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Erma, 46

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About Me

I am just a dorky person who loves to laugh and has a good heart. I care deeply about my friends and family. I am looking for someone who is caring, driven, compassionate, kind and can make me laugh. I always follow my *** work hard and I am willing to work even harder to fulfill my dreams. I have a lot to offer...in life, in a relationship and to myself. I know what I want because I have now learned what I don't want by process of elimination.No Momma's boys who still live at home and play hours of video gamesNo workaholics who don't make time for life and are content with that factNo one who makes excuses...lies to themselves and to me....constantly complains.....and doesn't have a backboneNo head games....I will run....fastI want someone with values and morals...someone who understands and appreciates mutual respectSomeone who was raised by decent and honest parentsSomeone who is intelligent but also has common senseSomeone who can spellBig shoes to fill....I don't think so....a real man will be my Cinderfella (told ya I was a dork ;) Stimulating conversation at a wine bar

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Livvy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Part of me wanted to write this really fun witty profile, the other part of me wanted to write something more meaningful and heartfelt. Then, I realized that is exactly what my personality is all about. I'm one big walking contrast. I love to see bands, I'm the one out on the dance floor, but also enjoy cuddling up on the couch with no regard for time. I love to travel and stay at a caribbean resort but can also find myself camping in the Adirondacks. I love playing sports, any kind, any competition, but not so inclined to watch them. I'm quite intelligent but can be spacey, I'm a total girly girl but will shoot guns or hop on my motorcycle. I'm fun, stay active, very open minded about most everything, super easy-going, compassionate, sensual and love the outdoors, especially water and mountains. I have to laugh....if you have a great sense of humor and are witty, I will be your best audience and you'll win my heart! I like playful banter, affection, teasing each other, feeling comfortable in conversation, someone that can go deep when needed. You prefer my soft curves rather than a hard athletic body, ha! You're, affectionate, playful, a good communicator, verbally expressive, outgoing, social, intelligent, educated, a goofball, love getting out and doing things but most of all, emotionally available and ready for "us". I'm looking for something different, real and at a deeper level then most couples. You have zero anger issues, patient and are open minded to life and will NOT play games or cause drama, nor do you want a women who creates it. I hope you enjoy your job cause I LOVE mine! Appealing to me are men whos life is full and rich with an abundance of friends and family because hanging with them is the best, well, except for quality alone time together. You take care of your body, in and out because this is the second half of our life and I plan on being healthy for the ride. Don't pass me over because I'm in my 50's. I have a face, mind and spirit of a someone much younger. Pictures are recent. I notice a lot of guys search for women younger than their own ages and I wanted you to find me. You can thank me when you meet me! Update: seeing I'm looking or someone that loves to laugh and have fun, no smiling photos won't get my attention. I also need more than one photo. I've made it clear whet I look like...no surprises. I'd like the same!. Can you message *** favoriting me or clicking meet me? Even a "hi" will tell me to look at your profile...Thanks! I'm so sorry if you say something nice yet I don't reply, we all have a "type" and I've found I can't reply to everyone or this would a part-time job.

  • Allen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm a very active professional woman. I make time for all my activities that are outside of work. I enjoy my career and family. I'm a morning person and I get up and exercise on most days and I feel great the rest of the day. I love to travel and visit with friends and family out of state as well as travel to vacation destinations. An ideal first date would be a walk in the park and a stop for coffee or tea along the way. Either a mountain bike ride or motorbike ride works also.

  • Jodi

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I come from a close large Irish family. I am a single mother of two boys, one who lives at home and one who lives out on his own. I enjoy fishing, camping, watching football (Go Giants!!), hockey (Rangers), baseball, (Yankees) going to concerts, dancing, cooking , baking and spending time with friends and family. I love to BBQ, yes I will even cook on the grill in the winter. I can do sweats and cuddle on the couch, get dressed up and go out on the town, just go to a local bar for a few beers and play some darts or pool or go for a walk on the beach or in the park. I am very easy to get alone with, Kind of go with the flow girl. I am true blue what you see is what you get. I pull no punches. I will not play head games with you and I would hope for the same respect in return, after all we are not in high school anymore. I hate drama and will not stick around to hear it or deal with it. I dont judge people because I am not perfect although I try to do the right thing by everyone which sometimes comes back to bite me in the butt but I learn from it and move on. I have been single for almost 4 years now and yes I have some baggage just like everyone but I have learned how to use that to my advantage *** it hold me back. I am respectful, loyal, outgoing, fun loving, and love to laugh. I love to hug, kiss, cuddle and show affection to the man I am with. I am a hand holder and have no problem showing someone how I feel about them. Anything else you would like to know I am a open book and have no problem with it, just simply ask. I decided I am ready to start dating again. So hear I go. lol Something where we can talk and get a better feel for each other. I am pretty much up for anything like I said kinda go with the flow.

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