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Alexandra, 50
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

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About Me

Free spirited, funny, responsible lady. I have my own style (Bohemian/Hippy)and don't need to keep up with the latest trends or styles. I appreciate the simple things in life. I truly feel materialistic people are not happy people. I have been divorced for a while now and have no drama in my life. I have 3 rescue dogs that I just love so you must like dogs. I have a great sence of humor a bit sarcastic but you'll know by the sparkle in my eye. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm a great communicator and very compassionate. I always try to put myself in someone elses shoes. Don't judge others, I'm not God and only he has the right to Judge.Stay in the positive, no matter how hard life can be its always easier to get through if you find the good in it, if not find something humorous. When in an argument I DO NOT yell or scream, if for some reason we can't talk about it at the time then step away for a bit. Understand I am very easy going and dont sweat the small stuff. I expect the same in return so if your a screamer or an abuser do not repond. I am self relient and do not "need" a man in my life but it would be nice to have someone to share my life with. I do at times miss being in a relationship but I'm not going to just jump right into it. This whole internet dating is a little hard for me to do, so patiences please. Its not that I'm juggling men, I am a one man at one time kinda girl.My kids are all grown up its time for me to have some fun and get out there and meet new people and start a new chapter in my life. Ok this my be a clincher but I have to be honest, I love kids don't get me wrong but I would like to find someone who's kids are also grown.If you think you might be interested PLEASE contact me! I still have my Mom's voice in my head that tells me Girls DO NOT CALL BOYS so if your intereted send me a line. Something casual for the first date just to see if there is any chemistry, some place where we can have a conversation and not have to yell at each other to be heard.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Latin Pop Techno Craft Making Mexican South American Drama Sci-Fi Baseball
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am just a dorky person who loves to laugh and has a good heart. I care deeply about my friends and family. I am looking for someone who is caring, driven, compassionate, kind and can make me laugh. I always follow my *** work hard and I am willing to work even harder to fulfill my dreams. I have a lot to offer...in life, in a relationship and to myself. I know what I want because I have now learned what I don't want by process of elimination.No Momma's boys who still live at home and play hours of video gamesNo workaholics who don't make time for life and are content with that factNo one who makes excuses...lies to themselves and to me....constantly complains.....and doesn't have a backboneNo head games....I will run....fastI want someone with values and morals...someone who understands and appreciates mutual respectSomeone who was raised by decent and honest parentsSomeone who is intelligent but also has common senseSomeone who can spellBig shoes to fill....I don't think so....a real man will be my Cinderfella (told ya I was a dork ;) Stimulating conversation at a wine bar

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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  • Frederica from Elgin | Woman | 50 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello, thanks for stopping by. I'm a kind, easy going, warm-hearted woman looking for a man to share in some fun and adventure. I have many interests and I'm always open to new things. I have a great job that I have been doing for 17 yrs now and probably will stay with it until my boss retires. I hope to meet a nice man that I can spend some time with and perhaps this will develop into something more serious over time. I am a romantic lady and enjoy showing affection. If you feel there could be a connection feel free to message me. Please include a recent pic of yourself. Thanks!I have a diverse interest list. I am as comfortable in the country as I am in the city. I enjoy going to the beach in the summer with my daughter and son. They are now at the age that they do not need their mom around as much. So now it is time for me to find things to do with my spare time. Find a nice gentleman to start a new relationship with. I enjoy going to see a good band whether it be a rock band or a jazz/blues band. I enjoy going to tractor pulls and drag races as well. I also love cuddling up at home with that special man to a good movie or just talking about our day. I have a great sense of humor and love joking around. I have recently started back to the gym to get back into shape. Better late than never. Please have a picture when contacting me. It is only right that I know what you look like as you know what I look like. Thank you for stopping by and reading my profile. Take care and good luck with your fishing.PS: If you are married or living with someone and looking for someone for extra-marital fun, keep going. I am not into being the "other" woman. I am pretty flexible on what to do. We could go for drinks, coffee, or a walk. Lets discuss what we could do.

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