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United States, South Carolina, Chesterfield

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About Me

Let me add...if u live with ur baby mom, dont contact me...Hey guys...I am 39 years young and looking for someone to be my best friend. I'm from NY...and yes have the attitude...but am also a genuine no bull kind of girl. I have 2 kids and they run my world! I'm looking for a man...a real man...that doesn't play games and knows how to treat a woman.!! I'm not a big go-out girl...but I do like to once in a while. I prefer to hang at home..cook out..swim..and go to bed early to share a lot of quality time. I hope I can find a good honest man to squeeze onto! Please do not contact me if your looking for a sex partner...lol I'm saving myself for that special someone!!! ***Seriously...only hit me up if your interested in a forever relationship... I'm tired of the serial daters!***Note to the men of the world: Just be honest!!! A strong woman can handle anything and should have the right to decide what is acceptable.... Stop lying... U wont get anywhere in life... past a first or second date...lol I like to go to a game/bowling/movies/dinner....pretty much i think first dates are over rated. It does not have to be spectacular! Just as long as we can spend a little time together...I haven't really dated in a long time...and I don't like that 1st time pressure...lifes tooooo short! All I really want out of a date is for a man to be himself! I don't get impressed easily...but I do appreciate!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Chinese Indonesian
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