Total users: 56,941,272 Online users: 204,740
Greta, 41
United States, South Carolina, Chester

Online

About Me

Where to start. Well, I guess at the beginning…I was born at a young age close to my mom (sorry, my bad sense of humor). We were adopted together. My parents have 13 grandkids, so I do come from a large family. I’m pretty close to all of them except my sister. (A story for another time)I’d like to think I’m a simple person. I’m not a materialistic person…meaning I’m satisfied with what I have. I own my home (well, the bank owns it and am trying to keep up with the payments….long story) been in my home for 6 years. I love animals and have 1 cat (had 2 dogs but had to put one down, he was almost 16, blind, deaf and peed everywhere and had to re-home my other dog of 10 years…again long story).I have 3 kids, my oldest daughter is 15 and a Junior (she will be doing running start this year…going to community college and getting her AA in addition to her high school diploma), my middle daughter is 12 and is going into the 7th grade and my youngest is my son and he’s 4. He’s my blessing in disguise. In ***I went back to school (for the second time…a story for another time) to get my AAS in Business Accounting. In June of ***I found myself very tired all the time and found out that I was pregnant. I had my son via c- I feel accomplished in knowing that despite the birth and divorce that I finished my goal and obtained my degree. I worked for 9 months in a job that I couldn’t stand, but had to stay there as it was my first job in 13 years (I was a stay at home mom for my girls). I was let go and a few months later I found the job I’ve been at for almost a year and a half. I’m an office manager/bookkeeper for a small company who teaches emergency management (basically teaches FEMA). I make travel arrangements…book hotels and rent cars for our *** don’t buy the flights, thank goodness. I order materials for the classes….student manuals, course papers, laminates…etc. I also do their books, putting my degree to good use. My job allows me to still be mom to my kids and is very flexible…I’m self employed.Some of my interests are quilting, although I haven’t done it in a while, fishing (salmon), camping, watching the Seahawks (BIG FAN!) and Mariners occasionally, and watching my kids do their activities. My oldest does color guard for her marching band (the flags at the front of the band); my middle was doing piano and is looking forward to doing track next year, and watching my son play soccer. He just started this year. All 3 of my kids played soccer but have moved on to other activities. I enjoy watching movies, however, haven’t been to the theater in a while. I don’t like going by myself. I believe the last movie I saw with my 2 oldest and their friends was the Hobbit. Good movie! My parents have a pool at their house and the kids and I visit it often in the summer. I enjoy walking, but wish I had a partner as it’s quite boring to go by myself. Take the kids you say?? I live on the out skirts of the city and not a lot of sidewalks and lots of traffic. Not really ideal for my little one. I try to keep a neat and tidy house, but with a 4 yr old, it’s hard sometimes. I try to get my kids to keep their rooms clean, but have failed. I don’t like clutter and it drives me nuts. I love music…Christian, 80’s love songs, country…I also love to ski, but blew my knee last year so until I can afford surgery, I’m sitting on the sidelines.I believe everything I have gone through over the years have brought me to where I am today. I’m a daughter of Christ. I strayed away from my faith which is when I met my (ex) husband. We were married at the local courthouse (our parents did not attend) and our marriage ended at the courthouse, 14 years later…LOL. After the birth of our oldest, I realized that we (mainly me) wanted our kids to grow up knowing Christ and the only way they would learn this, besides us teaching them, was to take them to church. We started attending the church where he grew up, but that only last a few years. We decided to try other churches, but he really never did, so I decided to take my daughter back to my home church. I have been there for the past 12 years. I’m involved with helping in the nursery every 5th Sunday. I try to attend every week, but don’t always make it. I would like to find a man who wants to be the leader of his family both spiritually and physically.I’m pretty much an open book; if you want to know anything…the adoption…the divorce…just ask. I will mention that I was not the one who wanted the divorce. My ex had 3 affairs and left when our son was 5 months old. I tried to make things work between us, lots of counseling with my pastor, but eventually had to let him go. I am a faithful woman who does not believe in cheating.Anyway, hope I haven’t bored you with my life story. May God grant you blessings.Couple more thing I'd like to add....One, if you are not a believer in Christ....please don't waste you're time. I probably won't respond.... Two, I'm not against moving...long distance relationships can work....if it's the right combination.... I'd say coffee somewhere and conversation, but am open to ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian French Portuguese Spanish
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Unice from Chester | Woman | 42 years old | Capricorn
    Unice

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm 42, divorced and the mom of two adorable boys, ages 7 and 9...I'm easy-going, emotionally healthy and secure in who I am and what I want. I would like to find a man who is confident, secure and values his integrity more than anything else. I'm hoping to fall in love but until then, I'll be grateful to find genuine friends.I love to get dressed up and go out but I'm just as happy in jeans and a tank top...I love old school rap and hip hop, dancing and shooting pool!!

    Chat
  • Londa from Chester | Woman | 43 years old | Leo
    Londa

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I enjoy rollerblading, hiking, and walks around the neighborhood or boardwalk. I have tried kayaking and SUP and loved both! I am much more of a water person over snow. I would love to travel, as I have not done very much of that thus far. I enjoy dining out whether it is a nice restaurant or a hole in-the-wall greasy spoon, does not matter. I am incredibly lucky to be a SD native, and come from a very close family. I am looking for a man that is intelligent, fit, caring, thoughtful, giving, and considerate. I have gone out with some guys on this site, but they seem to either be a party-boy that drinks way too much, doesn't consider pot a drug, and doesn't want to grow up, or they are looking for the next girl to hop into bed with. I am in search of a man that knows what he wants, has a working moral compass, and does not play games. He will also have time set aside for me- a couple of days a week. I work a lot of hours as I am my sole source of income. That means that I don't respond well to vague plans. A set day/time/place goes a long way with me!!Chemistry is very important to me. We need to be attracted to each other. Mentally and physically or it won't work. There has to be something... that undeniable spark. I love to laugh and find that laughter will get you through a lot. I have done the distance-dating, and it doesn't work for me. So if you live out of SD, I will delete. Please don't take offense, it is not what I am looking for so why waste everyone's time? Happy fishing, and I hope to hear from you soon!Ps. Two of the pictures are from ***, and two are from this last year. I look like my profile pictures. Please look like yours = ) Something or somewhere that we can talk and get to know one another.

    Chat
  • Therese from Chester | Woman | 43 years old | Gemini
    Therese

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I’ve been divorced for a few years and feel it\'s time to make new friends. I\'m a funny and sensitive person. I’d love to find someone who loves Christ. I’m not a religious, but a relationship person.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: