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Valarie, 44

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About Me

I was married for 20 years, and have been divorced for for 2 years. I have been on a few dates here and there, but am really tired of men only wanting one thing from me. I am NOT looking for a one night stand or to be someones booty call, I am wanting a real gentleman that cares more talking to, spending time with me, and getting to know me more than getting in my pants. If you agree to these terms please read on.....I do have children and they are my life, everything I have done this far in my life has been for them. I like to talk, watch movies, & genealogy. When with someone I like to hold hands, go for walks, cuddle, and do just about anything that includes being together. I am hoping to find someone to grow old with eventually. My idea of a southern night includes swinging on the front porch with a glass of sweet tea and good company watching the stars & moon. I am a pony tail, glasses, and sweats get out and work country girl...so if all you want is classy that's not me, except if requested!If you are interested in getting to know me let me know. Casual night out catch drinks & talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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