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Hilary, 47
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

Under construction, keeping on eye on the fish finder and trying to figure what will be running this week!!! Will be updated as required as this pond gets pretty choppy and rough at times, but its always an adventure on here for sure!!! I have been here before, done this before; Got some keepers, made some great, lasting friendships. Wrote a vague paragraph, wrote a descriptive novel.... nothing seems to be the norm on here... Single people turn out to be married, married people are acting single. "Wants a relationship" turns into "Dating/No Committment" almost overnight. Too many txts in one day, you smother and stalk.... not enough, and you're not giving them any attention and they find someone else. Makes you wonder why you keep coming back, right? And still here we all are..... waiting for the bait runner to catch and hold.... hoping for the "keeper"..I do have preferences as to what type of man and situation I am looking for, though it does not matter to most men on here, lol!** MUST HAVE A PICTURE OR I WILL NOT RESPOND*** I DO NOT DATE BLACK GENTLEMEN***MUST BE A PHYSICAL ATTRACTION*** I prefer men over 5'10'', muscled, and in good shape.... I keep myself in good shape and I expect the same from my partner. Physical attraction is priority one for me. I am a very tactile person, and I consider it a main part of the relationship. Please do not take it personally if I am not interested in you, we each have our own likes/ dislikes and should not have to be held accountable for them.I am not on here to send *** after *** and time consuming. We talk online, we talk on phone, and we meet and we either click or we don't... I don't want to waste my time or yours :) ** If you are "married" to your job, the gym or your buds, WTH are you on here???*** A relationship requires time and effort..... If you are on here just to have a repetative one night stand, or someone who is desperate enough to play "the waiting game" holding their breath till you decide you txt/call, there are other women who would love to help you out.... I AM NOT ONE OF THEM, don't even try it.. I WANT a relationship, definitely don't NEED one...... Love to be in quiet seclusion surrounded by nature... Wide open spaces over City every time.....Jeans and sweats, barefoot, but can play dress up really well...... :) Beer/Vodka, over wine, but depends on who is buying and when.... ;6Steak, NOT seafood, STRICT MEAT-atarian...Love my bread and potatoes/pasta and gravy (not sauce) !!!Lakes and rivers, over ocean, but have to take what you can get ;***year marriage, 12 yrs divorced, 23 year old daughter6 years Army: Nuclear, Biological, Chemical Warfare, ETS'd E***college degrees: Law, Massage Therapy17 years at same job... Law is involved and lawyers are included..... :) Music - Prefer 60's, 70's and 80's, have favorites in every genre... Hard Rock to Opera, Soul/RB to Hair Bands...Movies- Usually pick by fav actors... Pacino, DeNiro, Connery., etc..., but every movie deserves a fighting chance....LOVE WATCHING SPORTS!.. don't even bring it up....Should be enough, but if you want to know more, as I said, just ask... I am an open book, with some dog-eared pages for quick reference... To be determined.... Round 1 = something easy and convenient for both parties, prefer casual, simple, with no pretention...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

