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Let me add...if u live with ur baby mom, dont contact me...Hey guys...I am 39 years young and looking for someone to be my best friend. I'm from NY...and yes have the attitude...but am also a genuine no bull kind of girl. I have 2 kids and they run my world! I'm looking for a man...a real man...that doesn't play games and knows how to treat a woman.!! I'm not a big go-out girl...but I do like to once in a while. I prefer to hang at home..cook out..swim..and go to bed early to share a lot of quality time. I hope I can find a good honest man to squeeze onto! Please do not contact me if your looking for a sex partner...lol I'm saving myself for that special someone!!! ***Seriously...only hit me up if your interested in a forever relationship... I'm tired of the serial daters!***Note to the men of the world: Just be honest!!! A strong woman can handle anything and should have the right to decide what is acceptable.... Stop lying... U wont get anywhere in life... past a first or second date...lol I like to go to a game/bowling/movies/dinner....pretty much i think first dates are over rated. It does not have to be spectacular! Just as long as we can spend a little time together...I haven't really dated in a long time...and I don't like that 1st time pressure...lifes tooooo short! All I really want out of a date is for a man to be himself! I don't get impressed easily...but I do appreciate!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Karis

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hey there!..About me – I am a happy, independent, outgoing girl with a positive attitude. I am confident, funny, easy going, and take good care of myself. I love spending time around the pool or veggin’ at the beach, but the Fall is my favorite time of year. I enjoy watching pro football/golf, grilling out, and taking advantage of a nice fire in the fireplace. I have 2 kids - I share joint custody of them every other week. No ex drama by the way, we are still friends and he is a good dad. I have only been married once - for 16 years. I like various types of music, usually alternative, dancehall reggae, and popular country. I believe that solid physical AND emotional chemistry is a must, one doesn’t work without the other. About you – I am hoping to find a great guy that wants to start out as friends with the possibility of a monogamous relationship down the road. Looking for an all around good man who also has a great sense of humor and southern boy charm. I would like to find someone that likes to go places and do things but is laid back, not someone that is high strung or has to be constantly on the go. If you enjoy skydiving, extreme sports, consider yourself to be a daredevil, or have the 'need for speed' or constant adventure we would probably not be a good match. A guy that enjoys being near the water, grilling out, or just relaxing with family and friends is more my style. Someone that is a great dad and is actively involved in the lives of his kids and is serious about finding that special person to share his life with. DEAL BREAKERS - I am NOT looking for someone that:- is fresh out of a marriage or long term relationship - has really young kids - is other than white - is unemployed (it has been my experience on this site that 'self employed' = unemployed most of the time, so be honest about your situation)- lives with his parents or other family members due to financial problems I could write a book and make millions on all the hilarious situations and psychos I have run into thru online dating. A few dates I have been on would be worthy of their own chapters! I come to the table free and clear of baggage and am in a good position to be a real partner.- I am not in the rescue business. Whatever we decide is comfortable.

  • Cherly

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Leaving this open for conversation..Ask and I will tell you! To be decided

  • Theressa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    What can I say, I'm a busy profesional with a thirst for adventure. I love to travel, close to home, or halfway around the world. I enjoy music, dance, theatre, movies, good books, laughs and stimulating conversation. I like to cook and enjoy entertaining friends who appreciate good food. I am comfortable in grubby sweats for gardening, but like to dress up for a nice evening on the town. I'm a native to the northwest, have lived in the tropics, but love days between mountain ranges and all our outdoors has to offer. I enjoy a day at the ball park, trip to the zoo or aquarium, and evenings listening to concerts in the park.I"m looking for someone to come home to at the end of each day's journey. A loving smile, warm hug, and playful heart. I'm looking for someone who wants to go out and do more, where companionship and good company make the experiences all the better.Drop me a note and lets go outside and play! I enjoy a good adventure. A good date gets us out where we can spend time talking and experiencing, be it at the ball park, ski slope, art gallery, or batting cage. Travel and adventure are much better enjoyed when shared. Dazzel me with a thoughtful home cooked meal over a fancy resturaunt any day.

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