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Jodi, 46
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

I come from a close large Irish family. I am a single mother of two boys, one who lives at home and one who lives out on his own. I enjoy fishing, camping, watching football (Go Giants!!), hockey (Rangers), baseball, (Yankees) going to concerts, dancing, cooking , baking and spending time with friends and family. I love to BBQ, yes I will even cook on the grill in the winter. I can do sweats and cuddle on the couch, get dressed up and go out on the town, just go to a local bar for a few beers and play some darts or pool or go for a walk on the beach or in the park. I am very easy to get alone with, Kind of go with the flow girl. I am true blue what you see is what you get. I pull no punches. I will not play head games with you and I would hope for the same respect in return, after all we are not in high school anymore. I hate drama and will not stick around to hear it or deal with it. I dont judge people because I am not perfect although I try to do the right thing by everyone which sometimes comes back to bite me in the butt but I learn from it and move on. I have been single for almost 4 years now and yes I have some baggage just like everyone but I have learned how to use that to my advantage *** it hold me back. I am respectful, loyal, outgoing, fun loving, and love to laugh. I love to hug, kiss, cuddle and show affection to the man I am with. I am a hand holder and have no problem showing someone how I feel about them. Anything else you would like to know I am a open book and have no problem with it, just simply ask. I decided I am ready to start dating again. So hear I go. lol Something where we can talk and get a better feel for each other. I am pretty much up for anything like I said kinda go with the flow.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Funk Pop Indian Portuguese South American
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