gentleman would do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Korean Animation Drama Horror Sci-Fi Sailing
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