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Clairene, 46
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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"Every woman has the exact love life she wants." ...one of my favorite movie lines ever. (Not the movie, just the quote.) I totally believe this. :) If you don't have kids, you won't understand me. I've had many loves in my life, and I'm not looking for the next love of my life. For me, things like that don't need to be searched for, they just happen.Ok, I'm sorry, but this totally needs to be said: It's not that I don't believe in soul mates, but in my world that happens over time... you have dinner with someone and have a good time, enjoy each other's company, like each other and become friends, want to hang around often and bounce thoughts around, one day you realize how important the other person has become in your life and how much you value them, etc... (It's a process.) So, those of you who want to meet face to face to determine whether I'm "the one," I'M NOT.Love at first site? I'm certain that it happens for some, but I also think that it's linked to a personality type, and my personality is such that I'm much too cautious for that. If my demeanor (and humor) comes off as sarcastic, or even a little crude, please understand that I am parenting a house full of boys. I am constantly surrounded by testosterone, fart jokes, stinky feet and damp toilet seats. *******************************************************************Sooo tired of the haters. If I haven't responded to you :EITHER: I got busy, sidetracked, got chatting with someone else, or had a lot of messages and didn't get to yours. I'm sorry. If you're so inclined to message me again, I'm good with that. OR: I don't feel we are a compatible match, but didn't know exactly how to tell you that. Please put things in perspective... you don't know anything about me from the few paragraphs I wrote, and couple of photos I posted. You don't know about my past, my history with men, my current life, or where I'm coming from. This in no way means that I don't think you are a good man or some other woman isn't lucky to have you in HER life. For example, if I read your profile and you're clearly very driven, focused, disciplined and intense... well, I spent many years as a working single mom, I am flexible, laid back, I roll with whatever comes my way.... Or, if you're a sports fanatic, I respect that, but every time I have watched a game - baseball, football, basketball, etc. - within minutes I find my mind wandering and I'm staring at the wall daydreaming. So, I'd (pretend to) watch a game with you on occasion, or go to one once in a while, but I am NOT gonna magically become someone who enjoys it! First off, let me just say I am not trying to have sex with you. I know there are women on this site who are just trying to take advantage of a guy and use him for sex, but I am not one of them! That's not what I'm looking for. I will take you out for a drink, cup of coffee, or dinner first.... get to know you a little bit.... you know what I mean...Ok, seriously, I can get along with and have an enjoyable time with just about anyone. If you wanna have dinner and chat, as though we're coworkers having lunch together, let me know, that's a good place to start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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House British South American
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