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Sharleen, 43
United States, South Carolina, Chesterfield

Offline, last seen Sat, 29 Nov 2025 10:19:22

About Me

Hello,Im a single mama just trying the make it in this crazy world today. My life and and dreams have changed and so ihave i. I am a "NEW CREATURE" IN CHRIST" so what i once wanted or settled for is not an option anymore. I know that i am loved BY THE KING so being treated like and acting anyless would be hurtful not only to my FATHER but myself and my child. I hvae lived a rough life and have made alot of mistakes.. But i have been given a second chance and i m going to make it count. i have been single for 5 years. i was no good to myself so i couldnt be good anyone else,.BUT>> i believe i am ready to start living again. I am like i said in love with Christ and want more then anything a GOD FEARING man sitting proudly beside me at church. Please know im not by any means some snotty religious women.Actually im a a knid loving and FORGIVEN WOMEN.. My hopes and dreams are to help others feel the love that i was giev and show the hurting that there is a light and there is love and A SAVIOUR.. He pulled me out of the muck and mare and HE can do the same for them. I have a beautiful daughter that lives with me. that being said i cannot be dating a bunch of different men. I need to be a GOOD example to my little girl and not give myself away to just anyone.If i want her to make good chioces i have to start making them as well. i dont party. i dont mind going out but staying out is just not an option . been there done that and i honestly dont hhink i young enough anymore. i love all knids of music but i mostly listen to country and contemaray ,and rock Christain music. i need possitivity in my eyes heat and ears. , But i love to danceand would love to be danced with. well i would love to maybe start late afternoon with maybe coffee at starbucks and see if ther is any chemistry,amd a walk and talk9instead of a meet and greet)DAH,,,lol and then if everything goes well we an go to dinner and maybe some wine hopefully alot of laughter and next time maybe ill cook you dinner and make our expresso's or mocha for a night . Kepp it sweet and simple and who knows

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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