Reggae Craft Making Documentary Mystery Sci-Fi
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    .THOUGHT ALL WAS FINE AFTER THAT THEN 4 MONTHS LATER I HAD 3 STROKES BACK TO BACK WITHIN 24 HOURS,WHILE IN THE HOSPITAL WITH THOSE THEY FOUND A MASSIVE MASS ON MY HEART SO I HAD TO HAVE OPEN HEART SURGERY....ALL THIS FROM THE WRECK FROM THE STUPID ROAD CONSTRUCTION SOO FAR IM MUCH BETTER, THE STROKES DID ITS DAMAGES OF CORSE, NOTHING TO BADD CONSIDERIN COULDA BEEN MUCH WORSE, AND YES I STILL RIDE.. :)~ I HAD TO RELEARN MY ABC'S,WRITE,SPELL, TALK, LOL SO IM NOT AS WITTY AND I ONCE WAS BUT IM GLAD TO B HERE, SO THAT ALL A PLUS, :)~ NOT SURE WHAT IM LOOKIN FOR RIGHT NOW I THINK I WILL JUST TAKE THINGS SLOW AND "HOPE I MEET THAT "ONE" THAT LOOKS LIKE IM THE ONE AND ONLY LOVE OF HIS LIFE,AS ME... I WONT SETTLE, OR I WILL LIVE BY SELF FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE... OH AND I CANT DRIVE BCOZ OF THE STROKES OK FIRST OF IM 5'2 TEETER BTWEEN (UP DATE : "***" ***, " UP DATE " OK I DONT MEAN TO B UGLY BUT IM NOT LOOKIN FOR ANYONE WHO HAS YOUNG KIDS, MY KIDS ARE GROWN AND THIS IS MY TIME !! AND DONT WANNA DEAL WITH THE MOMA DRAMA... DONE BEEN THERE... I LOVE KIDS IMA MEMAH AND THEY R THE WORLD TO ME AND U WILL C, MY GRANDKIDS R... I JUST WANNA B ABLE TO GO AND B GONE AS LONG AS I WANT WITH NOT HAVIN TO WORRY ABOUT BABYSITTERS ETC.ALOT SAY THEY ARNT INTO DRAMA...PFTTT SORRY LIFE HAS DRAMA SPECIALLY IF U HAVE KIDS OR NOSEY FAMILY MEMBERS OR CRAZY ASS FRIENDS LOL, THAT JUST B LIFE, THINK THEY SHOULD REWRITE STATING... ( NOT INTO DRAMA QUEENS/KINGS OR DRAMA STARTERS )IM NOT A DRAMA QUEEN NOR DO I START DRAMA ! BUT I SURE THE HELL WILL SIT BACK AND WATCH IT AND LAUGH MY ASS OFF ! AHHH GET OVER IT DANG ! :)~OK THAT WAS JUST A JOKE ABOUT CHEWIN/DIPPIN SKOAL GROSS LOL AND THE VOICES THAT I HEAR ALL THE TIME WAS TRYIN TO MAKE ME PUT UP MORE CRAP , BUT I WON ON THOSE AND COMPRIMISED ON JUST THAT ONE....AHHAHA LMAO OOPSS SECRET IS OUT RUT ROH! :( (I just starred at an orange juice box for 20 minutes...... because it said......(Concentrate! :)~ ) I DONT TAKE ANY TYPE OF MENTAL PILLS, AS OF YET !, BUT CRAP, AFTER DATING AT THIS AGE IM THINKING I SHOULD B ON SOME :)~ I DESPISE RAP MUSIC !!PSTT MY DOCTOR WANTED TO PUT ME ON SOME SORTA MENTAL PILLS FOR THOSE DANG VOICES, BUT I REFUSED, HELL THEY ENTERTAIN ME, IM SORTA EASLY AMUSSED AT TIMES :)~ "They opened up the door To my Insanity! They shoulda Slamed it shut right then and Thrown away the key! They shoulda never let me Out im Public Enemy !TURN OFFS : POS MEN WHO *** TO MEET TO PLAY OR HAVE SEX OR LOOKING FOR A FWB=(F BUDDY)! LIARS,DRUGGIES,ALCOHOLICS,THEIVES,BRAGGERS, PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY KNOW IT ALL, PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS ARE RUDE, OR RUDE TONED,TURN ONS : SOME ONE WHO LOVES TO LAUGH, LOVES TO HAVE FUN, AND ACT SILLY !! DOWN TO EARTH, GOOD PERSONALITY IS A MUST, WITTYNESS, SOMEONE WHO SMILES ALOT, SOME ONE WHO ISNT FAKE OR TRYS TO B SOME ONE THEY R NOT, IM A SUCKER FOR PRETTY EYES TOO LOLAND I DONT HEAR VOICES HONESTLY WAS JUST GOOFIN OFF...SOUNDED GOOD AT THE MOMENT! LOL :)~PS. IF I DONT *** IM SORRY I GET SIDE TRACKED AND FORGET FOR DAYS, I DO TRY AND REPLY TO EVERYONE AS THE BEST THAT I CAN. IF I DONT *** SORRY CHANCES ARE I WASNT INTERESTED..... :( I HATE COFFEE SO THAT WOULDN'T FLY WITH ME, AND I LOVE A GOOD SCAREY MOVIE, BUT MOVIES ARNT THE GREATEST PLACE TO MEET SOMEONE FOR THE FIRST TIME, CANT TALK AND GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER, I WOULD SAY DINNER AND DRINKS,OR DRINKS AND PLAY SOME POOL OR DARTS IM NOT GREAT AT EITHER, BUT WOULD GIVE IT A WIRL LOL AND IF ALL IS WELL THEN MAYBE DANCING OR JUST DRIVE AROUND AND CHIT CHAT, OR GO TO BRICKTOWN AND WALK AROUND ETC... AND IN THE SUMMER TIME WHEN THE DRIVE INN THEATER IS OPEN THAT WOULD B A REALLY KEWL DATE...COZ U CAN AT LEAST TALK AND BS THERE WITH OUT OTHERS GRUMPIN AT YA LOL

