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Lexie, 46
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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I guess im a bit old school.. i believe in meeting someone, talking, and just get to know a person.. this whole thing about chemistry has been blown way out of proportion.. How do u know if there is any chemistry unless you really get to know someone.. to me a relationship starts as friends, because if its just all about sex or money, then theres nothing there to build on anyway, and it WILL FAIL! If your trying to just replace what you already had, then save a lot of time and energy and just go back to her! I'm looking for someone to enjoy life with, share experiences, goals, and happiness.. just say what you mean, not what you think someone else wants to hear and please don't say you want a relationship, when you really don't! ! If your looking for a one night stand or just an occasional weekend fling, then keep looking. I'm looking for a sincere person that is wanting a real relationship, not one where you call every now and then just disappear because you really didnt want a true relationship in the first place... I'm 45, ( not 25). I have 4 grown children, and I have custody of my two grandsons. One is 3 and other is 6. I have been in college the past yr and a half, and was employed until I got laid off. I took the summer off of school to find a job. . I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, I am capable of taking care of myself! I'm looking for someone that shares my same interest and goals in life. I am looking for someone who doesn't have a problem with children. I know kids can drive us all crazy at times, but we were all one. I try to give them as normal a life as I can and help to make their childhood memories good ones. I've been thru a lot and have learned to put it in my past and move forward with a new beginning. I don't do drama and don't want any! I'm very blunt and tend to speak my mind. I don't do drugs, I drink socially..I do smoke, but am trying to quit. I give a relationship 100% and expect the same... If your not looking for the same, save yourself and me the time... I love the outdoors, the beach, mountains, flea markets, and riding and exploring new places, lake, grilling, and with the right person it's even better! I'm a country girl, with flare! I love Football and enjoy watching the games.. So if your not into that keep looking.. I am looking for is a man With good morals and that is wanting the same in a woman, with goals in your life and if your more than 2 yrs younger than me, sorry im not into younger men.. i know its just a number to some, but it matters to me.. not into knowone thats over 5 yrs older either. i feel that with me having small children, with a man much older just couldnt handle the pressures of children.. If you think you are the one, then maybe you are, if not good luck fishing! Maybe dinner, somewhere we could talk and see if there is any connection or attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Fitness / Gym British German Mexican Thai Animation Martial Arts Mystery Sci-Fi
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