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Lashanda, 49
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

Offline, last seen Thu, 06 Nov 2025 18:01:05

About Me

I just want to be happy like everyone else, really tired of all the games.So PLEASE be honest... I don't like liars, that is one thing that gets to me more than anything else. I'm an honest person and I expect the same in return, it just doesn't seem to happen all the time, which is sad : (.As for me, I'm a very passionate, very affectionate person, I love touch, hugs, kisses, being close to someone..and I'm not materialistic, never have been life's not about what kind of car you have, or objects you can own, it's about doing the right thing and being with the people you love, I love the little things in life. I enjoy being outdoors, being with family, my kids, and friends.. I love my job, but I love my time off as well, and want to enjoy every minute of it.I try to make the best of every situation, because lets be honest, that's all you can really do anyway..lolI'm not perfect, I make mistakes, like we all do, and I've had some very bad times along with the good ones, but we go on and try to make the best out ofthe situation and move on, so I try the best I can with what's given to me.I'm the type of person who likes to see what's around me, just get in the car and drive and see what's out there, look at things and wonder if anyoneelse sees the beauty in things that I see. I love thunderstorms! I love looking at the clouds, watching with amazement the power of storms, hearing the rain can be very romantic, well, when he had rain anyway : ) Nature is one of the most beautiful things in the world...I just want to find someone to share things with, to spend time with, to be there for and him be there for me... that's important I think..I want someone who I can call or just send a message to anytime of the day to say hello, or I'm thinking about you, or I miss you.. I love little things like that! Just sitting up all night talking, being close, sharing the day, or if it's been one of those days, just to share it with someone, and them with me..As far as dating goes, I think you should see what's inside a person as much as what's on the outside. I'm not a barbie doll, far from it, but I wouldn't want to be either, seems so many men picture the perfect woman in their minds and honestly, that's the only place she exsists, we all have faults, noone is perfect and I'm not looking for perfect, just the one that's perfect for me : ) I know that there has to be a physical attraction, but don't totally judge the book by the cover..Alot of the cover can change, the contents usually won't, just saying....And for music, I LOVE 80's rock!! I like alittle country, but in music, I have found I like all kinds, well, except rap, that makes my head hurt.. lol..I like looking at old houses, antiques, I even like looking at old head stones in the cemetary.. odd??.. I think it's interesting..But I believe if you enjoy who you're with, it doesn't matter that much what you are doing.. Just being together is amazing : ***Something simple

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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