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  • Jaida from Elgin | Woman | 50 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    going to try this one more time. I am looking for a friendship first. that leads possibly a to a long term relationship. I am independent I live alone with my granddaughter. I work everyday. I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me financially I am looking for someone to spend time with. weekend trips, someone with whom I have a lot of common interests. what I do not want1. anyone who is married. has a girlfriend. separated. or newly divorced.2.aanyone who is t just looking for sex3.anyone who is a player and just wants their ego stroked4 anyone who is not ready for a relationship5. anyone who is not a gentleman what I do want;1. a gentleman2. a romantic.3. someone that knows if you treat a woman like a queen she will treat you like a king4. someone who likes children5 someone who is passionate6 someone who is looking for a committed relationship this is my last go around on here. please only the serious reply about me: I love younger than my years. and act younger than my years. I am romantic passionate sensual playful hard working independent and loyal. I enjoy the beach. hiking camping boating dining out. dining in. I love to cook but have no one to cook for. I am NOT a serial dater. would like to find someone who is ready to be in a committed relationship and not continually looking for something better on meetville. I want off this site but I'm not going to settle damn must be chemistry. and attraction. if you are someone that is ready to pursue a long term relationship and wants to be in love again, drop me a line. pun intended lol there's a lot more to me but I know you guys get bored reading. Lol Good luck in your search:) SunnyUpdate all pics are recent. Day at the beach or on a boat, nice outdoor seafood dinner, fried oysters, shrimp, lobster. mmmmm. a stroll down the beach at sunset, followed by some wine and either dancing or a blues or jazz club., or just coffee, or lunch. i like the man to handle the details on the first date based on what you take away from my profile.

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  • Gianna from Elgin | Woman | 47 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi there :) I am a down to earth girl with a great sense of humor looking for that special guy. I feel you must have chemistry . Someone who makes you smile for no reason. I enjoy traveling, bike riding & walking along the beach looking for sea glass, gardening but you can keep the weeds. Life is made to enjoy and explore, be it big or small. It would be nice to share the experiences with someone special. I believe being friends is key. I am fortunate to have a lot of friends but it's the ones you connect with, without judgement that are the most precious. I am fortunate to have a life long friend, we have been friends since day one, but I am now looking to see if I can have that friendship again in a partner. I am very greatful for all I have. I have two loving and compassionate children who are both over 21 years old. The best times of my life that just get better by the day. A stable home and lots of old fashion morals:) I am, honest & family & friends are very important to me. A man who ONLY has eyes for me, is sincere and can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Hope to hear from you:)

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