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Jaida, 50
United States, South Carolina, Elgin

Offline, last seen Tue, 28 Jul 2026 14:35:18

About Me

going to try this one more time. I am looking for a friendship first. that leads possibly a to a long term relationship. I am independent I live alone with my granddaughter. I work everyday. I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me financially I am looking for someone to spend time with. weekend trips, someone with whom I have a lot of common interests. what I do not want1. anyone who is married. has a girlfriend. separated. or newly divorced.2.aanyone who is t just looking for sex3.anyone who is a player and just wants their ego stroked4 anyone who is not ready for a relationship5. anyone who is not a gentleman what I do want;1. a gentleman2. a romantic.3. someone that knows if you treat a woman like a queen she will treat you like a king4. someone who likes children5 someone who is passionate6 someone who is looking for a committed relationship this is my last go around on here. please only the serious reply about me: I love younger than my years. and act younger than my years. I am romantic passionate sensual playful hard working independent and loyal. I enjoy the beach. hiking camping boating dining out. dining in. I love to cook but have no one to cook for. I am NOT a serial dater. would like to find someone who is ready to be in a committed relationship and not continually looking for something better on meetville. I want off this site but I'm not going to settle damn must be chemistry. and attraction. if you are someone that is ready to pursue a long term relationship and wants to be in love again, drop me a line. pun intended lol there's a lot more to me but I know you guys get bored reading. Lol Good luck in your search:) SunnyUpdate all pics are recent. Day at the beach or on a boat, nice outdoor seafood dinner, fried oysters, shrimp, lobster. mmmmm. a stroll down the beach at sunset, followed by some wine and either dancing or a blues or jazz club., or just coffee, or lunch. i like the man to handle the details on the first date based on what you take away from my profile.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Adult
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